I Cry for You, I Cry for Me
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I Cry for You, I Cry for Me is a memoir of author Wayne Tozier Seamess struggle since the loss of his cherished partner. It represents a compendium of his thoughts reflecting the overwhelming despair that has come into his life. Grieving the loss of a spouse or partner is a heartrending confrontation that must be undertaken by the surviving partner.
As a guide, I Cry for You, I Cry for Me seeks to help those suffering the agony of their loss. Seames explores the commonality of grief all survivors must confront and offers help in coping with the agony of such a profound lost.
Additionally, he has developed a plan of self-recovery in the face of the anguish that anyone who has lost a loved one must deal with after their loss. While he has begun to make the steps necessary to heal, there remain many more critical steps to be taken. For many months he has cried daily over the loss of his partner. The cries are not volumes of tears but tears of emotional distressof the loss of the earthly presence of true love.
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I Cry for You, I Cry for Me - Wayne Tozier Seames
Copyright © 2009, 2011 by Wayne Tozier Seames.
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iUniverse rev. date: 12/27/2011
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INTRODUCTION
INTRODUCTION
This little book is a memoir of my struggle through the past twenty months since the loss of my cherished partner. I have attempted to formulate a compendium of my thoughts to words that reflect the onerous despair that has befallen me.
Additionally I have sought to formulate a plan of self recovery for the deluge of hurt that I have had to live with these past months. I feel I have made progress to a conclusion, even though there remains many more steps to be taken
The title which I decided to use was not dwelled on or given any thought. For twenty months I have cried nearly every day for the loss of my partner. The cries are not volumes of tears emitted from my eyes every day, but tears of emotional distress. There are days, in fact, when the liquid dose
of tears flow in abundance.
The picture that I have used for the cover is a snap shot that was taken about forty nine years ago. This photo was taken of Mary in a self portrait booth in a retail mall not long after we met. I have carried this photograph in my wallet all these years, and it remains there to this day
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There has not been a day that I have not cried for you. The emptiness, the void, the loneliness, the anger or all the descriptive words that could describe the hurt and sadness that now engulf me, will most