Playing Proactive Versus Playing Hard to Get
By Tosin Ojumu
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About this ebook
A short ebook from my relationship series and blog: "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie" that is all about building an outstanding foundation for an outstanding Christian marriage. This ebook addresses the concept of "playing hard to get":
"...This is why you need to know this about me – when the right guy comes along, I will eagerly agree and try to express my own interest. However, for me, most guys are emphatically not right – and never will be. When I say I am not interested, please believe me that that is exactly what I mean. I am not trying to encourage you to persist in some elaborate game of conquest. Nothing, but nothing annoys me more than when I have indicated or said no outright – and a guy persists..."
Tosin Ojumu
Hello, my name is Tosin and for many years I have sat down and thought through questions about how to have an outstandingly successful marriage, and what I need to do before I get married to best ensure that successful marriage. Over the next few weeks and months I aim to publish a new ebook everyday from my blog and relationship series "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie." Visit my blog address listed here to see the full list of ebooks as well as video excerpts for each ebook :)
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Playing Proactive Versus Playing Hard to Get - Tosin Ojumu
Playing Proactive Versus Playing Hard to Get
Copyright 2019 by Tosin Ojumu
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This ebook was previously posted on my blog "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie" on 30 June 2013
To see this ebook in other formats please check out my website at: https://huggie-wuggie.com/excerpts/playing-proactive-versus-playing-hard-to-get/
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Finally, finally, I am able to address this issue which I find unspeakably frustrating!
It's like this. As a person, as a woman I have made up my mind that I am never going to play hard to get - never ever ever! All this actually means is in practice is that if someone asks me out, and I like him, I am going to be straightforward and just say it as it is, just as I am in my writings.
Would you like to go out with me Tosin?
I'd love to!
On the other hand, if I don't like him, or feel