Why Is This Sex Book Different from All Other Sex Books?: A Parent’s Guide to Embracing Sexuality Through Jewish Wisdom
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The heritage has beautiful answers to help parents integrate sexual learning and Jewish wisdom to build pride in a tradition that values healthy sexuality. The author takes Judaism’s sex-positive values and applies them to our modern world. The book is written for parents of all ages of children, from infants to high school, to tackle the age-old questions children ask, like: Where do I come from? Why is my body changing? Am I normal? When is it OK to have sex? How do I know when I’m in love? I think I may be gay; what should I do?
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Why Is This Sex Book Different from All Other Sex Books? - Meryl Slipakoff Cohen, M.Ed., LCSW
Why Is This Sex Book Different From All Other Sex Books?
A Parent’s Guide to Embracing Sexuality
Through Jewish Wisdom
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Meryl Slipakoff Cohen, M.Ed., LCSW
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Table of Contents
Introduction
1. Jewish Values and the Six Points
2. Early Childhood
3. Early Elementary
4. Puberty
5. High School
6. V’Shinantam L’Vanecha
About the Author
Introduction
It is not a secret that Jewish institutions are struggling to instill Jewish identity and Jewish pride in our youth. One great way to deepen Jewish youths’ understanding of their heritage would be to tap into our traditions of sexual learning. There are some amazing lessons right at our fingertips—and they provide a wonderful buffer to our sexually permissive and confusing secular culture. Judaism is one of the most positive religions on sexuality, and it gives language that is both responsible and reassuring, both moral and sane. Sex sells everything else, so why not use it to sell Jewish identity?
For the last 30 years, I have been teaching and counseling professionals, educators, parents, and young people about sexuality. As a secular sexuality trainer, educator, and therapist, I’ve always tried to be open, honest and balanced in discussing sex, love, and relationships. I’ve consistently denounced the unrealistic just say no
programs taught in the majority of American schools the last few decades. Since, as I like to quote, more vows of abstinence break than condoms,
I’ve instead focused on providing young people medically accurate information and the tools they need to make healthy choices.
But even the better sex-ed programs leave the values part of the discussion to the family—as they should. Our society is an amalgam of different cultures and moral values, and it’s the parents who are responsible for passing on their own beliefs to their children. Unfortunately, many parents—including Jewish ones—get embarrassed and conflicted when having discussions about sexuality and