Tell Me What You Want: Exploring Sexual Fantasy with Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D.

Bisexual and Already Married: What happens when you realize that you are bisexual – after you are already happily married? If you love this show, please join our inner circle at https://www.patreon.com/pleasuremechanics for as little as $1 a month, get an ad-free podcast feed, by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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The Path To Female Orgasm with Vanessa Marin: Never had an orgasm? Struggle to reach orgasm with a partner? Vanessa Marin joins us to talk about stepping onto the path to female orgasm. If you are a woman and want to learn how to have your first orgasm, by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Expanding Orgasmic Capacity: Multiple orgasms, squirting orgasms, clitoral orgasms, oh my! We break down the complexity of orgasms and demystify all the hype about different types of orgasms. A listener wrote in wanting to know more about female multiple orgasms. by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Begging For It: Imagine a lover gasping for air, begging for it, begging for YOU, begging for the release of your touch – is this a fantasy alone? Or is there a way to make begging for it something we can all do a bit more of, each in our own way? by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Tell Me What You Want: Exploring Sexual Fantasy with Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D.: What do your sexual fantasies reveal about who you are and what you want? Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D. joins us to discuss his new book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life In this conversation ab... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

40 min listen

Help! My Partner Won’t Play Along: What happens when you are ready to explore sexually, and your partner doesn’t want to play along? How do you move forward as a couple when only one of you wants to get kinky? If you have ever felt like you were ready to explore new sexual thrills or go... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

40 min listen

Full Body Orgasms For Every Body: Full body orgasms are not a myth, nor are they particularly difficult to experience. Full body orgasms are possible for all bodies to experience, and as you explore the skills needed to experience full body orgasm you’ll unlock more pleasure, by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

40 min listen

Learning Pleasure Through Movement With Jane Clapp: Movement can be a great source of pleasure, joy – and even wisdom. But most of us think about movement only in terms of exercise – at best a chore to complete, at worst a punishment for not being in the “right” kind of body. by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Cannabis, Sexuality and You : What You Need To Know: Cannabis, in and out of the bedroom: here’s what you need to know! Now that cannabis is legal in many states for both medicinal and recreational use, and legal in Canada as well as other countries around the world, by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Sex Love Liberation with Ev’Yan Whitney: Hear how one woman broke through her sexual repression and began discovering her authentic sexual expression. Ev’yan Whitney, sexuality coach and founder of SexLoveLiberation.com, generously shares her journey into sexual freedom on her beautiful websi... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

42 min listen

Remaking Manhood: An Interview with Mark Greene: We are at a cultural crossroads – where the old models of social power structures are falling away and being replaced with new models to create more equity, freedom and opportunity for us all. But at this crossroads, many of us are confused, by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Quick Updates and Slow Upgrades: Quick update on what’s happening behind the scenes at Pleasure Mechanics, and what’s coming next! by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Sharing Erotic Massage With The World : Joseph Kramer Interview Part 2: In part 1 of our interview with Joseph Kramer, we learned about how he grew up as a masturbation loving gay boy in the Catholic church and left the Jesuits after receiving his first massage. We discovered the origins of the erotic embodiment practices ... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Explore More With Us: If you love when we dive into big ideas about pleasure, sexuality and love, join us for a magical 10 day experience: the Explore More Summit. Enrollment is FREE and we will be right there with you, basking in the brilliance of the 26 other amazing spea... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Slow Down For Better Sex: Slow Down! That’s some of the best sex advice we can give you. But of course – it is simple but not always easy. Slowing down in the erotic realm is an essential step to have better sex and enjoy your authentic sexuality. by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

21 min listen

How To Enjoy Ethical Porn: Do you get maximum enjoyment out of your porn habit, or is it compromised by not-so-great porn, feelings of shame and guilt or distaste at what pops up during your porn sessions? Most adults use porn – some rarely and others daily – but far too many of... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

28 min listen

Surviving Sexless Seasons: All relationships have sexless seasons – periods of time where there is little or no sexual connection – here’s how to survive them so a sexless season doesn’t turn into a sexless marriage or breakup! Sexless seasons happen for any number of reasons –... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

45 min listen

Own Your Arousal: Arousal is not something that happens TO you – it is something that YOU generate. Your arousal is your own – so OWN IT! In this episode we explore the nature of sexual arousal, and why we all need to stop waiting around hoping to get turned on! by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

36 min listen

Jill Soloway on Desire, Freedom and Play: Jill Soloway, creator of the award winning shows Transparent and I Love Dick, joins us to talk about creating art that matters, art that is helping to change global culture and liberate the narratives of the marginalized. In this interview, by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

39 min listen

Having Fun With Erotic Roleplaying: When many people think about kinky sex, one of the first images to come to mind is erotic role playing. From the classic boss and secretary scenario to Prince Charming and Sleeping Beauty, role playing captures our collective erotic imagination. by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

32 min listen

Women Get Erections Too! Here’s What You Need To Know: We ALL get erections – it is not just a guy thing! All human bodies have about the same amount of erectile tissue in their genitals – it is just situated differently! People with vulvas get erections too – and in this podcast episode we cover everythin... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

30 min listen

Cock Worship, Pussy Worship and Reverent Sex: What would it mean to bring more reverence, awe and wonder to the bedroom? What does it mean to worship the genitals rather than degrade them? What are the implications of bringing more reverence to sexuality? by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

47 min listen

Butt Plugs! Who, What, Where, When, Why and How?: Butt plugs are one of the most versatile types of sex toys, but not many people know about them. Here is everything you’ve ever wanted to know (and more!) about butt plugs. In this free podcast episode, we cover all the basics and more. This is a Who, by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Rethinking Libido Problems: Low libido? Loss of libido? Crazy high libido? Mismatched Libido? There are 99 libido problems out there, and many people report struggling with their libido. Libido troubles are one of the leading reasons people seek out the advice of a sex therapist ... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

41 min listen

Esther Perel’s 7 Verbs Of Love: Love is a verb – an action we must practice in an ongoing way. But “love” is also kind of vague, and the daily act of loving another human being is really a symphony of verbs that is constantly changing. So how do we get more specific about HOW we love... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

40 min listen

Exploring Attachment Theory with Aida Manduley: What is attachment theory? How do different attachment styles show up in our most intimate relationships and in our sex lives? Therapist and social justice consultant Aida Manduley joins us to discuss attachment theory and how we can learn about oursel... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Reclaiming Soft Penis Pleasures: After our recent conversations on the emotions of erectile dysfunction, we wanted to continue into what is often uncharted territory: the erotic pleasures of the soft penis. The penis is not only sexy or worthy of pleasure when it is fully erect, by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

34 min listen

How To Make Oral Sex More Intense: Does your pleasure ever feel stuck at “good enough” – and you can’t quite kick up the intensity when you want to? In this encore episode, we share a ton of techniques for amping up intensity while receiving stimulation. by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

35 min listen

Mindful Sex For Men With Performance Anxiety: Mindful Sex May continues with an exploration of what mindful sex practices can offer men struggling with performance anxiety. This is one of the most common sexual struggles for men – you finally have the opportunity to be sexual with a partner, by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

30 min listen

Making Noise During Sex: The sounds of sex range from the sweetest of moans to the cacophony of bestial bodies banging the bed into the wall. Making noise during sex is one of the primary ways we communicate with our partner, and one of the most essential embodied skills for m... by Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

45 min listen

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