Meet the Right Man: Finding Your Path to Love
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Reach your goals faster than ever imagined when you have a clear mission. Take the dreaded interview process out of dating and add some purpose. The most direct path to love and happiness comes from you but youre not in this alone. This book will show you how to fulfill your deepest romantic desires. See how easy it is to transform the things you want into the things you have. Careful what you wish for. Many of these ideas and techniques are based from neuroscience. Which means, when it comes to love and happiness, attitude is everything.
Kimberly Houghtaling
A true pioneer of twenty-first century dating. Jersey girl, Kimberly Houghtaling, has been in the dating scene since the dawn of the Internet Age. Known to some as the Online Date Coach, Kim’s career in personal development began when she became fixed on making her own dates more meaningful. The quest to meet the right man was born. After finishing with college in 2004, Kim decided to shift her focus and started training as a personal development coach at the Life Coach Institute. A program founded by one of the world’s most recognized leaders in behavioral research. Combining those skills with more than a decade of dating experience, Kim started the research for her first book in 2010. When Kim isn’t busy with work, she likes to volunteer in the community and maintains a socially active lifestyle. When it is time to relax, she enjoys taking care of her garden or you can find her on the beach with a book. During the colder months, Kimberly can’t wait to pack up her snowboard for a winter escape. To connect with the author, please visit: www.kimberlyhoughtaling.com
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Meet the Right Man - Kimberly Houghtaling
Copyright © 2015 by Kimberly Houghtaling.
Library of Congress Control Number: 2015902540
ISBN: Hardcover 978-1-5035-4464-2
Softcover 978-1-5035-4465-9
eBook 978-1-5035-4463-5
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Rev. date: 02/26/2015
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Contents
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Chapter 1 Love Won’t Find You Sitting On The Sofa
Chapter 2 As You Search For Love
Chapter 3 Like At First Sight
Chapter 4 Date For Yourself
Chapter 5 Build Confidence By Being Social
Chapter 6 Baby Steps Lead To Big Love
Chapter 7 Nix The Negativity
Chapter 8 Design Your Love Mission
Chapter 9 Do Something Good (For Yourself)
Chapter 10 Gimme Some Sugar
Chapter 11 Is He Really Into You?
Chapter 12 The Dirt About Internet Dating
Chapter 13 The Dating Dynamic
Chapter 14 Switched Positions
Chapter 15 Trapped In A Dating Rut
Chapter 16 Gratitude Is A Virtue
References
Dedication
This book is dedicated to all the love-seeking women who want to meet the right man. It’s time for you to find your own unique path to love and the life you’ve imagined. This book was written to keep you motivated and minimize those time-wasting missteps that knock us off track from what we want. Maybe you’ll even discover something new that you love about yourself. To dating smarter; cheers!
Acknowledgements
A very special acknowledgment goes to, Joe. Everyday you continue to be the apple of my eye, the love of my life, and the King of my world. My love for you grows more each day. Never could I imagine myself with anyone else. Thank you for your love and patience.
An acknowledgement also goes out to my friends and family members. Especially those who made time to help me with this book and listened to all my crazy ideas. To those who even volunteered their time and energy so I could move past my own roadblocks, thank you so very much.
Thank you, God. For somehow giving me strength to spread positivity and inspiration, no matter how difficult I feel some things may become. Thank you for continuing to encourage me to be nothing more than the very best I can be, whatever that is for today.
Introduction
This book was not written about my story or anyone else’s. It’s about yours. As you may already know, the path to love isn’t the same for everyone. Throughout the years, I’ve witnessed many couples become engaged and get married. Some of them are still happy today and some are not so happy. None of them found love the same way though and they each have their own story to tell, just like you do.
So what’s your story? Staying competitive in the dating scene can become difficult at times. Especially if you’re a woman who’s been in it for a while, much like I was. I’ve seen and heard it all. Even escaped a few sketchy relationships myself. After dating a few bad apples, I found myself starting to lose faith in my search for love. The reason I wrote this book is to keep women, like you, from giving up.
No matter what your age is, if you want love in your life you deserve to have it. Love won’t just show up when you want it to and it definitely won’t come around when you’re expecting it either. If you can get through the stumbling blocks known to throw women off track during their search for love, you’ll find it, without much effort on your part.
Each chapter in this book has been written individually and could stand alone, should you ever want to go back and revisit a section. You will also find that some ideas are mentioned more than once. This is because those ideas are worth repeating and will apply to multiple scenarios. Learning a few easy guidelines could make all the difference.
We’ve all been caught standing on the wrong line in the love department. Time is precious. Knowing the patterns to look for will save you time. Think of this book as a gentle tap on the shoulder whenever you may be dating someone who’s not right for you. Find the right man quickly by staying focused on the things you want in life.
Are you ready? Love and happiness is just around the corner. Decide on what you want in life and then choose the right path that will lead you there.
image_01.jpgChapter 1
Love Won’t Find You Sitting On The Sofa
Let’s move straight to the point, dating is tough. After a few bad dates in a row, we all feel like surrendering and giving up. Giving up isn’t much of an option though. So what’s the best way to stay motivated while you search for the right man? Stop wasting time