Text Him This Not That | Texting Tips To Build Attraction and Shorten His Response Time!
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Your First Text Could be Your Last! Why? Because most women text guys like they text other women.
You can have all the dating skills in place but if your texting sucks he's gone. STOP! Understand the male brain so your texting captures his attention and keeps him hooked and attentive until the next date. To understand his mind, you need a top male dating coach.
Hi I'm Gregg. I write books based on your needs. Thousands of you bought and read Power Texting Men so you are killing it already. Now, let's step it up a notch with texting for the more mature crowd, regardless of your age. This texting book is for you.
By the end of this texting book, your competition for him is toast - he's into you
As a woman, you have a built-in ability to be charming. You deliver a look or you use a certain tone of voice and you're able to work your way with men. In an instant, you can melt a man's heart.
When you meet a man you're attracted to, you turn on that charm, you deliver a coy smile, you walk away and he's hooked. Yet, when it comes to texting, you're all thumbs. You're anxious and you feel incompetent. You lose all confidence.
As a result, you text instinctively, like a woman, which is the natural thing for you to do. You can quickly get emotional and frustrated when he doesn't respond as soon as you would like. You might bomb him with texts, getting more worried with each one.
All this emotion, anger and frustration is normal. Your flirting skills have evolved over millions of years. Flirting comes as naturally to you as flight to a bird. When you're standing face-to-face with a man, you're good but when you're facing the tiny screen on your phone, you're perplexed.
That's because you expect him to respond like your girlfriends do.
Guy's don't! We never evolved!
Inside Text Him This Not That is not just how to formulate a great text but how to understand the male mind. This is as much about learning how his mind works as it is about learning how to formulate texts he can't resist. How can you communicate with him if you don't understand what he's looking for or what turns him on?
Here's what you will learn inside:
The catch me if you can mentality and why it works
The 10 rules of engagement that gets him to respond consistently and fast
How to build attraction by destroying boredom and shattering all things conventional!
How to revive a man who is texting less and less
The texting blunders and how to avoid them
What to text him so he asks you out
The power of delaying, radio silence, and texting like his best friend texts him
Text examples that are so unique that he will want more!
And a ton more!
About the Author:
Gregg Michaelsen is a #1 best-selling author of more than 20 dating advice for women books and life coaching books. He coaches men and women on how to become more confident in both their regular and dating lives.
He has a unique connection to the more than 250,000 readers who have purchased his books. Readers quickly discover him to be not only responsive to their questions but eager to help. He has devoted his life to understanding men and women and what comprises a successful relationship so he can guide his readers to the holy grail of relationships - the 80-year old couple sitting on a park bench, still holding hands, still in love after 50 years!
Gregg Michaelsen
Gregg rules the dating advice genre having sold a quarter million books. He is a multiple #1 best-selling author, dating coach, and life coach. Being both gives him an incredible advantage over his competitors. He helps women (and men) succeed in both their dating and everyday lives. He encourages his readers to contact him through his books and get answers for free.Gregg’s motto? Build Yourself and He Will Come.When not answering emails from his readers, Gregg loves jetsking, surfing, hanging out under the palm trees in West Palm, and calling his Mom at 5 am. His Dad was a life coach, before they were even popular, and coached Gregg.Gregg just completed a video shoot with world renowned dating/relationship expert Dr. Helen Fisher in NYC. He credits his three older sisters as the reason why he understands women so well. He gives to The Wounded Warrior Project and animal shelters.Gregg is currently working on his latest book that helps women truly understand men so they can acquire what they want by communicating in a language that men understand. Exciting stuff!Visit Gregg at WhoHoldsTheCardsNow.com and become a believer, thousands have.
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Reviews for Text Him This Not That | Texting Tips To Build Attraction and Shorten His Response Time!
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Funny at least even if slightly old fashioned and way too formulaic text excerpts. A good reminder of common sense and relaxing when first text courting.
- Rating: 1 out of 5 stars1/5Corny as hell. I wouldn’t text that crap. Nobody interacts like this.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Great write up !!learnt a lot here ! well done
- Rating: 1 out of 5 stars1/5A fossil. Racist, sexiest, ageist. The world doesn’t work like this anymore, it’s the 21st century.
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Text Him This Not That | Texting Tips To Build Attraction and Shorten His Response Time! - Gregg Michaelsen
Let's face it, texting is the way in which most of us communicate on a daily basis. It's in the workplace, our 80-year-old parents and grandparents are texting and kids know how to text at an early age. It has all but replaced face-to-face interactions for the most basic types of communication.
Research tells us that 44% of men and 37% of women find texting to be an easier way to flirt and get acquainted with a new love interest. Roughly one-third of men and women believe it is less intimidating to ask for a date via text than on the phone. Probably because it's less painful if you get shot down.
Across all age groups from 21-50, roughly one-third of all surveyed said they use their mobile device to schedule and plan dates. Texting is definitely part of the dating world for both men and women!
While there are differences in how we text, depending on how old we are, there are greater differences in the way men and women text, regardless of age. My first texting best seller, Power Texting Men, was written to address the texting needs of a younger crowd - women just out of college into their twenties who are looking for a great man.
Text Him This Not That is different. I wrote this book for the more mature crowd, regardless of age. This read is written for women who are less interested in blatant flirting and more interested in using texting to hook a guy and keep him interested!
It is probably no secret to you that men and women are vastly different in how we communicate. Women write me all the time, frustrated with the brief snippets of communication they receive from a man, whether it's in a text or email. What most women fail to understand is that this is how men talk. Think about your past conversations with men. Who does most of the talking? Usually you, right?
This begins as soon as children learn to talk and play together. Boys can be found bumping elbows in the sandbox trying to get the best Tonka Truck available. They communicate with sand in the eyes and punches - not talking and touching hair.
Through actions, not words, are how guys communicate. If I had smartphone at age four, I would whip it to get my point across. There would be no text!
By the time they reach school age, their speech development is usually not as advanced as the girls who have spent every waking moment since they were able, communicating with other little girls with words.
Boys grunt and rub elbows, girls talk. Nothing changes as we get older. I'm going to teach you how to draw him out with texts that he won't be able to resist, just like his boy buds can!
This book isn't just about learning how to text, it's about successfully building a great relationship, using texting as one of the tools in your arsenal. It starts with one element necessary in every great relationship - your ability to challenge one another and build attraction through mystery and intrigue.
That is your best use of texting in your relationship and throughout this book, I will show you many ways in which you can do just that.
To learn the importance of building attraction through mystery and intrigue in your relationship, download my FREE SPECIAL REPORT: Catch Me If You Can!
Men are wired for the chase. It's part of the excitement of being in a relationship. Part of that chase occurs when the woman plays her most important card - the catch me if you can card. A man cannot resist this taunt and unless he's brain dead, he will respond.
Your job is to play that card skillfully and in a timely manner. You don't want to use it all of the time, but in those moments where it can be most effective. You need to build balance into your texting, just as you do in your relationship as a whole. Too much texting leads to unhappiness and a lack of fulfillment. Too little communication of any sort shows disinterest and leads you to an ultimate end.
When you build challenge and mystery into your texting, you engage his desire to chase you. You build attraction and keep him intrigued. He will always want to know more. He will be salivating in anticipation of your next date. All you need to do is stay one step ahead of him in your texts and he won't know what hit him.
Along with challenge and balance, a good relationship has mutual respect. This can be the first thing you lose in your texting if you aren't careful. Many women lose a guy by texting something too flirty too soon, by appearing to be too needy or by injecting their emotions into the texting conversation.
If you always remember to keep things light and fun, you won't have this problem. Flirting in a text is great, if you know how to do it. Texting should be an enhancement to your relationship, not the primary form of communication.
If you use texting to create that mystery and challenge, to keep him intrigued and interested, your relationship will grow and blossom but if you use it as a tool to deliver your anger, frustration and insecurity, it will be the tool of death for your relationship.
I'm here to help you avoid making those mistakes!
I have chapter after chapter of information included to help you know what men like to see and what they definitely do not want to see in a text. I've got all of the major texting blunders most women make and how to avoid them. I will even try to help you revive a relationship damaged by a bad text. Sometimes it's possible, sometimes it's not.
Inside Text Him This Not That is not just how to formulate a great text but how to understand the male mind. This is as much about learning how his mind works as it is about learning how to formulate texts he can't resist. How can you communicate with him if you don't understand what he's looking for?
No longer will you be frustrated when you are forced to wait an hour, two hours or even a day for a response. Your days of getting angry because he didn't reply to your last message are over. You will learn the value of having a life outside of life with