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    Faithful Non-Monogamy: A Happy Wife’s Story
    Faithful Non-Monogamy: A Happy Wife’s Story
    Faithful Non-Monogamy: A Happy Wife’s Story
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    Faithful Non-Monogamy: A Happy Wife’s Story

    By Joan Vegas

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    This is a true report told by an Arizona wife how over a period of time she began to see that to assure a long, stable marriage, she and her husband should be as open as possible about each other’s sexual wishes and fantasy fulfillment.

    Early in her marriage she became aware that married friends were already having affairs and sexual flings that disrupted or broke marriages apart. She also learned that other married friends were enjoying sexual encounters with the full awareness of their spouses.

    She gradually talked with her husband about her observations, and nudged him to introduce her to an expanded world of sexual adventure. They tried new things together... from visits to an adult store, to trying intimate toys, to a visit to a sex club. That led to their first involvement of another guy in their shared sex play.

    Later, they re-evaluated what they had done, and reached the conclusion that (1) they both had enjoyed the new things they had tried, (2) they wanted more than a conventional monogamous marriage... but one without affairs, and (3) they were ready to let each other discretely experience more intimate play with others.

    Over the seven years that have followed they both experienced sex with others, mostly while playing together. They rigidly avoided secrets while letting each other try new things... things that normally would not be part of a traditional marital relationship. They have concluded that the “faithful non-monogamous” lifestyle they have chosen is one other couples should consider.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherJoan Vegas
    Release dateAug 23, 2019
    ISBN9780463642405
    Faithful Non-Monogamy: A Happy Wife’s Story
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    Joan Vegas

    I'm Joan Vegas...I grew up in a small mid-US town. I was in my late pre-teens when I accidentally first saw my mom and dad enjoying sex together. We lived in an old 2-story house where my brother and I had our bedrooms on the second floor. There was an attic level off our floor that extended over our parents’ bedroom.One night I could not sleep so I decided to rummage around in that attic space in search of some comic books to read. I discovered light coming through a vent in the floor, and decided to look down. There were mom and dad, playing intimately with each other. I decided to quietly watch.Dad was sucking on mom’s breasts as she stroked his penis. I had seen my dad naked before. We were not a nudist household, but we never made any big deal about being nude in front of each other. This time I noticed that dad’s penis got longer and fuller as mom played with it. Soon she rolled on her side and as I watched, dad slid (what I now refer to as a cock) between her legs and into her body.It was clear to me that they both were having fun. I watched on other nights, and observed mom taking dad’s cock into her mouth and suck him hard as his face was between her legs, kissing and sucking on her vagina... before they switched around and connected genitals again.My uncle often visited us for weekends. I never thought much about it until I got into my hiding place one night while he was visiting. To my surprise he was in bed with mom and dad. My uncle and dad were both playing with mom... all nude. I watched mom take turns playing with and sucking their cocks as they took turns laying between her legs and inserting themselves into her body. Sure enough, I could tell that mom was loving all the attention from both men. That’s when I decided that one day I wanted to try that too.It goes without saying that as I grew up I experimented with a variety of sex play with the guys I dated. I loved every bit of it, but it was always one-on-one sex play.When I was 19 I met and dated two guys I was working with. They both knew I was simultaneously dating the other. One evening I invited both of them to join me for a drink. As we sipped our suds I just blurted out, “You know, I have been screwing both of you guys, and I have loved sex with both of you.” I suggested that we go to my apartment, telling them that I wanted to make love to both of them at once. There was a moment of hesitation, and then Bob said to Tim, “Let’s do it!” What a great night of passion that was. The guys discovered they were comfortable sharing me... and I loved it!That night led to the three of us moving in together. The three-way relationship blossomed. Not only was the sex great for all of us, I found that I had fallen in love with both of them. They both confessed their love for me too. Other than incidental intimate contact between Tim and Bob, all their sexual attentions were focused on me (Hooray!)A couple years later we started talking about wanting kids, and we questioned each other how that might work out. Both guys said they did not care whose sperm did the job (they didn’t even want to know), they would both consider themselves father to any child I would bear.Up to that point I had always religiously used birth control. That was also because both Bob and Tim would occasionally bring a male friend or two home as additional bed fun partners for me (another benefit of our unconventional open relationship). Naturally, I encouraged both of them to get a little on the side too, which they did.I didn’t want to have any kids to raise on my own... in a situation where there was not some kind of formal commitment from/to Bob and Tim. I knew I could not marry both of them. I did a little research. I discovered that we could form a legal “partnership” relationship, and avoid any questions of bigamy. That’s what we did, spelling out on paper our joint responsibilities in the event I ever got pregnant.Soon I stopped my birth control (and they stopped bringing other guys home), and in no time I was pregnant. Over the next few years we had four beautiful kids (with breaks in between so I could play with other guys). Then, after my fourth child I got my tubes tied so I could play as I wanted without any pregnancy risks.We now live in the mountains west of Denver, in a home specially designed and built by my two guys to accommodate our special lifestyle. We met lots of “swingers,” and couples who regularly invited an extra guy or gal into their shared sex play. We started getting e-mail from couples who enjoyed three-way sex play as we do.. and couples who were considering expanding their relationships to include a third person.I saved those letters and my replies. It was that correspondence with real people that led to the reports I share in my series here.You are welcome to write to me to share details of your sexual lifestyle. I would like that. Write me at jjj3313260@aol.com.

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      Faithful Non-Monogamy - Joan Vegas

      Faithful Non-Monogamy

      A Happy Wife’s Story

      By Joan Vegas

      Published by Joan Vegas at Smashwords

      Copyright 2019 Joan Vegas

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      This ebook is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This ebook may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each recipient. If you’re reading this book and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please return to Smashwords.com or your favorite retailer and purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

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      Letters to Joan

      This is another in a series of tantalizing reports received by Joan Vegas from her readers… about especially memorable erotic experiences, written by the people who enjoyed them. In this case a young wife living in Arizona writes about the evolution of her traditional marriage to a faithful non-monogamous relationship with her hubby.

      Joan believes all women need more than one sexual playmate if they are going to experience their feminine pleasure potential. She has made a long-term partnership with two loving guys, and together they have built a family and explored alternative playmates. She has published reports on their special family and their sexually fulfilling experiences. As a result she receives reports from many of her readers. That is where this report originated. Joan’s role is just to compile letters, do minor editing and change names.

      Faithful Non-Monogamy – A Happy Wife’s Story

      Compiled by Joan Vegas … from reports by an anonymous Arizona wife

      Seven years ago I was 29. I was lying on my back with my eyes closed as my husband fondled one of my C-cup breasts while sucking on the other one. For the first time in more than five years, the stiff cock of a man who was not my husband was gliding back and forth within my vagina… the same channel through which I had birthed our son two years earlier.

      I felt my husband move his hand across my belly (by then flat from lots of workout since my son was born). His hand stopped near my nether lips and I felt him begin to play with my clit. About that time the cock within me began to move more quickly, a bit deeper within me. No question about it, the dual stimulation was elevating my sexual pleasure.

      Leading up to that moment –

      With my agreement, Mitch, my husband had invited Rob to our motel room. They offered to treat me to a four-handed, full-body erotic massage. I was fully aware of what a massage was likely to lead to. We had met Rob just a few hours earlier.

      After much talk about opening our sex life, Mitch and I decided to find out what a sex club was like. Mitch had learned about a reasonably-nearby club that catered to swingers and others who wanted to explore non-monogamous sex. The place was discretely called La Hacienda por Diversion. We booked a nearby motel and headed for the club.

      The club proved to be an attractive building on the outskirts of our nearest large metropolitan city with lots of parking. It had apparently been built as a restaurant/lounge and had gone bankrupt. An enterprising swinger couple purchased the place and turned into a club where consenting adults could play intimately with new friends. It had a bar and dance floor on the main floor (with recorded dance music). Based on the number of cars in the parking lot, I concluded the place was quite popular. As we paid our entry fee we were told that the real action took place on the lower level.

      Once we got our drinks and found a table, a variety of guys invited me to dance. Mitch encouraged me to accept each of their invitations. I did. Several of the guys tried to get me to go downstairs with them. Being a bit unsure of myself, I repeatedly declined. One guy who danced with me said his name was Rob. He was a good looking guy, and was not as pushy/aggressive as some of the other guys had been.

      Eventually I went back to our table and told Mitch I had to use the lady’s room. While I was gone Rob apparently

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