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    Queenology
    Queenology
    Queenology
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    Queenology

    By R.C. Blakes Jr. and Lisa M. Blakes

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    Queenology is the follow up to R.C Blakes' most popular book and timeless message, The Father Daughter Talk. One might call it the sequel. In the Father Daughter Talk he diagnoses the condition of a generation of women who are suffering from a deep father wound and the implications on their choices and self esteem. If the Father Daughter Talk is a diagnosis, QUEENOLOGY is the prescription. In this book (QUEENOLOGY), he expands his message to the woman to the next dimension. He boldly declares that every woman is a queen and in spite of her broken history, royalty is her destiny. Queenology offers the woman insights and principles for reigning in spite of the odds being against her. Queenology is as a king sitting down with queens and saying this is who you are and here's how you do it. Queenology is R.C. Blakes' answer to a generation of queens who've not been informed of their true station yet. In the book he discusses such principles as: Queens manage emotion, Queens study kings, Queens are financially savvy, Queens maximize their potential, Queens eliminate insecurity and negativity, Queens possess presence, Queens only hear kings, and Queens keep a royal circle. Queenology is a manual for the modern queen. It is for the woman who is ready to fix her crown, take her throne and expand her empire.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherBookBaby
    Release dateAug 2, 2017
    ISBN9780991086856
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    • 5/5
      I loved reading this book. It has been very inspirational and it would be good if every woman could read it. Awaken the queen in you!
    • 5/5
      Absolutely amazing and lifechanging!
      The principles in this book , if applied, will radically transform your self respect, self love and belief in yourself!
      Even before applying these principles, this book has the power to shift your mindset and challenge the way you view and see yourself. A must read for any woman to find herself again and walk in her true ordained power.
    • 5/5
      Excellent book for young women! Definitely a must read. Pastor Blakes really knows his stuff.
    • 5/5
      Thank you for your fatherly words of wisdom! An essential read for ladies who want to learn self love and self worth

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    • 5/5
      This book inspired me to be more stronger and live the identity God gave me.

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    • 5/5
      Eye-opener & breath of fresh air on how young girls and women need to carry themselves in this world today! Love you papa RC Blakes Jr - God bless your heart for being a blessing & saviour to millions of young women out there with this timely message!

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    • 5/5
      It is the book that fixes your mindset as a true queen and helps you get on track with your reign!

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    Book preview

    Queenology - R.C. Blakes Jr.

    QUEEN.

    Prologue

    Indulge me in my attempt at a prologue. It is the fictional tale of King Paternam and his three daughters Princess Honestum, Princess Imperium, and Princess Potestatum. I will attempt to weave the story of the king and his daughters throughout the book, as their story will correlate to the principles and wisdom I will convey in these pages.

    King Paternam discovers that he has to take the social and psychological development of his daughters into his own hands due to some unforeseen challenges. The king employs a very specific process to create a very specific mindset—the mindset of queens. The king desires to establish a queen’s consciousness within his girls. From chapter to chapter we will briefly revisit their story.

    QUEEN-CONSCIOUSNESS

    (The King and the Three Princesses)

    Once upon a time, in a land not too far away, there was a king by the name of Paternam. King Paternam had three beautiful daughters—Honestum, Imperium, and Potestatem. The king had been at war for many years which had taken him on a long journey. While King Paternam was away, Queen Materno, his wife and the mother of his girls, died. After her death and his absence, there was no regal presence to train the very young princesses. The girls were left in the hands of those who miseducated them and indoctrinated them against their royal identity. The court and the subjects abused the young regals because of their lack of self-knowledge and the absence of their kingly father’s presence.

    When a queen is miseducated, her power may be easily usurped.

    Upon the king’s sudden and unexpected return, he discovered these young queens were totally oblivious to their potential and place in the kingdom. They knew nothing of their true status. They were royalty, yet they behaved as commoners. They were insecure around those who were really servants to them, controlled by those who were actually subjects. They were begging for what already belonged to them, and they set their goals far beneath the thrones for which they were born.

    The king’s first action was to behead those who miseducated the young queens. His second action was to sit his daughters down and train them in the ways of queens.

    Though the king’s kingdom was still in a state of disarray and many issues needed attention, he put no agenda ahead of training the young princesses. He began by un-teaching the lies they learned about being inferior, powerless, unattractive, and limited. He taught them who they were, what they possessed, the power they had, the future they should expect, and the qualities of a man who would qualify to be their king. King Paternam worked on the mentality of his daughters for years until one day they walked, talked, and thought like the queens they were born to be. The king called this course of study Queenology.

    Chapter 1

    QUEENS MANAGE EMOTIONS

    QUEEN-CONSIOUSNESS

    (Emotional Instability May Cost You the Kingdom)

    As the king started re-training his daughters, he noticed that their deeply embedded insecurities and doubts were playing out on the canvas of their emotional lives. The girls were extremely emotional and reactive. This grieved the king because he knew that it was not the temperament of queens.

    As a result, one of the very first lessons King Paternam taught his young princesses was that queens may not wear their thoughts and emotions on their shoulders. Rulers don’t react. The king said, A queen will never be moved by words or circumstances. A queen is never emotional—she is always intentional and measured.

    The king said, "One cannot effectively strategize against a plot if her thoughts and feelings are obvious through unbridled emotion.

    A queen is more strategic than emotional. One badly placed emotional outburst or meltdown can cost a queen her reputation, respect, and possibly her throne.

    As the young girls listened to the wisdom of their father and thought about their ways, it was clear that the lesson was being taken to heart.

    There’s nothing more dangerous than being a woman who is emotionally out of control. The world will toy with this woman like a puppet. As a pastor, I have seen women destroy their homes, dismantle marriages, and cripple their promising careers, all because they were emotionally unstable. I’ve seen unscrupulous men take advantage of women simply because they were driven by their emotions and not their intellect or spiritual discernment. Average women are emotionally unstable. Powerful women harness their emotional impulses.

    A queen works hard at managing her emotions.

    A queen is a woman of the highest nobility, character, affluence, and influence. Her station in life demands self-discipline. A queen cannot be the standard for a nation, daughter, wife, or mother of kings and simultaneously meltdown in the mall because somebody got her parking space. Her position calls for patience, confidence, calm, and poise when others are everything but. A queen does not show her hand. She is calm in a storm.

    A queen is the most powerful woman and carries greater responsibility. She must possess a corresponding temperament. She can’t afford to be emotionally exposed.

    As female rulers of the age, queens have no space for the typical emotional instability that average women demonstrate. In modern urban vernacular, the queen is the boss. A boss recognizes that she is responsible for much, and too many people stand on her shoulders for her to be an emotional thermometer. A thermometer simply displays the temperature without any control over it. When a woman is emotionally undisciplined, she simply displays whatever emotion the moment dictates, even when it is to her own peril. Queens must never be emotional thermometers; rather, queens must be the emotional thermostat that establishes the temperature in every situation.

    A queen can’t be unstable!

    Emotions are too capricious (inconsistent) to be allowed to control your life. They should never control the woman; the woman must control her emotions. Uncontrolled emotions are like a runaway train destroying everything in its path, coming to the tragic end of itself. Many women have destroyed relationships, careers, and friendships because of their lack of emotional discipline.

    Women are socially conditioned to believe that they must be emotionally unstable because they are female. This is a blatant

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