Living with Catherine Mcauley
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Ulana M. Bochan
LIVING WITH CATHERINE McAULEY is an inspirational work prompted by my experience, for the last 23 years, in a Mercy school in Kentucky. I had taught English for a total of 33 years, spanning a spectrum from junior high to senior year. It was in the Mercy school that I became aware of the Mercy charism, and in my retirement, that I was able to reflect on its effect on my life. At the end of my teaching career, I was left with two indisputable values: compassion and unconditional love. These two values, I realized, would create for me, not a retirement but a “recycling” of a more meaningful journey, yet to be taken. Through this work I hope to impart a hopeful approach to life that translates doubt into faith. Being born in the Ukraine, and fleeing with my parents during world War II, required a lot of faith on my parents' part. I would not be here today, enjoying freedom, if they had not had the courage to persevere. Growing up as a DP (Displaced Person) left its plus and minuses. Today, I understand more clearly how all my experiences, good and bad, have contributed to my formation: I can accept life as is ; I can choose to act with compassion and extend a loving hand.
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Living with Catherine Mcauley - Ulana M. Bochan
DEDICATION
To
Elyse Juliana Bochan, my beautiful five-year old grandchild, whose sensitivity to her world already promises blossoms of compassion.
And to
The loving memory of my mother, Maria Kramarczuk, who practiced the gift of unconditional love.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
I stand in gratitude to Mary C. Sullivan, RSM, a member of the Rochester, New York regional community of the Institute of the Sisters of Mercy of the Americas, for her valuable assistance in furthering this project.
A thank you to my husband, Bohdan, for his support and encouragement.
Special recognition to Danylo Michael Bochan for designing the artistic cover.
Contents
FORWORD
INTRODUCTION
Part I: Signposts
Part II: Mercy in the Classroom: Birth of Values
Part III: Mercy in the Classroom: Meeting the Challenge
Part IV: Living Catherine McAuley Moments
POINTS OF DEPARTURE
FORWORD
Living With Catherine McAuley provides an examination of a life shepherded by Catherine McAuley. Divided into four major parts, it shows a journey from the past to the present. Part I contains significant signposts that spell out the trajectory of one life. My journey from the past to the present shows the workings of a free will guided by Providence that ultimately leads to a teaching ministry at a Mercy school, Assumption High School in Louisville, Kentucky. It is written for the purpose of inviting everyone who reads it to examine the patterns that have led to the moment of now, so that he/she can recognize God’s presence and shape a clearer view of not only personal direction but also, earthly work yet to be accomplished.
Part II deals with Mercy values of humility, compassion and unconditional love – the basics of the Mercy charism as exemplified by Catherine McAuley. This section is a continuation of my journey, specifying my initiation into Catherine’s way of life within my teaching ministry. This reflective view encapsulates the gradual growth and understanding of how these practiced values of humility, compassion and love can spiritually enrich both the student and the teacher. In my opinion, making Catherine’s values inherent in any ministry encourages the unbelievable
to happen. Not only has Catherine created magic
in my life, but she has also transformed my approach to it. She has engendered an indisputable identity that fortifies my strengths and gives direction to the now
of my life.
Part III is a pedagogical approach that incorporates Catherine’s values on a daily basis. In this type of classroom atmosphere, Catherine becomes a living spirit
, helping students go beyond the facts into a realm of positive self-actualization. Respect for one another becomes a staple in the classroom. It is the base upon which all the other values are built. This section encourages the reader to examine pedagogical strategies that work while building a strong communal bond between students and teacher. The culmination of this type of Catherine-based knowledge has sprouted a recognition of what unconditional love might mean in interactions with others. Unconditional love denotes a Christian love where one would give one’s life for the betterment of others – just as Jesus did. However, in view of Catherine’s charism, I believe giving one’s life can take on a metaphorical meaning: Christian servanthood where the self
lovingly ministers to the needs of others.
Part IV: Catherine McAuley Moments can become a way of life when someone has been immersed into the Mercy tradition or simply wishes to reinforce Mercy values. This Part defines a Catherine Moment: a reciprocal giving and receiving. It is the carrying on of a legacy, a commitment, to live a life of Mercy where compassion lights the darkest room. In today’s problem-ridden world where man’s inhumanity to man
often reigns, one ordinary individual living with Catherine McAuley
can make a Mercy difference. All of us can be merciful transporters of hope. Since life is categorized by moments, why not make them Mercy ones? An invitation to create a living spirit
in our lives is an invitation to share our loving moments with our neighbor. Who is our neighbor? Everyone we meet on the path of life.
INTRODUCTION
Why Catherine McAuley?
Although Catherine McAuley was born September 29, 1778 and died November 11, 1841, the spirit of her legacy continues into today, affecting both religious and lay people. Because the universality of her beliefs is timeless, her charism of mercy has taken fire throughout the world. It has reached my corner of the world, bringing a kindling into my soul as I read about her life and mission and reflected on my 23 years of teaching ministry at a Mercy school.
On my journey in life, I have encountered many people who have influenced my life. Some, I could credit immediately as creative, positive signposts in my life; others have taken on a particular significance through introspective recollections. Catherine McAuley’s effect on my life emerged in my first year of retirement as I reflected back on the maze-like path my life had taken. Some of Catherine McAuley’s personal signposts signaled the steps in my own life journey.
From early on, Catherine experienced an emotional and spiritual orphanhood, leading her to a sole reliance on God’s providence. Her father, James McGauley, died when she was only five years old; her mother passed away in 1798 when she was 20. Because of these early deaths, Catherine was forced to move from one family to another. She first lived in the home of William Armstrong where her sister and brother were. At the Armstrongs, she experienced trials of faith, yet she remained stalwart in her Catholic beliefs. Although she suffered spiritually as her faith was ridiculed, she never wavered from it. Catherine’s sole reliance on God’s providence helped me to recognize God’s workings in my life.
In 1803, an opportunity presented itself to Catherine to move in with the Callaghans as a companion to Mrs. Callaghan. There she was allowed to follow her Catholic beliefs; eventually by her exemplary demeanor, she became responsible for the conversion of both Callaghans to Catholicism. She selflessly ministered to their physical and spiritual needs for a total of 19 years. With Mrs. Callaghan’s death in 1819 and her husband’s in 1822, Catherine became the Callaghans’ sole residuary legatee
(Sullivan, Catherine McAuley 10). Declining a marriage proposal and becoming a wealthy heiress at 43, Catherine could have easily used the enormous inheritance for her own personal needs; instead, she had a vision to construct a home on Baggot Street to shelter the underprivileged women in the area. On September 24, 1827, her vision became a reality as she witnessed the official opening of the house on Baggot Street as a school for the education of poor young girls and as a residence for homeless girls and women
(11). These selfless, brave acts of hers became my indicators that I needed to turn outward, to be less introverted and self-absorbed.
Catherine’s original intent with Baggot Street was simply to help the impoverished. She never envisioned forming a religious order; eventually, however, as