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    No Regrets: Living a Life of Passion, Self-Respect & Boldness: Rise As Men, #1
    No Regrets: Living a Life of Passion, Self-Respect & Boldness: Rise As Men, #1
    No Regrets: Living a Life of Passion, Self-Respect & Boldness: Rise As Men, #1
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    No Regrets: Living a Life of Passion, Self-Respect & Boldness: Rise As Men, #1

    By RJ Derby

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    Many men in today's society feel that they are failures in life…

    But the only true variety of failure comes from not trying to reach your full potential in the first place because you're actually full of regrets.

    There comes a time in every man's life when they feel that they have tried everything to make a change, and yet for some reason or another, that change has not successfully manifested into their lives.

    What happens then is that we become profoundly discouraged, and end up living life in a downward spiral of regret.

    We have all heard someone say, 'If you're going to do it, then do it right or don't do it at all'. And even though we often feel we have done things right the first time, we are all too quick to discover what we think is right is quite different from what someone else's idea of right might be.

    We then begin to feel like we have failed, we feel sorry for ourselves, become discouraged, and regret making a choice in the first place.

    What we have to understand in the chaotic modern world is that we CAN always bounce back from even the most difficult situations.

    The question you have to ask yourself if you truly want to learn how to rise from the ashes of where you are right now is: Do You Regret the Choices You Have Made So Far in Your Life?

    If you answered yes to the above question, then ask yourself this: Do You Think It Is Possible to Live Your Life Without Regret?

    My answer? Absolutely!

    There is a way for men to stop feeling sorry for themselves and to start reclaiming their lost motivation for life.

    What many men don't always take into consideration during times of failure is the fact that a very common – if not unfortunate – part of being, not only a man but a human being as well, is regret.

    Whether you think you have figured it all out, or even if you consider you haven't, the unforeseen obstacles that seem to insert themselves in your path can at often times, take you by surprise.

    Sometimes, setbacks hit you like rocks and can seem insurmountable.

    You might begin to believe that you have failed for a reason and that there is no possible way that you could ever be the man you want to be. Thus, this results in many men regretting the path they have chosen in life. 

    More often than not, many men will then begin to believe the worst case scenario will happen…and they are a lot less ready to believe in the possibility of success. 

    If everything you have read describes how you feel, then this is where the advice contained in No Regrets: Living a Life of Passion, Self-Respect & Boldness (Book 1 of the Rise As Men Series - approx 103 pages) comes in for you.

    No stones are left unturned in this book. It is a ground-breaking book that will help you Pull Yourself Back Up from the Canvas and Begin to Rise As a Man! This book is a good kick in the arse for many men living in today's society.

    LanguageEnglish
    Publisherwww.riseasmen.com
    Release dateAug 11, 2018
    ISBN9781386247449
    No Regrets: Living a Life of Passion, Self-Respect & Boldness: Rise As Men, #1
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    RJ Derby

    RJ Derby shamelessly declares himself as an advocate for men. He will outrightly admit to anyone who asks him that he was once what he refers to as a tyrant who thought he knew it all but really knew nothing. The realisation that he was a “tyrant” rather than a “King” created a shift in Derby’s mind and made him want to start discovering what it really meant to be a real man in today’s chaotic world. Because with the many inward disagreements and conflicts he was suffering, he knew he wasn’t the man he was supposed to be. After attaining a diploma in psychology and studying leadership and confidence building skills, RJ began teaching men how they could better themselves by becoming better men. He focused mainly on telling them to step up and become the alpha male. He tried to direct the “less” masculine men towards understanding the difference between the fake alpha males (which he refers to as the “jerks”) and what he deemed to be a “real” alpha male. As time went on, although he still somewhat holds true to what he taught in the beginning, he has also come to understand that too many men in the world today are focusing on trying to become an alpha. This, unfortunately, according to Derby, has resulted in men becoming more jerks and less than what a man ought to be. ‘I believe this stems from the fact that the term “Alpha Male” has been so overused in our society that is causing many men to regress rather than evolve because they are searching for a secret ingredient that will shoot them into finding their manhood,’ RJ states. ‘There are so many coaches trying to force men to become something that in all hindsight just does not fit the way the world has become nowadays. The alpha male, the actual term, in my opinion, is dead and needs to be laid to rest.’ In his books, RJ refuses to tell men that they need to have the traits and values of an alpha male to become better men. He prefers to direct his readers and clients alike towards the traits and values he holds close to his heart. And after spending years searching for who he is, the author has a lot of traits and values he can share.

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      No Regrets - RJ Derby

      Thank you for purchasing No Regrets: Living a Life of Passion, Self-respect & Boldness

      What’s happening Gentlemen?

      I want to thank you for downloading this book and spending time with me as we venture towards creating a better life for all of us. Before we dive into this book, there’s one more thing I would appreciate from you. After reading this book, could you please, please, please help spread the word of this book and the movement Rise As Men by heading back to the online bookstore where you bought this book and leave an honest review. We need to open the eyes and minds of more men, and with you’re help, we will succeed in doing this.

      This would be deeply appreciated.

      Thank you.

      Stay Victorious  & Rise!

      ~ RJ Derby

      Introduction: Establishing Yourself as a No Regrets Man

      Living a life with no regrets is about becoming a man who is learned and educated. It is about having a deep, unquenchable thirst for knowledge, living life by high values and no matter what, never become persuaded from your beliefs because you are so grounded within yourself. The values you live by give you the overwhelming desire to leave everyone you meet better off than how you found them because a man who lives a life with no regrets is not a fighter but a survivor who is in complete control of his anger and frustrations. This way of life tends to give you the permission to live for the day and not worry about tomorrow. You won’t care what others think of you, and you will always chase your purpose.

      Living a life with no regrets means you have the perfect balance within yourself. You are nothing less than 100% authentic. That’s it, that’s the secret to not only living a no regrets lifestyle but becoming a better man as well. But getting to that point, you must first grasp the concept of what it takes to be that man.

      Honestly, you have to be real, not only to those around you but yourself as well. A man should never have anything to hide, so you have to be totally and utterly open to yourself and others. Open to your shyness, open to all your insecurities, all your problems. Just be open and honest.

      Let me ask you this: is there any point in actually hiding stuff from yourself and others? What does that achieve? Look deep inside yourself and ask how do you feel inside when you know you are hiding stuff from yourself? Can you be in a relationship, a real loving relationship if you’re not open and honest about everything with your partner? As I said, a man has nothing to hide, and this is the first step to take into the world of no regrets. You can’t have skeletons in the closet. This is the time to unearth the demons you buried a long time ago and fight them off. Become authentic, and once you have grasped the concept of this, you will begin to see yourself.

      You will understand what you have been suppressing deep within yourself for so long and how amazingly powerful that is. You will not be afraid to express yourself because you will finally understand that that is what you should have been doing your entire life. Life is, and always will be, an act of self-expression.

      Self-expression is what makes you a man, and you will learn to enjoy the fact that you can express yourself without the fear of being ridiculed because you have finally taken the bull by the horns. You have grasped and accepted the meaning of your manhood, which is, purely and simply, unleashing yourself into the world. Masculine energy is about unleashing, implementing yourself in the world, and that is what you must do. To put it bluntly: you need to fuck the world.

      What I mean when I say you need to fuck the world isn’t me telling you to go out into the world and screw everything that breathes and moves. It’s referring to the fact that you must stop being shy, a coward, and living your life in fear. It means you must push all of your personality forward, thrust it forward and fuck the world with it; penetrate the world with your authentic self. Living with no regrets means that your life will become about giving and creating and simply doing. You’ll become sensitive enough to give to the world and those around you, intelligent enough to go out into the world and succeed at creating anything you want. Masculine enough to not give a single flying fuck about what anyone thinks about you, and you will learn to embrace, receive what the world offers you, and to just do it.

      I’ll say it again: to live a life of no regrets, you need to learn how to fuck the world. This is how we should all behave. If you cannot get out in the real world and fuck it, then how can you possibly get into the bedroom and fuck your girl? Not being able to achieve this within the real world and within the bedroom means you are allowing obstacles to get in your way. We must stop allowing difficulties, problems, or weaknesses stand in our way whether succeeding in the world or the bedroom.

      A man who understands his manliness and expels it in its true nature, and succeeds with all that he does literally feel this way. He has given the world his seed and once where there was nothing, he has now given it life. This is our biggest achievement and something we feel very proud of. Whereas a woman can give life and we can only have a child through a woman, our creative process of implementing into the world becomes extremely important to us as men. By tapping into our inner drive, boning up and fucking the world with our creativity, we begin to identify our purpose in life, what our mission is, and we sense the feeling of complete and utter fulfilment.

      Unfortunately, however, for some men, this fulfilment is never felt. And many years from now, as they are lying on their deathbeds, they begin to have regrets of how they lived their life.

      Do not become one of these regretful men.

      What do you do when you come home from a long day at work? Perhaps you walk through the door, open the fridge, crack your first beer for the evening, sit down in front of the TV and drink that beer while waiting for your dinner to be cooked. The kids are running around in front of the TV, yelling and screaming, blocking you from the news reporter, and as you sit there, stressed from your day at work, trying to relax and drink your beer, listening to the news, the kids keep running around getting louder and louder, your wife begins trying to tell you about her day and...

      Well, you get the point.

      This is how the average man nowadays lives out his life. He wakes up, he goes to work, he comes home, and he goes to bed. Think about this:

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