In this episode I talk with Layla Martin, a zany and wise, sex teacher who will remind you of your brilliance in the bedroom. From handjobs to female self-pleasure practices, this one is full of powerful sex practices for a couple ready to deepen their sex life.  SHOWNOTES What happened in Layla’s childhood that started her path to helping people improve their sex lives? [5:30] Layla shares the biggest struggle and opportunity she sees in couples regarding sexuality. [10:40] What do women and men each struggle the most with sexually? [12:00] A simple exercise a woman can do to improve her sexual experience?  [20:10] A simple three-part exercise to do after sex that will deepen your sexual connection [26:15] What to do when a woman has a stronger sex drive than her partner. [32:35] How to respond when a guy loses his erection? [33:15] Should a woman have sex even if she’s not wanting to? [34:05] Layla explains one practice to transform a woman’s orgasms and sex life. [36:40] Layla’s take on threesomes and polyamory. [37:15]