Getting The Love You Want: Podcast #520

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Getting The Love You Want: Podcast #520

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Nov 19, 2019

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Cathy and Todd discuss Imago Dialogue as introduced by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt's book titled Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples and why it could help your relationships.

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Nov 19, 2019

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Titles in the series (27)

Zen Parenting is a weekly online radio discussion between a spiritual and emotional mom (Cathy Cassani Adams) and a logical and practical dad (Todd Adams). Anyone else living a life like that?

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Should I Let My Kid Fail? A Conversation with Michelle Icard- Episode 740: Todd and Cathy talk with Michelle Icard, the author of '14 Talks by Age 14' and her new book, '8 Setbacks that Can Make a Child a Success.' They discuss why we try to manage everyone's emotions, the challenges of letting our kids experience failure, by Zen Parenting Radio
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Rescuing Our Sons- An Interview with Dr. John Duffy: Part 2- Episode #747: In Part Two of our three-part series with Dr. John Duffy, author of 'Rescuing Our Sons,' John shares why emotional intelligence is crucial for boys. He tells a story about one of his clients who took a gender studies class and explores the 'Taylor Swif... by Zen Parenting Radio
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Rescuing Our Sons- An Interview with Dr. John Duffy: Part 1- Episode #746: Cathy and Todd interview Dr. John Duffy, author of 'Rescuing Our Boys,' discussing his book and the state of boys in America. In the first part of a three-part series, they explore John's experiences while talking with boys during therapy, by Zen Parenting Radio
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52 min listen
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