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    Get Your Ex Back for Women: The Ultimate Guide on How to Start Dating Your Ex-Boyfriend Again and Get Him Back, Including Relationship Advice to Keep the Love Alive
    Get Your Ex Back for Women: The Ultimate Guide on How to Start Dating Your Ex-Boyfriend Again and Get Him Back, Including Relationship Advice to Keep the Love Alive
    Get Your Ex Back for Women: The Ultimate Guide on How to Start Dating Your Ex-Boyfriend Again and Get Him Back, Including Relationship Advice to Keep the Love Alive
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    Get Your Ex Back for Women: The Ultimate Guide on How to Start Dating Your Ex-Boyfriend Again and Get Him Back, Including Relationship Advice to Keep the Love Alive

    By Dara Montano

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    About this ebook

    If you can´t stop thinking about your ex and you´ve had enough of suffering from heartbreak, if you need help getting your man back successfully, and you want to learn the secret to lasting love, look no further!

    Do you know why your relationship has ended? You might think of many reasons, but most of them would be wrong. Unfaithfulness, being ghosted, anger, jealousy, unhealthy attachment, loss of interest… These might be the causes of a break-up, but they are just the symptoms of deeper issues. Is it possible to overcome them? At times, it may seem not. But with the rights tools and skills, it absolutely is!

    Relationships are hard work, there is no doubt about it. They can be a real challenge. You have to really know the language and mastery of love. At times, you may wonder – is it worth going through the "dance of exes" and become attached again? If you´re reading this, then you obviously think it is. Once you have realized that, you have made the first step of re-establishing a revitalized, loving, and long-lasting relationship or marriage.

    After reading this book, you will never again feel lost, confused, or devastated!

    How? Think of this book as a practical guide that will support you through all the stages you need to go through in order to turn this devastating loss from the past into a love that will last. We all have insecurities and anxieties, and these can be especially heightened during painful break-up periods. The fear of abandonment can be crippling. This book can help you manage and overcome it in less than seven weeks!

    There are so much expert advice and tips for people going through painful separations. It can feel so overwhelming. Well, this book offers experience-based knowledge and powerful practices. It is a treasure house of principles and useful ideas and suggestions that will help you change your harmful patterns. And most importantly, it contains a revolutionary 5 step-by-step formula that cannot go wrong.

    The great Maya Angelou said: I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better? After reading this book and following good advice, you will also know much better.

    Why? Because you will find complete and valuable answers to all the mind-numbing questions that have troubled you so long:
    - When is the right time to embark on this difficult journey of getting back your ex?
    - How to drop the victim act and become the empowered woman?
    - How to learn patience and stop banging your head against a wall?
    - How to let go of anxiety and negative thinking?
    - Why is having a courageous, objective, and creative outlook and behaving like a lady critical for success?
    - How to regain trust in a broken relationship?
    - How to achieve the balance in the power struggle between couples in any relationship, new, recovering, or a future one?
    - How to eliminate conflicts in a way that will benefit you?
    - How to achieve true intimacy and ensure a stable and loving relationship, after making up with your ex?
    - How to make him commit to you?

    The chances of getting back your ex are working in your favor, even after years of not being together. A happily ever after is not just a fairytale, it can become reality. All you need to do is equip yourself with the valuable knowledge, tools, and methodologies described in this book and follow the rules.

    True love exists and you deserve it! Don´t waste any more time, get this book and start working on getting your ex back immediately!

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherDara Montano
    Release dateFeb 14, 2021
    ISBN9781393004103
    Get Your Ex Back for Women: The Ultimate Guide on How to Start Dating Your Ex-Boyfriend Again and Get Him Back, Including Relationship Advice to Keep the Love Alive

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    • 5/5
      This book taught me a lot about how people behave in relationships. Perhaps the material is predictable, but I found it to be well-written and comprehensive. When people lose confidence, they begin to walk away. It's understandable that one side would have no trouble discarding anything about which they have no interest about. This book, I believe, is relevant to anyone who is curious about what transpired in a relationship and help them get back into a truer and healthier relationship. It will give you a new viewpoint, and who knows, you might begin to see your relationship bloom differently as a result.

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      Love this book! Very informative and reliable, it teaches us how to take things slowly when it comes to relationship. Building a relationship does not work one way, but it requires both sides. It reminds us that strong relationship cannot be built with flirts and games, but with trust and understanding. Highly recommended book!
    • 5/5
      This book is interesting. Experiencing heartbreak is not easy to handle but overcoming it and learn from it is one step closer for a better version of yourself. This book provides all aspect of a relationship, it teaches to take situation slowly but surely. This book can be able to give realization to the person who read this, even for someone who has no experience at all can learn a lot and they can take this a very useful information if ever the time will come they enter a relationship. A very informative and reliable book not only for woman but also for men. Highly recommended!
    • 5/5
      This book is very advisable to read. It's the concept of second chances to correct the mistake or doing the things you didn't do when you're in that relationship. This book provides ways about getting back your ex in proper process and gives advices on how to overcome your previous conflicts and differences so that the relationship will be sweeter in the second time around. Great book! Highly recommended.
    • 5/5
      The book is fantastic because it inspires you to be your best self. What people should do is avoid doing old bad habits, and to live a positive and fulfilling life. It's about everyone who wants to live their best life, including those that haven't experience the traumatic effects of break up.
    • 4/5
      I've been in my worst self after a break up with my ex before. Done things that any woman in their right minds won't be doing and it seriously sucks to think about those things. If only I have read this book before, maybe I have dealt with things in a more mature way. But well, things happened and I'm somehow thankful I didn't get him back coz my life is at its happiest now. For everyone though, who's still single and wanted to get their ex back, I recommend this book. This will help you and guide you properly on handle such situation without looking desperate. Great book!
    • 4/5
      I like how this book gives the women's perspective when it comes to break-up and getting their exes back. I'm no woman but the information I got here was somehow helpful because now I know what might offend women and what are the things they consider when getting back with their exes. Definitely a perfect book for girls that haven't move on from their ex yet.
    • 5/5
      I just finished read this book and it is very easy to follow. I haven't implemented the steps yet since my wife is moving out in a few days and we still need to talk about a few things, but I hope the steps work!
    • 5/5
      If you're looking for a sign to get back with your ex but don't know how... this is it! Grab this book, prep yourself and get ready to steal your ex away from being a bachelor again.

      This book is a rich resource of lessons learned from a direct personal experiences as well as those whom the author have tried to help. Basically, it teaches women how to make their exes come back to them with elegance and class. There's also a part in this book where you understand how to think, act like a man which will help you recognize more what your man wants, why they acting like the way they're acting and most especially learning their trust issues. We know that there's a difference between being a woman and being a man. This book stated that for better understanding. Where, for example, women base their decisions on love most of the time.

      Remember, " It takes two to tango, and the breakup could not have happened without some contribution from you. Take accountability for your role in the breakup and find solutions to make sure you don’t repeat those mistakes."
    • 5/5
      Every woman, especially those women that are in a relationship, are probably experiencing insecurities, doubts, jealousy and insecurities : lots of it. We can't deny the fact that mot break-ups happen because of either of the reasons mentioned above. But these traits can't be taken away from women, because we are all entitled to feel emotions like those. The only thing is that we should have it under control, unless we will tend to break whatever relationship we have with other people, mostly the intimate relationship. To help us deal with these kinds of inadequate poor feelings, Dara Montano, a professional adviser about these kinds of matters, empowers women and helps them to work with themselves more. In a way, if a woman is confident enough to believe in her self, then there would be no much of problems if she want to get her ex-boyfriend back. No, this book isn't a guide for women to commit infidelity if the man is already in a relationship with another woman. That's why this book is also written in the manner that will teach women of acceptance, because that's the most important thing among everything that is needed to be considered in order to get back prominently. I love the part when Montano, the author, talked to women, as if hand in hand, to work with their psychological behaviours. There is nothing to be disliked in this book because books like this just tells women that they can do anything, with full strength, if they wanted to accomplish something and take action of it.
    • 5/5
      This book just taught me how to be honest with myself especially with my feelings. It basically says that if you love someone then you should fight for it no matter what it takes. That there's no harm of trying in fixing a broken relationship if you can still save it. Don't waste a chance being happy if this is what you think that will make you happy. I've learned a lot from this book, giving me confidence as a woman. So, don't waste time. If you're having a problem with your relationship right now and still want to fix it, this book may help. I assure that.
    • 5/5
      Seeking love?

      Romance that ended in a snap? Worry not this book is just for you! The ideas, the science behind it, the men and understanding everything around the topic gives it a whole meaning to a second time around.

      It is also a book that the author brings her experience in that makes it extra exciting, also this book talks about reconnection and keeping that love alive and many more topics that can help you discover yourself and learn from your past to bring it to your future.

      This book is captivating. I would like to read more from the author.
    • 5/5
      Feel so down because your ex dump you? Then this is your chance to get him back to you without further hurting yourself. This book will help you getting back your ex and give you some tips and advices that can fully make your lovelife like a fairytale. So what are you waiting for, read this book so that you will not feel ashamed and devastated.
    • 5/5
      Strangers to love then to break up to strangers again. It's undeniably a circle of love. It goes round and round and around again until you just wanted to be done with it. But hey listen.

      This book talks a lot about relations, emotions, affections the sense of belonging to someone that maybe you have found but life happens and you need to go on your own ways.

      Its all here the science behind break up, what to do, what not to do, recovering from your failed romance, techniques and methods that works for you to grab that second chance in love and how to definitely get you ex back to you.

      An excellent book. I really like it.
    • 4/5
      The book appears to be so personal to me especially the way it is written. I like how the author gave an insight to the differences of men and women, and how they handle break-ups differently. This book does not just give you tips right on your hand to get your ex back. It does not dismiss the thought that if it is really needed and healthy for you to reconnect with your ex partners. Do you or should you want that person back? That is the real deal. Great job for the author to discuss case to case scenarios. But personally, there's no getting back if the red flags are showing.
    • 5/5
      This book teaches us not only to learn how to get our ex back but also teaches us how to love our self first, how to evaluate our mistakes in the relationship, how to forgive your ex and your self, and how to restore the trust and the love that was lost after that painful break-up. It gives us a 5-step process for getting your ex back but it actually gives us a lot of pointers on how to not be succumb in pain and regrets, and encourages us to be optimistic and proactive in a relationship. I love how this takes us to understand even the mistakes that our ex-bf committed and learning to forgive them... although its too late for a reconciliation.
    • 5/5
      When I first saw the book title, my friends automatically popped up to my creative mind. Like hello? They're so obsess with their exes as if they're worth it. If you have the same situation like my crazy friends who are still into their exes, I am highly recommending you this material.
      Honestly, its not that easy for us women to do everything just to get our exes back. We're women anyway, we are not supposed to do that. But in some cases, doing that is somehow needed, lol.
      With that, you can use this material as your guide. This will give you the BEST suggestions to a win/win situation. It has the step-by-step process in doing so, how exciting right!? More importantly, this will help you in setting goals for you to have a lively relationship.
    • 5/5
      This book takes women one step ahead seduction to getting their exes back. Mentioned are the target competencies, the author subtlely elaborated how women should take advantage of the charismatic appeal in order to seduce men of their choice, especially their exes whom has once been over them and their love affair. This book is not just about seduction itself, nor being competitive enough to get their exes back because the catch lies in the author building the confidence of her readers. The author navigated through the capabilities of women as well as debugged the stigmas about the things women cannot do. By the end of the book, the author also noted that in order to hook the attention of someone you like, you must believe in your ability to do so. The good thing about this book is that it's not that too difficult to be understood even by the young minds who wish to see themselves improve better. By some of the passages the author referred to the involvement of the psychological use of women and how it will affect them and give them good chemical imbalances when they tend to be successful by their seduction. This is a perfect guide, most especially for women, who not just wish to have the person of their dreams but also to build a higher self-esteem without cost losing anything
    • 5/5
      This book actually surprises me at first. Just by reading the title, I was like "Why do you need to get your ex back? For what then?" The initial reaction exposed my bitter side as someone who firmly believes in the notion, "once finished, it's final". But since, I was intrigued a lot I tried to read and understand what the book wants to put emphasis on. This time, I was surprised how this book made me realize of things about relationship. It opens me to a new perspective and discover its different angles. What makes it best is because the book was made originally from the author's personal experiences. You can feel the sincerity and the realness of the advices written to it. I can say that the reading experience is fun yet informative. I recommend this book to everyone who has been experiencing a dilemma in their current relationship. This book is the answer, I guarantee it.
    • 5/5
      Dara Montano is telling us one thing-- to believe in second chance. Healing takes time and so does starting a relationship AGAIN. This book is the ultimate reminder that being in a relationship is not only made up of happy days and we have to be persistent enough if we want those happy days to happen, for the second time around.
    • 5/5
      In my review in this book. I found that some of us are taken rushed opportunities for serious relationships with people we lust, but whom we don’t love.The flings are fun for a while, but they can lead to serious and successfull relationship. After long, they will noticed thereselves a huge blank between the feelings of fleeting love they had felt at first to where they ended up: still “trying on” the relationship and being unsure of his true sentiments. Even though they had told thereselves otherwise, and thought that they was “the right person for each one”. Some of us are thinking how two persons get attracted by each other. In my opinionbecause many of us focus more on being practical. But in this book I read, you will know the true value of ex. An ex who despises your ability to be with him again and be able to love him again. This is a story or narrative of two people looking for where you can have time you realized the mistakes and time you wasted. Time can changed even feelings too.
    • 5/5
      "Breakups are never, ever fun. Breakup periods are marked by anger, tears, messy night outs with people you would never have imagined going out before the breakup, emotional eating, and everything else horrible and agonizing that fit between the listed items."

      Dara Montano got it absolutely right. Breakups will never EVER gonna be fun. In this book, she tells every hardship women got into when breaking up with their exes. It's your go to guide in order to get your ex back. Every detail is meticulously explained. The steps discussed is concise and clear. Reading this is both fun and informative. This book might be the perfect tool to help you in having your ex back into your life.
    • 5/5
      Interesting book to read. The good thing that my wife has no ex hehehe! Kidding aside, this book teaches us how to be true to ourselves and that relationship stay strong if we are honest and know how to communicate well with out partner. I highly recommend this book, very informative and reliable.

      1 person found this helpful

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    Get Your Ex Back for Women - Dara Montano

    © Copyright 2020

    All Rights Reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form without permission in writing from the author. Reviewers may quote brief passages in reviews.

    Disclaimer: No part of this publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, mechanical or electronic, including photocopying or recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, or transmitted by email without permission in writing from the publisher.

    While all attempts have been made to verify the information provided in this publication, neither the author nor the publisher assumes any responsibility for errors, omissions or contrary interpretations of the subject matter herein.

    This book is for entertainment purposes only. The views expressed are those of the author alone, and should not be taken as expert instruction or commands. The reader is responsible for his or her own actions.

    Adherence to all applicable laws and regulations, including international, federal, state and local laws governing professional licensing, business practices, advertising and all other aspects of doing business in the US, Canada, UK or any other jurisdiction is the sole responsibility of the purchaser or reader.

    Neither the author nor the publisher assumes any responsibility or liability whatsoever on the behalf of the purchaser or reader of these materials. Any perceived slight of any individual or organization is purely unintentional.

    Introduction

    Love is one of the most significant and profound emotions of human beings. Feeling loved and having a sense of belonging are essential requirements for a meaningful and fulfilling life. 

    While there are various kinds of love, most of us eagerly seek love in a romantic relationship more than the others. The need for emotional and physical connection with a romantic partner could be inherent. However, the ability to form a strong and sustained relationship is learned. 

    Scientific evidence suggests that our ability to form stable relationships starts in our infancy, which is the first and foremost bond that we make with our caregivers who feed, clothe, and protect us. So, we all work hard to create and establish long-standing romantic relationships. 

    Yet, breakups happen frequently as well. Breakups are never, ever fun. Breakup periods are marked by anger, tears, messy night outs with people you would never have imagined going out before the breakup, emotional eating, and everything else horrible and agonizing that fit between the listed items. 

    If you are reading this, then it means you seek help, and seeking help is the most effective way of solving problems. This book contains a 5-step formula that has worked wonders for many women who have successfully gotten their exes back, including me. Yes, the ideas and suggestions given here are based on personal experiences. 

    When my boyfriend broke up with me, I thought my life was over. My initial reaction was that of absolute shock, and I lived like a zombie and automaton for a week, not even believing that my relationship is broken - lying to myself that he would be back home soon.

    But, even after a couple of weeks when my boyfriend did not return, I realized it’s really happening. Then, I started the second phase of my breakup session. I stopped going out, preferring to spend time alone and mourning over my breakup in different ways, especially binge-eating and binge-watching romantic TV shows. 

    Suddenly, I decided I needed to do something about it. But, instead of taking things slowly and calmly, I started sending him highly emotional texts; first, begging him to return, then threatening him, and then groveling so much that I felt disgusted with myself. Nothing happened, except the pain of the breakup got excruciatingly agonizing, and I was sinking into despair. 

    It was during such a low period in my life that my best friend came to my help. She first brought me back to reality and showed me the way to stabilize my life, after which both of us started looking out for relationship experts who can help me get my ex back. I tried many of the tricks and tips that were shared by numerous experts. Some seemed to work well for a while before turning sour, some others did not even take off, and some others had a reverse effect and drove my ex further away from me. 

    Confused and bewildered by the multitude of tips, options, and suggestions from various sources, I decided to take a step back and study each of these methods in detail. I made copious notes of my journey, writing down my experiences, thoughts, and emotions as I tried as many ideas as possible, eliminating those that did not work, fine-tuning those that worked, and more. I filled many books with the outcomes of my direct experiences and the learning I had from them.

    After I got my ex back, I had forgotten about these notes. I was reminded of them when another friend approached me for help with a nasty breakup she was going through. As I delved into my notes and tried to steer my friend’s get-back-my-ex journey, I realized I have a treasure house of experience-based knowledge that can help many others out there. 

    It is easy to understand and relate to people who share my philosophy of life and help them get back on their feet during tumultuous times, just like how others helped me get back on my feet. This book is a rich resource of lessons learned from my direct personal experiences as well as those whom I have tried to help. 

    It is easy to connect with your sense of helplessness, desperation, and rage; when you feel powerless to do anything about a breakup, you know deep in your heart is not right. This comprehensive roadmap will guide you through your difficult but possible journey of getting your ex back not because you need him, but because you deserve each other, thanks to the limitless love, affection, and concern you have for each other. 

    As you read, you will find helpful and resourceful answers to the following mind-numbing questions:

    How is it possible to get your ex back when you don’t even know where to begin?

    Why is a courageous, objective, and creative outlook critical to get your ex back?

    How to handle the stubborn attitude of I need my ex back, and I will do anything to get him back.

    How to win (or balance) the power struggle in any romantic relationship, broken or otherwise?

    How to make your relationship happy and meaningful after you get your ex back?

    The most important thing for you to remember as you start on your challenging journey is to know that you are not alone. This book will be your guide as I share my experience of starting out as doubtfully as you are doing right now and finishing off with a great flourish. My ex is now my husband, and both of us feel happy in a relationship that is far more enlightened and meaningful than it was before the breakup. 

    So, go on and start your journey as you equip yourself with relationship techniques and skills that will not only help you get your ex back but also aid in enhancing the strength of your relationship. 

    PART 1: Breakup Psychology and Survival

    Understanding and clarity of thought is the trigger to finding solutions to any problem in the world. The same holds good for breakups too. If you don’t know what went wrong, how can you ever begin to set things right? Therefore, taking a step back ward is essential to moving forward. 

    If you want to fight the battle to get your ex back, the starting line is understanding the breakup psychology followed by surviving the initial few days, which can really be a struggle. There is no doubt that the first few days will be a struggle. However, with some help, especially from your own grit and determination, it is possible to overcome these challenging days and come through not unscathed but stronger than before.  

    Let us start with why relationships end. 

    Why It Ended

    Reasons for breakups are not only numerous, but each type of breakup can have layers of differences depending on the existing psychology of the relationship, as well as the mindset of each of the individuals, not to mention a multitude of external factors that you may never be able to control. 

    Interestingly, some relationship breakups can happen for very frivolous reasons. For example, neither of the partners can’t pinpoint what went wrong. One of the partners decided to break up for no apparent reason. The lack of self-awareness could be an underlying reason in such cases.

    For example, counselors are known to come across couples who break up because the man in the relationship said, I broke up with my girlfriend because I believed I didn’t like her anymore. 

    Before we go into the various reasons why breakups can occur, one critical point to remember is emotional reactions (sometimes, even seemingly unreasonable to you) are normal. After all, emotions are an integral part

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