The Snark Handbook: A Reference Guide to Verbal Sparring
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Included here is the Snark Hall of Fame, the Best Snarky Responses to Everyday Dumbassness, and much more. It’s a book that will make you laugh. It’s a book that will make someone else cry. It’s a book every student of the American psyche (that’s all of us, Sparky) needs to have. Let loose. Let your inner anger become a positive rather than a negative, but most of all, have fun. (Yeah, like that’s something you know how to do.)
Lawrence Dorfman
Lawrence Dorfman has more than thirty years of experience in the bookselling world, including stints at Simon and Schuster, Penguin, and Harry N. Abrams. He is the author of the Snark Handbook series including The Snark Handbook: Politics and Government Edition, The Snark Handbook: Insult Edition; The Snark Handbook: Sex Edition, Snark! The Herald Angels Sing, and The Snark Handbook: Clichés Edition. He lives in Connecticut.
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The Snark Handbook - Lawrence Dorfman
Preface
snark \snärk\ n 1 : biting wit 2 a : smartass remark b : slyly disparaging comment 3 : bastardization of snide remark
snarky—\snärke\ adj : IRASCIBLE, SNAPPISH snark• ier; -est
JESUS, WHO’S NOT SNARKY these days? You have to be, really, if you have an ounce of brainpower left after all the bureaucratic bullshit, fake business-speak
to replace intelligence, relentless use of the words like and whatever—and don’t even get me started on movies and television. But I’m not saying snark is a bad thing. I think to be truly fluent in snark, you have to be smart.
I say embrace your snark. It will set you free.
For example: Have you been laid off? Relationship in the toilet? Your insurance won’t pay to remove your malignant tumor? Whaddaya gonna do? Cry about it? Write to your congressman? Call Obama? (I want change, too, but I’d prefer it in my pocket.) Getting snarky is the only way to go: You’ll be flexing the unchallenged muscles of your mind, and you’ll quickly discover if your snark victim is a snail or a shark.¹
Why a handbook, a primer, a guidebook, a whatever? Why not? What are you, the New York Times Book Review? Because ... that’s why. I know we’ve got Al Franken, Jim Norton, Denis Leary, and Lewis Black—all leading champions of snark—but those guys don’t look at the origins, at the history, of this fine and playful way of life. Within these pages are examples of snark that stretch back generations, that run the gauntlet from hilarity to satire. Who was it that said, The pen is mightier than the sword
?² Well, I say the snark is the mightiest of them all. There are those who contend that snark is ruining modern conversation, but I say to thee, nay, we should focus on being more snarky and elevate it to the place it deserves.
So where does it come from? Some say the concept is British, dating back to the early 1900s. If you are familiar with Monty Python and Peter Cook and Dudley Moore, this shouldn’t surprise you. The Brits take the gold in Olympic snarkiness every time.
Still, others give credence to its origin in Lewis Carroll’s epic poem, The Hunt for the Snark,
part of which is reprinted in this book. Carroll claimed that snark was a mashing together of the words snail and shark. Reading the passages, it can certainly be construed to be about the verbal sparring that is at the heart of the best snark.
Others have put forth a theory that the word is a combination of snide and remark. Sure, that works. But snark is so much more.
The act of snarking is now a more common daily occurrence than that of rationalization or having sex or rationalizing why we’re too busy to have sex. Try going a week without a good snark. Can’t be done.
You can see it everywhere.
You can see it all over television:
e9781602397606_i0003.jpg The Daily Show
e9781602397606_i0004.jpg The Colbert Report
e9781602397606_i0005.jpg Californication
e9781602397606_i0006.jpg Gossip Girl
e9781602397606_i0007.jpg Two and a Half Men
e9781602397606_i0008.jpg 30 Rock
e9781602397606_i0009.jpg Saturday Night Live
You can see it all over the movies:
e9781602397606_i0010.jpg Anything with Dane Cook in it³
e9781602397606_i0011.jpg Anything with Seth Rogan in it⁴
e9781602397606_i0012.jpg Every children’s animated flick. (These are all snark heavy, apparently to entertain the parents, as it’s no longer PC to have the mother die in the opening scene.)
You can see it throughout literature and in many of the new books, especially for a younger audience:
e9781602397606_i0013.jpg Diary of a Wimpy Kid
e9781602397606_i0014.jpg The aforementioned Gossip Girl⁵
You can see it on the Internet ... Jeez, without it there wouldn’t be Gawker and Twitter and countless other places.⁶
You can hear lots of it on the radio; it’s easy to make the case that Howard Stern is the reigning king of snark, and certainly Don Imus got kicked off the air just for being too damn snarky.
Yes, hardly an hour goes by without a taste of someone’s snarkiness somewhere.
And yet ... it ain’t all that intelligent.
I contend that snark, as an attitude, as a tone, can be good when defined as a behavior that is a wonderfully witty combination of sarcasm and cynicism.
It sounds nice, right? Kinda cool. Kinda hip, sorta boring ... but nice.
But when it’s defined as snotty and/or arrogant
... yeah, way more fun.
We can raise the level of snark to an art form, make it a tool that will take your discourse to new levels and make others think, hmmm, guy’s pretty smart—and a prick, too.
So, let’s get to it.
Snark is usually best when it’s done in the company of others. Often, it’s for the benefit of others: a bringing of someone into one’s confidence and making them laugh, usually at some other idiot’s expense. Snark says, Aren’t you glad you’re not him/her?
And the answer is always: Yes.
At the heart of it, being in a state of snark can be one of the most useful tools at one’s disposal and hence,⁷ a powerful way to get what you want while keeping people completely off guard. And royally pissed off.
And so, dear reader, ⁸ I present a handbook, a guidebook, a primer—a what have you—to help you fine-tune your snark chops. There’s a ton of quotes, some accredited, some not,⁹ some prescriptive tips (because there are plenty of opportunities to find and use snark in this world), and, as every bit of ad copy I’ve ever seen adds, much, much more.
Most of all, there’s a tone I want you to take. An attitude. An insouciant stance that gives off a take-no-prisoners vibe and has those around you awestruck and wondering, Did he/she really just say that?
I say: Let your inner angry self become a positive rather than a negative while still remaining negative—but most of all, have fun.¹⁰
Lawrence Dorfman
Hamden, Connecticut
September 2009
e9781602397606_i0015.jpgIntroduction
Life sucks, get a fucking helmet, okay?
—DENIS LEARY
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