Confessions of a Fat Cosmo Girl: How I Lost 122 Pounds & Kept It Off & How You Can Too
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You are not a failure. And you are not alone. You are being scammed by a system that promises quick fixes that fix nothing and sells you money-sucking programs that do nothing but fuel overeating. At each meal, 93 million overweight American adults and 14 million overweight children and adolescents risk their lives. More than 300,000 die unnecessarily every year from obesity-related diseases.
Hazel Dixon-Cooper was a size 22 woman in a size 2 world until she dumped the weight-loss industry, discovered how food companies lie, and learned that doctors rarely know more about nutrition than we do.
Confessions of a Fat Cosmo Girl...
• Examines the most popular weight-loss programs and reveals the truth about why they fail.
• Confronts the medical profession’s solution of slice-and-dice bariatric surgery.
• Debunks the deceptive benefits of fad diets and over-the-counter weight-loss products.
• Explores sugar addiction and how it contributes to every major life-threatening disease.
• Shows you how to clear your life of toxic food, toxic people, and your own toxic beliefs.
• Proves the life-saving benefits of moving to a plant-based diet.
• Offers a 21-day challenge that will change your life.
Hazel Dixon-Cooper
Hazel Dixon-Cooper has been a professional astrologer for more than twenty-five years. She is the author of the Rotten Day humorous astrology book series. She has written astrology articles and columns for a variety of newspapers and magazines, including Cosmopolitan magazine’s Bedside Astrologer column. She is a popular guest on a wide variety of international, national, and regional radio programs.
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Confessions of a Fat Cosmo Girl - Hazel Dixon-Cooper
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Confessions of a Fat Cosmo Girl:
How I Lost 122 Pounds & Kept It Off & How You Can Too
© 2021 by Hazel Dixon-Cooper
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ISBN: 978-1-64293-638-4
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Contents
Introduction: Stop Killing Yourself
Chapter 1: The Elephant in the Room
Chapter 2: Mind Games
Chapter 3: Change Begins in Your Head, Not on Your Plate
Chapter 4: The Shame Game
Chapter 5: It’s Only One Day
Chapter 6: Losing for All the Wrong Reasons
Chapter 7: Falling for Every Fad
Chapter 8: Weight Watchers, Nutrisystem & Jenny Craig: The Beasts That Will Not Die
Chapter 9: The Great American Medicine Show
Chapter 10: A Legacy of Poison
Chapter 11: Obesity and Food Addiction
Chapter 12: Know What You’re Eating
Chapter 13: Make the Change
Chapter 14: The Twenty-One-Day Challenge
RECIPES
Quick & Easy Breakfasts
Interchangeable Lunch & Dinners
Extras
Endnotes
Acknowledgments
About The Author
Introduction
Stop Killing Yourself
As I was writing this book, the world suffered through one of the most horrific pandemics in history. Even with our modern health care systems, medications, and scientific expertise, we were all vulnerable to a new threat to which no one was immune. The daily news reports and posts I read on social media reinforced how much our mindset matches our beliefs. People who refused to respect physical distancing and denied the danger posed by the virus caused only more damage. Denying the facts about the harm you’re doing to your body with the foods you eat is just as dangerous. Being obese increased both the severity of COVID-19 and the chances of dying. ¹
During that time, I read countless posts and blogs and articles about how to raise immunity with proper nutrition and about the nutrient-rich foods found in a plant-based diet. Every piece of advice pointed to the simplest of actions: eat more vegetables, grains, and plant-based whole foods. Nothing is a 100 percent guarantee against illness. But keeping your body free of the toxins and chemicals found in processed foods while fueling it with food that boosts your well-being will always give you a better chance of living healthier and protecting yourself from any disease.
As a child, maybe you were told to clean your plate even though you were full. Perhaps you got a cookie as a reward or to soothe you when you skinned your knee. Perhaps you were told you should
eat this and shouldn’t
eat that. Maybe you didn’t get enough food or love and you ate to fill an emotional hole. Perhaps you’re stuffing your face to stuff down the anger and helplessness you feel.
You might have been raised on fried food, fast food, or junk food and think you can’t live without it. Maybe you were told that you inherited the family fat gene and there’s nothing you can do to lose weight, or maybe you think that food is the only thing that can make you feel good. Forget it. These are just more excuses to keep you from becoming healthy.
I’m going to show you how I stopped automatically reaching for food and how you can recognize that nasty voice in your head for who and what she is and talk her down. I’ll help you understand how to rewire the pathways that form unhealthy behavior patterns and create new, positive ones.
Maybe you have tried Weight Watchers, Jenny Craig, Nutrisystem, or any one of the hundreds of weight-loss programs on the market and were unsuccessful each time. Maybe you’ve tried joining a gym or watching online exercise videos and were as unsuccessful at sweating off what you ate that day as you were with the weight-loss programs. Perhaps you are considering bariatric surgery or have had it and are gaining back the pounds. Every ad, every weight-loss consultant, even your doctor has promised you an easy fix to your long-term food abuse. Forget it. There’s no such thing.
The $80 billion weight-loss industry is designed to ensure you fail. You are obsessed with food, and they know it. They profit by keeping you obsessed. If you were healthy, they’d close their doors. So stop blaming yourself. All these miracle cures, including the big three—Weight Watchers, Nutrisystem, Jenny Craig—advertise long-term success. Yet, according to a study published by the National Institute of Health, losing 10 percent or more of your body weight and keeping it off for at least one year is considered the standard for successful weight loss in obese individuals.
After that time, the majority of people regained weight no matter what program they had tried.²
Further, the chances of keeping the weight off for five years or more is about 5 percent. This 95 percent long-term failure rate is what no commercial weight-loss program will tell you. This book will expose the propaganda you’ve heard from the weight-loss industry, from the ads on TV, and from medical and fitness professionals.³
You will learn:
•How the weight-loss industry keeps you fat.
•The truth about the feed-your-obsession snack foods they push you to buy.
•The diet-speak vocabulary that’s designed to make you think getting healthy is a snap.
•The eat-the-foods-you-love story that leads you down the greasy path to illness, or worse.
You cannot eat Calorie-Rich and Processed foods (CRAP) and ever expect to kick the cravings. The weight-loss industry tricks you with portion control. Sure, if you eat less of anything you will lose weight. You will not lose your cravings for fat, carbs, and sugar. As soon as you’re milked for all the money you can afford, you quit. Then, the weight piles on again because you still crave the junk and can no longer control yourself.
You gain back every pound and more, and then renew the mail-order meatloaf or head to a meeting for a dose of don’t-worry-you-can-lose-it-again. Sure, you can. You will also gain back every pound because they all fail to teach you how to change your mindset. You can stay in this endless cycle until you’re dead, which you will be if you don’t flip off your fat switch for good. Or you can jump off the fat wagon and take responsibility for your health and your life. No one can do it for you.
No one could do it for me either, and believe me, I used every dodge in the book of self-deception. My pig-outs, cop-outs, and brain scuttle to avoid seeing the truth are all here. You’ll recognize them because sneaking and cheating and lying are universal. I understand the panic you feel when you’re anxious to lose, and the frustration when you repeatedly fail. I know what it feels like to hide food and lie to family, friends, doctors, and, worse, to myself. There isn’t anything you have done that I haven’t.
Feeling like a failure—sometimes desperate, sometimes defiant—I was always guilty because I knew how to lose weight but couldn’t keep it off. I understand going to the biggest checker in the grocery line because you can’t endure the side-eye from a cashier looking at your overloaded basket. Or cringing from a look the server at your favorite restaurant shoots you when bringing a huge plate of food. Knowing that others are quick to judge you by your size, thinking you’re lazy because you can’t lose the weight or a loser because you keep cycling through one weight-loss program after another, is humiliating.
I wrote this book because I understand how you feel. I know what it’s like to be ashamed of the way you look and to feel so defeated that you use food to dull your emotional pain, just like drug addicts use heroin to dull theirs. I know what it’s like to buy a package of Oreos one day, and then reach for it the next and wonder why there are only two or three cookies left.
I am going to show you how you can permanently change your attitude toward food. You will discover why your friends and family often sabotage you. You will understand how you can begin from where you are right now. You don’t even have to believe in yourself. You just have to start. I ended my bingeing, guilt, and unhealthy eating by moving to a plant-based diet. It saved my life.
Most people don’t wake up until their bodies are already damaged, or worse, they don’t realize until it is too late that they are rotting from the inside out. Then they die. Don’t let this be you.
Chapter 1
The Elephant in the Room
Hi Hazel,
I have an exciting lead. Cosmo is scouting out a new astrologer for the magazine. Are you interested? Let me know when you can!
The email from my publicist at Simon & Schuster appeared on my office computer, and for a moment, I froze. The news both thrilled and terrified me. At fifty pounds overweight, I was the anti- Cosmo girl and, at that instant, would have given anything to be thin. As soon as that thought hit my brain, I panicked as I’d done so many times before. I flicked off the computer screen and headed for the company cafeteria.
Eating Anxiety
The regular, Hazel?
the overweight server behind the counter asked.
Yes.
I was glad she was on duty because I knew I would get bigger portions if someone my size dished them out. She placed a huge apple fritter on a plate and handed it to me. I couldn’t wait to dig in. Then, I got a cup of coffee with cream and sugar. Under any kind of stress, I automatically reached for something to eat like a drunk reaches for one more drink. Anything sugary, greasy, and calorie-laden was the temporary fix I used to dull the emotions I couldn’t face.
Staring me right in my puffy cheeks was a chance to write the most well-known astrology column for the most successful women’s magazine on the planet. What did I do? Rush for the worst thing I could eat, as always. I took my tray to a small table near a window that overlooked the patio and began to numb the excitement and fear I felt. There’s a good reason we call it comfort food. For about thirty seconds, the mouthful of pastry and sweetened coffee warmed me, both physically and emotionally. But as soon as I swallowed the first bite, the glow faded, and I had to shove another forkful in my face, and then another and another until I was so stuffed that I couldn’t feel anything but the food. After finishing the last bite, I justified the guilt I felt with the excuse that I would start dieting tomorrow. If you have done the same thing, you know that swearing off food is easiest when you’re stuffed, and tomorrow is always the day.
As I sat there watching people outside walk by, a crazy thought flashed through my head. I didn’t even have to talk to Cosmo. I was working full-time, writing a book, and caring for my family. No one would blame me for saying I didn’t have the time to add another job to my schedule. In fact, no one would have to know. I hadn’t told anyone yet. Not my family. Not my coworkers. Not my best friend. I could quietly decline this opportunity and just forget the whole thing, except I wanted to write that column. I’d been reading Cosmopolitan since I was a teenager. How could I not respond? The look, the confidence, the no-fear attitude that Cosmo represented was what I’d always wanted, but the one thing I could never pull together on a consistent basis.
Back at my desk, I spent the next four hours vacillating between fear and elation. Finally, I responded to my publicist who contacted the magazine and scheduled a telephone appointment with an associate editor for later in the day. Then I called my best friend and told her what was happening. I left out the part about how long