Episode 153: Anxiety's a Goat

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Episode 153: Anxiety's a Goat

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Jan 7, 2014

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TOPIC: The thoughts we think. And think. And think.

This week, Dan and Merlin talk about anxiety, compulsive thoughts, and how to at least crack an air hole in a big problem.

Way of the future.

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Jan 7, 2014

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Back to Work is an award winning talk show with Merlin Mann and Dan Benjamin discussing productivity, communication, work, barriers, constraints, tools, and more. Hosted by Merlin Mann & Dan Benjamin.

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Episode 153: Anxiety's a Goat

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