The Sexually Traumatized Psyche of the Black Woman
By Richuz Tetia
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Richuz Tetia
Richuz Tetia was born on the forth of January in the year 1969. His mother raised him without the assistance of his father, in Bedford-Stuyvesant, Brooklyn. Although he did not graduate high school, he continued to study African American history. He began to feel sadness for the black woman due to the history in America. He began to see a connection between the past and present behavior of the black woman and decided to write a book that would help her alleviate her condition.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Phenomenal, Empowering body of work ??A must read for all black people. Especially my beautiful sisters.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Such an awakening gift to read. It was truly a journey and beutifully written just for me a black woman looking to connect with self. It truly help me see why ithink the way i do. so good. best read i have had in decades.
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The Sexually Traumatized Psyche of the Black Woman - Richuz Tetia
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Contents
Foreword
Chapter One: The Beginning (Rape)
Chapter Two: Physical Torture
Chapter Three: Transgenerational Impact
Chapter Four: Psyche and DNA
Chapter Five: Psyche Relating to Her Husband
Chapter Six: Psyche Relating to Children
Chapter Seven: Twisted Energies
Chapter Eight: Taken Responsibility
Chapter Nine: Behold, I Make All Things Like New
Bibliography
Foreword
W ELCOME, READERS, TO WHAT I pray will be a mind-shocking journey. If you are reading this work, then you have a strong desire to learn exactly what happened to the psyche of, first, the African woman enslaved in America and, second, the black woman across the globe. The reason I am studying only the African woman is because today, on a sexual level, she is more traumatized than the other women of the globe; secondly, she is the woman that gave me life by God’s permission. She is my divine wife, my daughter, my sister, my cousin, my helper, my consoler, my heaven. If that is not enough for me to study her, then something is very wrong with me as a black man.
It hurts me deeply to see you in turmoil. It hurts me to see you trying so hard to perfect yourself, your relationships, and your children, and it just doesn’t seem to work out right. It hurts me to see or hear you crying for whatever reason. It hurts me to see you desiring attention that only brings you more sorrow. It hurts me to see you going in and out of many different relationships and destroying your body as well as your mind. It hurts me to see you leaving for work in the early mornings with no protection. Yes, I know you have to make ends meet, and you don’t feel you need protection. I know, sister. It just hurts me to see you unprotected. Please don’t be upset with me. I’m just saying you should be cherished a lot more than even you understand.
The black woman has experienced trauma on a sexual level that no other woman has experienced in the records of history before. It was a unique experience designed to ruin herself and everyone in her surroundings: at home, during travel, at work wherever. In this writing, we will attempt to use the law of cause and effect to explain why or from what source she makes decisions, and why her interactions are the result of a sexually traumatized psyche or mind. Every so often, readers, I will ask you to look at the words in the glossary as they help us to understand better. Cause and effect—because this happened, this is now the result. We will study very intensely the effects of rape. We will attempt to enter the mind of a rape victim and the aftereffects. What happens to her mind without treatment, and what happens to her thinking process?
I now know who you are. I now understand that you are the key to correcting the problems that we have in this world. I now know that inside your mind is the heaven spoken of in every religious organization, any book of love, throughout the history of time. You are the key. I don’t care what your life is like now; I don’t care what wrongs you may have Done. It doesn’t matter. You are the key to unlocking the secrets of God, faith, love, and universal peace. Every answer to your problem is locked away in that special place we call psyche. With your permission, I would like to attempt to help you unlock the secrets inside of your psyche—with God’s permission, of course. Even if you do not believe in a higher power, it’s okay. Just stay with me, please. I pray that my understanding of love takes you into a new you, and then you create a new atmosphere. I only ask that you prepare your mind to receive the truth no matter how much it hurts; second, to analyze the truth even if it’s against yourself; and third, if you find it to be truth, too, then act on the truth. If at any time you feel pain during this journey, then know that your change is taking place. It takes pain to become new, sisters. You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free—yes, make you free. Sexual—of relating to, involving, or characteristic of sex, sexuality, the sexes, or the sex organs and their functions 2 implying or symbolizing erotic desires or activity 3 of relating to, or involving the union of male and female
Sexual Assault—Indecent conduct of a man toward another man, a women, or a child, accompanied by the threat or danger of physical suffering or injury or inducing fear, shame, humiliation and mental anguish
Trauma—A serious injury or shock to the body, as from violence or an accident 2 psychiat. An emotional wound or shock that creates substantial lasting damage to the psychological development of a person.
Psyche—The spirit or soul 2 psychiat the mind functioning as the center of