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    The Power to Communicate: Get What You Want by Knowing When to Listen and Making Your Words Matter: Pursuit of Happiness and Unlimited Success, #2
    The Power to Communicate: Get What You Want by Knowing When to Listen and Making Your Words Matter: Pursuit of Happiness and Unlimited Success, #2
    The Power to Communicate: Get What You Want by Knowing When to Listen and Making Your Words Matter: Pursuit of Happiness and Unlimited Success, #2
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    The Power to Communicate: Get What You Want by Knowing When to Listen and Making Your Words Matter: Pursuit of Happiness and Unlimited Success, #2

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    The Power to Communicate: Get What You Want by Knowing When to Listen and Making Your Words Matter

    The other day, a reader asked how he could take his new confidence that he worked so hard to obtain, and use it to get his dream job. It occurred to me if my coaching clients were to learn my communication skills, they could benefit greatly.

    It makes sense right? We all need to achieve something from someone at some point, right? How often have you been on the phone trying to lower your cable bill or deny a credit card charge?

    It's an Everyday Challenge:

    • Convincing the judge that you are in the right
    • Trying to avoid waiting in a long line to get into an event
    • Getting a job
    • Asking for a raise
    • Getting your landlord to drop the rent, or at least keep
      from raising it
    • Getting out of a speeding ticket
    • Avoiding a confrontation
    • Buying a car and getting the lowest price possible
    • Getting a woman to like you
    • Getting your man to worship you

    And on and on!

    Hi, I'm Gregg Michaelsen. I am a dating and life coach. Google me! I am  here to help you improve your life today. I am the coach who talks directly to my readers. I encourage them (you) to contact me and let me help!

    We Need to Have The Power to Communicate!

    It is important to learn the power to communicate so you can get what you want out of life. When you learn to do it in a way that helps both people involved, your odds of success increase significantly. I realize that this is the piece of the puzzle I have left out of my coaching in the past. How can I expect people to continue to succeed if they don't know how to engage in effective conversation?

    As part of helping you gain the Power to Communicate, I have included a free workbook to help you.

    This Self Confidence Read Will

    • Help you deal with a complainer
    • Teach you how to convince
    • Get you to diffuse any situation
    • Help you listen your way to gain a win/win
    • Show you how to think from the other person's perspective and why it's so powerful
    • Help you realize that admitting your wrong (even when you are right) will help you win!
    • Show you exactly how I got out of a speeding ticket with my own teachings (true story)

    What are you waiting for? Read my hundreds and hundreds of reviews! I change lives for the price of a Starbucks coffee! Hit the Buy Now button now and let me help you! I guarantee I can change you life or return my book within 7 days!

    About Gregg

    Gregg is Boston's top dating and life coach. He teaches women how to understand the male mind and find love by becoming a woman of value. He teaches men the same. Read ALL of his 15 Best Sellers like; To Date a Man, You Must Understand a Man, Who Holds The Cards Now?, The Social Tigress, Power Texting Men and How to Get Your Ex Back Fast.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherGregg Michaelsen
    Release dateAug 19, 2016
    ISBN9781386984634
    The Power to Communicate: Get What You Want by Knowing When to Listen and Making Your Words Matter: Pursuit of Happiness and Unlimited Success, #2
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    Gregg Michaelsen

    “Build Yourself and He Will Come” It has come to Gregg’s attention that you have over-complicated the male mind. He knows this because he includes his email address in every book and you reach out to him! He reads your emails and replies to every email, hoping to make a meaningful difference in your life! You’re also a busy woman who doesn’t have time to read a book which is 50% fluff, 25% stuff you don’t understand (because you’re not a therapist) and 23% information you can find with a simple internet search. You are a woman whose time is valuable. Gregg’s books are quick and to the point. The information provided is put into the easiest terms to understand and he leaves out the fluff! Should you read Gregg’s books? •    Are you tired of being used by men? •    Have you had enough first dates? •    Is your relationship great and you want to keep it that way? •    Do you want to find Mr. Right, once and for all? •    Have you just come out of a relationship? •    If you look at yourself honestly, can you say your dating confidence could use a boost? If you’ve answered “YES!” to even one of these questions, you should read his books! Learn how to navigate the male mind with my many tips on dating, communication and building confidence. Understand the mistakes of the past and leave them there – in your past! Your dating future is bright when you bump up that dating confidence and learn to understand the male mind! Gregg continues to research dating and can be found on most Friday or Saturday nights hanging out in a local venue, talking to groups of women, helping them with their dating problems! Visit Gregg at WhoHoldsTheCardsNow.com and become a believer, tens of thousands have!

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      The Power to Communicate - Gregg Michaelsen

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      Copyright © 2016 Gregg Michaelsen and Confidence Builder LLC.

      All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without written permission of the publisher.

      DISCLAIMER: As a male dating coach I am very good at what I do because of my years of studying the nuances of interpersonal relationships. I have helped thousands of women understand men.

      That said, I am not a psychologist, doctor or licensed professional.

      So do not use my advice as a substitute if you need professional help.

      Contents

      Introduction

      Is There Such a Thing as Constructive Criticism?

      Thinking From another Point of View

      Admit Your Mistakes

      Get a Yes First

      Stop Fearing Your Potential

      The Power to Convince

      Learning to Listen

      Perspective Changes the Conversation

      Position Yourself for Cooperation

      Managing a Complainer

      The Difficult Conversation

      Conclusion

      Author Bio

      Final Thoughts

      Introduction

      The other day, a reader asked how he could take his new confidence that he worked so hard to obtain, and use it to get his dream job. It occurred to me if my coaching clients were to learn my communication skills, they could benefit greatly.

      It makes sense right? We all need to achieve something from someone at some point, right? How often have you been on the phone trying to lower your cable bill or deny a credit card charge?

      It never ends:

      Convincing the judge you still deserve your driver’s license after you screw up

      Trying to avoid waiting in a long line to get into the bar

      Getting a job

      Asking for a raise

      Getting your landlord to drop the rent, or at least keep from raising it

      Getting out of speeding tickets

      Avoiding a mugging or a fight

      Buying a car and getting the lowest price possible

      Getting a woman to like you

      Getting your man to worship you

      And on and on!

      People, we need to have the power to communicate!

      It is important to learn the power to communicate so you can get what you want out of life. When you learn to do it in a way that helps both people involved, your odds of success increase significantly. I realize that this is the piece of the puzzle I have left out of my coaching in the past. How can I expect people to continue to succeed if they don’t know how to engage in effective conversation?

      As part of helping you gain the Power to Communicate, I have included a free workbook, which you can download for free by clicking the cover below!

      Is There Such a Thing as Constructive Criticism?

      We have all been criticized, maybe as early as in our toddler years if we grew up with harsh parents. The problem with criticism is that each time we are criticized, it takes a little ding out of our self-esteem. If we hear enough criticism, it begins to feel normal. Before you know it, we are not only accustomed to hearing negative thoughts, we begin saying them to ourselves, and worse, to other people.

      Study after study have proven that animals react more positively to rewards than they do to punishments. The same thing applies to people. It’s like the old saying, You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. This is actually a 400-year-old quote by Saint Francis DeSales, who was born in France in 1567. Being nice is not a new concept. What is new, though, is the realization that humans have a component to our personalities which animals do not – we rationalize our mistakes.

      We’ve all experienced a situation like Rob to the left. We have all had that person in our lives who just seems to suck the life right out of us by constantly finding fault with what we do. Whether it’s a spouse, a parent, a coworker or a boss, that person is there for every one of us.

      A client of mine, Rob, was going through a divorce. It was impacting every area of his life, including work. Now sharing the child-rearing, Rob was now often arriving late to work and was distracted to a point which had negatively affected his job.

      Rob’s boss, Larry, was critical. He was a busy guy whose boss was always coming down hard on him, so it seemed natural for him to just pass along the negativity.

      After weeks of this workplace stress, Rob has grown to hate the job he once loved. He despises his boss and spends a lot of time just trying to avoid the guy all together. He often feels sick at work and is beginning to feel about as useless as his boss is telling him he has become. Every day, boss Larry finds something to criticize.

      After a couple of months, good ole Larry finds himself out of a job and Rob’s new boss hits the scene. Rob is pretty nervous when the new boss requests a meeting.

      Hey Rob! I’ve been looking over some of the projects you’ve spearheaded and I have to say I’m impressed! You have done great things here! Rob is feeling lighter than air now! One thing I did notice, though, Rob. It seems as if your work hasn’t been quite up to your usual standard. I was wondering if there is something going on that I could help with.

      Rob is now feeling as if he has a boss who cares. Immediately, his performance improves and he finds a way to get the kids to school and show up for work on time.

      Our Physical Reaction to Criticism

      Often, we don’t even see the damage being done, but it’s there and it’s real. Studies have shown that when we receive criticism, two areas of our brain kick into high gear – the amygdala and the medial prefrontal cortex . In case you’re scratching your head now, thinking something here sounds familiar, rest assured you’re right.

      The amygdala also happens to be one of the areas

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