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    Love Tablets: The Pills That Will Make You Stick
    Love Tablets: The Pills That Will Make You Stick
    Love Tablets: The Pills That Will Make You Stick
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    Love Tablets: The Pills That Will Make You Stick

    By Ketherine Roderick

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    Love Tablets: The Pill That Will Make You Stick is one of the bestselling love books that'll keep you on track when it comes to relationship or love affair. It explicitly discloses the essential ingredients needed to stay glued to your chosen lover - the features which are very rare in our contemporary societies. Love Tablets unveils, in plain terms what every man or woman wants in a relationship and how to get it done. It also details the formulars susceptible in having a hitch-free relationship...

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherKetherine Roderick
    Release dateAug 1, 2020
    ISBN9781005606411
    Love Tablets: The Pills That Will Make You Stick
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    Ketherine Roderick

    I am Ketherine Roderick, editor with National Newsmedia Council, Canada. A Motivational speaker, prolific writer and a compassionate teacher and a graphic designer. I studied at Centre for South Asian Studies at the University of Toronto and a graduate of York University.I am simple, friendly and a loving lady. I am hardworking, very passionate and committed to what I do.I am a Christian. My love for my Savior Jesus Christ has no equal.I am appolitical in nature but believe in a true and sincere democracy.I love meeting and making friends who will add value to my life and vice-versa.

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      Love Tablets - Ketherine Roderick

      Love Tablets

      ... The pills that will make you stick

      Copyright©2020, Katherine Roderick

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      This book is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This book may not be resold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each reader. If you're reading this book and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please visit your favorite eBook retailer to purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

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      ISBN 9781005606411

      Abstract

      Love Tablets is a thrilling bestselling book you cannot afford to skip when searching for the magic book in a relationship. It contains simple stuff (tablets) that we, oftentimes, overlook in our love affairs or relationships but are essential ingredients in sustaining and maintaining a mutual balance. The first section exhausted credibly, the rudiments of picking the right partner among equals by exposing those negligible things some people considered irrelevant in giving to their partners but unknown to them, are the killing agents destroying their reputations before their prospective or intending admirers/partners.

      Similarly, Love Tablets has a lot to do with your attitude. Your attitude determines your altitude or destination.

      A person, who lacks the spirit of appreciation, suffers an unprecedented disappointment in life. You must learn how to be grateful in all things no matter the size or value.

      Humility is another determinant in choosing a partner. The snail is able to pass through thongs due to its slippery tongue. A humble man or a woman with smooth words is a potential partner. No man or woman will want to settle down with a nagging or temperamental person. Humility opens doors of opportunities and escapes one from troubles.

      In the same vein, blame game has caused a lot of havoc in relationships.

      Not accepting blame does hamper solution when things go wrong and will certainly worsen the circumstance if prompt measures are not taken. These and many more as contend in this book will either make or mar (failure to employ them) you in relationship depending on the side of the coin you fall into.

      The second section dwells on marriage, divorce and how to overcome divorce which was borne as a result of incontrollable rate of divorce in our society and the havoc it causes to our collective values, in terms of physical, psychological and socio-economic development and growth in our society.

      Marriage can be defined as the coming together of two or more people (opposite or same sex) from different backgrounds, sometimes, having different or the same belief system and have resolved to live together as husband and wife, having fulfilled legal requirements for the purpose of child bearing (optional) and to perform other marital functions together.

      Divorce is the legal dissolution of marriage. It differs from state to state, and from country to country depending on the laws or traditions of a particular setting or enclave. It is different from marriage annulment that involves tedious processes to achieve. Marriage annulment is practiced in some religious organization such as the Roman Catholic etc.

      Marriage being the only and also the oldest institution established by God on earth, has its own lay down procedures and expectations from the prospective partners in order to enjoy the dividends of marriage. Couple’s inability to follow these standard procedures, are the reason for the uncontrollable escalation of divorce in our society today.

      Efforts are being put in place by various governments and Organizations to ameliorate divorce.

      People resort to divorce as an alternative way of getting rid of their troublesome marriages based on myriad reasons; sex, addictions, domestic violence, childlessness to mention but a few.

      Divorce has done more harm than its solving in the society, state, country and the continent at large. Different societies are associated with peculiar type of havoc wrecked by exacerbating rate of divorce. Psychological trauma, socio-economic downturn and academic imbalance are associated with divorce.

      Several measures, when adopted are likely to be productive in curbing the menace of divorce and placing the couple on the road of actualizing a fulfilled married life. More so, they will also serve as guidelines to prospective couples. Love Tablets will surely do the magic in keeping you abreast with your vows till death parts you.

      Table of Contents

      Chapters

      Section One: Love Tablets

      1. The Power in Appreciation

      2. The Wonders in Humility

      3. Always Put on a Smiling Face

      4. Be supportive

      5. Contentment

      6. Accept Blames and Move on

      7. Don’t Argue/Criticize/Condemn

      8. What Does Your Partner Want?

      Section Two: Marriage and Divorce

      9. Marriage

      10. How to Prepare For Marriage

      11. How to Attract the Partner of Your Choice

      12. Divorce

      13. Why are People involved in Divorce?

      14. Consequences of Divorce

      15. How to Overcome Divorce

      16. Appendix

      17. Reference

      Section One

      Chapter One

      The Power in Appreciation

      If you want to turn your life around, try thankfulness. It will change your life mightily_ Gerald Good

      I don’t know the type of husband I am marrying to. He has never for once accepted the fact that I am trying my best in ensuring that the family survives despites the circumstance confronting him – little or no payment of salary. For the past few months now, he has been placed on half salary and that to a large extent, is not footing the children’s school bills, let alone, putting food on our table as usual. We have been fairing from the paltry I am making from my petty trade. Sir, do you know my annoyance? He can never appreciate my efforts. He is always getting on my nerves, ready to descend on me in a slightest provocation. Since I married him, I cannot remember when last he bought me a gift or praise me for doing anything good. Honestly, I am regretting the marriage. I wish I could turn back the hands of clock. How I wish I had known that he is such an ungrateful fellow" _ Mrs. Tina cried out at a marriage seminar.

      I never knew that my husband is a devil incarnate. For the past four years, I have been the one managing our business with his little or no effort; footing the bills and providing for the family. No appreciation and no good manners! Last week, I gave him a $500 I saved from my petty business to buy a property. Do you know what he did? He went behind me to do the documents without involving my name or including one of his children’s names. As I speak, he is yet to ask me how I realized the money or appreciate my effort" _ Mrs. Anderlyn retorted.

      These and many more were complains I got from series of marriage seminars I attended sometimes ago.

      Can you see the power in appreciation? Perhaps, their husbands are of the same philosophy with my Dad who upheld that appreciating a woman in her presence was erroneous. Or they are the type of men who never appreciate their partners for whatever reason best known to them.

      My Dad posited that such attitude would make the woman raise her shoulder in the house and take unnecessary credit to herself. He said that the best way to appreciate a woman is to do it in her absence so that when it gets to her hearing, she will put more effort.

      I totally disagree with him on what I termed stiff-necked ideology as regards appreciation. Every human being craves to be appreciated (including your partner), mostly when he/she has succeeded in achieving a feat no matter how meager it seems. Appreciation is a catalyst that spurs one into putting more efforts in what he/she is being appreciated for or in raising the moral consciousness of the doer.

      One way to combat the gloom is to wake up each day and reflect on what you are grateful for. You can find at least one thing to appreciate each day. Psychological research has shown that gratitude is actually one of the keys to being happy, so use this tool in order to build yourself up day by day. _ Carla Loving

      Appreciation according to an online English dictionary is defined as:

      1. A just valuation or estimate of merit, worth, weight, etc.; recognition of excellence.

      2. Accurate perception; true estimation; as an appreciation of the difficulties before us; an appreciation of colors.

      3. A rise in value; - opposed to depreciation.

      Similarly, Wikipedia.com defines appreciation as gratitude, thankfulness, thanksgiving or gratefulness, pleasing, thankful. Secondly, appreciation is a feeling felt by and /or similar positive response shown by the recipient of kindness, gifts, help, favors, or other types of generosity, towards the giver of such gift.

      The word appreciation may sound funny in the sense that many will say what can it do in winning the heart of your partner? My dear, appreciation has the potency of keeping one committed to his/her promises. It encourages one to do more and also brings out the best in your partner. Lack of appreciation may lead one to loosing important people in one’s life. It is a sign of contentment. When your self esteem is nourished, it gingers your ability to do more. William James once said that the deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.

      People find it dicey to appreciate the efforts of their loved ones no matter how much they try to please them, they will still murmur or grumble to signify non satisfaction. You hardly hear thank you" to commensurate the kindness or support given to them. This is very bad. Learn how to be thankful over little things.

      Appreciation is a compeller that motivates one into having a second thought of repeating an action in a more enhanced form.

      More so, some people are of the opinion that appreciating someone right in his/her presence will make such a person to misbehave. Honestly, it is the worst conception ever. Such a notion should be jettisoned because for someone to sacrifice his/her time, effort, idea or money for you with or without your contributions and got nothing in return, it will definitely going to kill the doer’s benevolence tendencies.

      I like to think I appreciate things. In fact one of the things I’m comfortably settled on in this life is the value of appreciation in all we do, appreciation for all we have, for the world around us, and for that matter, for things I’m yet unaware of." Rodney Miles

      Appreciate your partner’s love, kindness, efforts, support, etc., no matter how sizeable it is, it counts. Start practicing how to convince him/her that you attached value to the sacrifice he/she is making for you. An ingrate finds it difficult to get help from people even from his/her partner.

      Permit me to also share an illustration here:

      A certain priest was used to find favor in terms of cash or kind in one of his members often but instead of appreciating his benefactor directly; he was fond

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