Stuff Every Bride Should Know
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This petite handbook is a personal wedding planner you can carry in your pocket! The perfect engagement present or planning handbook for any soon-to-be bride, this manual is packed with tips to plan, execute, and enjoy the perfect engagement and wedding, including:
• How to Set a Budget_x000B_
• How to Select Your Attendants_x000B_
• How to Find the Dress_x000B_
• How to Make Your Guests Comfortable_x000B_
• How to Handle Showers and Parties
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Stuff Every Bride Should Know - Michelle Park Lazette
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FIRST
STUFF
FIRST
What to Do Now That You’re Engaged
The question has been asked and answered, and now it’s time to celebrate. Here’s some advice for your first days as a fiancée.
• Share the news. Tell the people closest to you first, in person if possible. If you don’t want news of your engagement to leak before you announce it, ask people to keep a lid on it, especially on social media.
• Paint your fingernails. Speaking of sharing the news in person, eyes are about to gravitate to your hands. If manicures are your thing, now’s as good a time as ever to get one.
• Get your story straight. People will ask how you got engaged—and maybe even how you met—so decide what you do (and don’t) want to say.
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Enjoy yourself. Give yourself some time to enjoy your engagement before diving into wedding planning. You will have plenty of time to make decisions after you’ve come down from the high. You may even want to plan an engagement party or schedule an engagement photo session.
• Don’t promise invitations yet. If someone asks if they’ll see an invite, you can always reply that you hope so but you’re not sure how the details (like your budget) will unfold. You don’t want to have to disinvite them later—or feel obligated to invite them because you spoke too soon.
• Be vague about your plans. Resist the urge to advertise the accoutrements your day will have, even if you’ve had your heart set on them since you were twelve. You never know what plans will change.
Six Questions to Ask Your Intended
Planning a giant party is fun, but be sure to take some time now to plan the marriage it’s celebrating. Consider seeking premarital counseling, which can provide you with tools for communicating well throughout your lifetime together. Here are just a few of the questions you should discuss before saying I do.
Keep in mind: the answers may change over the years.
1. Do you want kids? Six months after the wedding is not the time to discover that your spouse doesn’t want a single child.
2. What are your religious beliefs? And will you raise those potential children to follow them?
3. What are your career plans? Are you willing to move away from where you live to follow them—or to follow your spouse’s? Do either of you want to stay at home with your children?
4. What do your finances look like? You should know about one another’s credit histories, preferences for saving and spending, and debts.
5. How do you show love? Everyone is different, and there are many different ways to express love. Some of us do the dishes or perform other caretaking roles. Others feed off of physical affection. Recognize how your spouse-to-be demonstrates and receives love.
6. How do you fight? How do you act when you’re upset? Are you confrontational? Do you need your space at first? Take this opportunity to commit to healthy fighting. Know and respect each other’s boundaries. Even in times of friction, be giving. Marriage works when you commit to making it work. That commitment is required well beyond the honeymoon and is especially important in times of strife.
How to Insure Your Ring … and Your Wedding
It may not be the most romantic item on your to-do list, but insuring your engagement ring is important, so do it as soon as you can. Here are some tips from insurance broker Pete Pappadakes.
• Don’t assume that your renter’s or homeowner’s insurance will cover your jewelry. In fact, such policies tend to offer very limited coverage for anything that is highly valuable and highly portable. You will probably need to add a separate, additional policy.
• Get your ring appraised, and provide your insurance company with the appraisal, which includes details about the stone’s cut, color, clarity, and carat weight that can be replicated in the event of loss.
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The rule of thumb for the cost of coverage is $10 per $1,000 of appraised worth, annually. That is, if your ring is appraised at $7,000, expect to pay roughly $70 a year to insure it.
• All of this applies to wedding bands, too.
You can also insure the wedding itself. Wedding insurance provides coverage in the event of natural catastrophes, something going wrong with your venue, and more. It can also provide liability coverage to protect you against claims should a guest be injured or injure someone on the way home. More from Pete:
• You may think you don’t need wedding insurance, but give it special consideration if there’s a higher chance of something going wrong—for example, if your wedding will be outdoors or if you will have a lot of family traveling a considerable distance to attend.
• Wedding insurance comes with restrictions if you