Soothe Your Soul: Meditations to Help You Through Life’S Painful Moments
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In Soothe Your Soul, Vredeveld shares a host of meditations to help people navigate some of lifes most painful moments. Based on her personal life experiences and complemented with Scripture readings and songs, the meditations address a variety of topics, including conflict, confusion, gossip, hostility, self-doubt, anger, depression, and the death of a loved one.
Filled with words to calm the spirit and uplift the heart, Soothe Your Soul offers reflections and teachings to guide people through some of lifes most trying times and experiences.
Rev. Margaret Vredeveld
Rev. Margaret Vredeveld is an ordained United Church of Christ pastor who served her congregation in Clare, Michigan, for fourteen years. In retirement, she fulfills the office of pastor by presiding at funerals and weddings and by preaching occasionally. Vredeveld and her husband have three grown daughters, a son-in-law, and two granddaughters.
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Soothe Your Soul - Rev. Margaret Vredeveld
Copyright © 2013 Ronald and Margaret Vredeveld Family Revocable Living Trust
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Spirit, Spirit of Gentleness: Words and Music Copyright © 1978 by James K. Manley. All Rights Reserved.
Hymn of Promise: Words & Music: Natalie Sleeth © 1986 Hope Publishing Company, Carol Stream, IL 60188. All Rights Reserved.
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Abbott Press rev. date: 10/23/2013
Contents
Acknowledgements
Foreword
Preface
A Song of the Soul
Index of Meditations for Painful Moments
Boredom Trust God and Give God Thanks
Christmas A Light Upon My Path
Conflict The War of the Squirrels
Confusion Take a Lesson from the Sunflower
Death of a Loved One More than the Sand
Easter Ode to my Easter Child
Father’s Day See What Love the Father Has Given Us
Fear of Commitment Hand in Hand
Gossip Sticks and Stones
Grief Arthritis of the Soul
Hard Times The Tree That Survived
Hostility Give Thanks for the Gift of Life
Impatience Hurry up and Wait
Life after Death Through It All
Losses An Attitude of Gratitude
Messiness Showers of Blessing
Mother’s Day As a Mother Comforts Her Child
Negativity Filter out the Negative
New Beginnings Strangers in a Strange Land
Regret Be At Peace
Self-doubt This Little Light of Mine
Stress God Walks With Us
Transition You Are My Child—the Beloved
Troubled Waters Peace Like a River in My Soul
Valentine’s Day Near to the Heart of God
Afterword: The Story of the Blue Heron
About the Author
In loving memory of
Sheri Joy Vredeveld April 4, 1973 - April 11, 2001
Acknowledgements
Words can’t truly convey my deep gratitude to the people who have walked with me on this journey of the soul, but I DO say, Thanks!
Especially to my family: Ron, Julie, Scott, Cindy, Sheri, Meliah, Kaya and Lucille. You haven’t always liked what I had to say, but you always affirmed my right to say it and you honored my unique expression. I know it was sometimes annoying that I had a song for every comment, but—still—you sang along with me. I’ll always remember telling you stories with and without lyrics! What a gift to me!
To my former parishioners at Clare Congregational United Church of Christ: Thanks! In becoming your teacher and pastor you pastored and taught me.
To my friends and colleagues at Immanuel Lutheran Church: Thanks! You helped me find my voice. Special thanks to Marilyn Zorn for reading my manuscript and offering suggestions. Thanks to Dan and Jennifer Digman who helped me brave the world of publishing.
To my former voice students: Thanks! In teaching you the art of singing, you taught me the art of listening.
To James K. Manley: Thanks for inspiring and encouraging me!
To a very special artist, Meliah Mead: Thanks for the drawings! They are such a wonderful reflection of what our family has shared over the years.
To the Staff at Abbott Press: Thanks for all your support.
Foreword
These meditations chart the course of a mother and pastor through a wilderness of loss and sorrow toward a spiritual clearing of hope and renewal.
I have heard Rev. Margaret singing her sermons and read her articles in the local newspaper and always have admired her grace and humanity.
This book will allow a wider group of readers to share her thoughts and experiences and her ever-maturing faith.
Marilyn Zorn
Margaret has always shared her creative genius with her family. We enjoyed her cooking, listened to her stories, proudly wore the clothes she sewed, and enjoyed the beauty she created in our home.
We enjoyed her gift of music whenever we traveled by car—she had a song for every occasion. She blessed our lives as she sang in churches and later when we sang with her.
While she was studying in seminary and serving as a pastor, we enjoyed watching her share her creative writing and creative presentations with other people. Her sermons inspired us and many others—deepening their spirituality through reflection on the stories of God’s people and the simple events of everyday life.
We are thankful that now she will share her stories, insights, and reflections with a broader audience. We know that her creative reflections on life in this book will provide for you, as they have for us, renewed hope, deeper peace, and concern for God’s people and creation.
Ron, Julie, Scott, Cindy, Meliah and Kaya
Preface
In April, 2001, my youngest daughter Sheri Joy died at age twenty-eight of ovarian cancer. She had survived since her diagnosis in July, 1996 and we had been very hopeful that a relapse in September, 2000 was just that—a relapse. She asked me to be her spiritual guide as she began to realize she was dying. Every night I would pray the Psalms with her and practice Reiki (healing hands) on her body. My husband and I embraced her at the end and I remember saying, I was there for her first breath and her last.