We come up with weird ideologies about sex and tune out what the Bible has to say we justify our actions. How far is too far? If we're asking, we've probably gone too far. But as believers, God's will for us is sanctification from sexual sin. His way is that we avoid sin through self control and God's warning is that there is no safe sex. God made sex -- it's intended to be good but within the boundaries of marriage. When we let sin warp our view of sex, we suffer the consequences of rejecting God. As believers, we are called to be set apart, to honor God with our bodies and to pursue character in Christ as encouraged by Paul in 1 Thessalonians 4.