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Personal Coaching is the art of facilitating people´s potential development to reach possible goals and changes the Being and Doing. In this process, the coach helps people to clarify their goals, weather personal, professional, affective, etc., and to find a way to accomplish them.
The Coach is a professional skilled on certain techniques and has communication skills and attitudes that make them skilled to perform his trainer role. It is a mutual relationship that comes along with you to solve your problems and act with more effectiveness.
The Coach works upon questions and dialogs, which added to the observation of behaviors, emotions and gestures of a person which give him information to detect the obstacles that make her slower.
The Coach helps you to discover your potentialities and to use them in concrete actions. He works focusing on short term goals, by using powerful questions to discriminate your interpretation of the facts and changing your point of view, so as to take action in a proactive way.
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Personal Coaching - Miguel D'Addario
Miguel D´Addario
PhD
Fourth Edition
European Community
2017
Index
Personal Coaching
Preface
Author´s Bio
Tale
The chair
Glossary
What is coaching?
Beginnings
Coaching procedure
Ontological coaching
Objective
Observation areas
Language ontology
Below the principles behind them
Defining coaching
Coach´s characteristics
Coach/Trainer´s Empathy
Coach/trainer´s self-esteem
Coach/trainer´s patience
The common understanding
Coaching as
Defining coach or trainer
Coaching advantages
How Coaching is done?
How is a Coaching process?
The sequence might be
Coaching aspects
Model of development of a Coaching process
Training process
Types of coaching
Personal Coaching
Coachee´s Objectives
On this basis the coach´s responsibility
Coach´s dialogue
Active listening
For that is necessary
When we must be alert?
Rules for active listening
Get the most out of active listening
Words
Silence
Effective coaching
Goals of the effective coaching
The qualities of the effective coach
Indicators of effective coaching
How to ask effective questions
How to be a good listener
Problem solving through coaching
Coach as a trainer
Coach as a tutor
Coach as a checker
Obstacles for Coaching
Steps for effective Coaching
Feedback
Coaching by upon rewards
Principles
Practical exercise
Active listening survey
A Tale
A man lost his axe
Assertiveness
Concepts
What do I think of?
How do I communicate? What is my language?
Do I listen?
Assertiveness development
Observing myself
The distortions or non-assertive irrationalities can be fought by 3 methods:
Reducing anxiety
Assertive strategies to face discussions
A Tale
The master and the scorpion
NLP
What is neurolinguistic programing?
People´s perception
NLP History
Coaching and NLP
NLP Exercises
Exercise 1
Sleep better
Exercise 2
The statements
Exercise 3
Generator of new consciousness
Exercise 4
Increase your safety and confidence
Exercise 5
Controlling stress
Exercise 6
Alignment of the neurological levels
Exercise 7
Development of self-esteem
Exercise 8
Well-formed goals
Exercise 9
The observer
Brain Gym and NLP
Brain structure and functioning
The functions of brain hemispheres
Brain gym
Brain Gym Background
What is Brain Gym?
Conclusions and Recommendations
Exercises Brain Gym
To write
Brain gymnastics
Exercise 1
Exercise 2
Exercise 3
Exercise 4
Brain Gym Exercises
Daily activities that benefit you
A tale
A matter of opinion
Autocoach and self-coaching
Contrast between Coaching and Self-Coaching
Therapeutic Coach
Vital questions to be a self-coach
Employing self-coaching
Knowing ourselves
Do not we forget to remain realistic in our goals
Let´s learn to say NO
Exercise, rest and recreate the mind
Let´s put our creativity to the test
Accomplish the goals established
Let´s start with short and affordable goals
Will and perseverance
Practical exercise
Powerful questions for self-coaching
Performance diagnosis
Weaknesses´ diagnosis
Relationship diagnosis
(couple, business, others)
Precising objectives
Defining actions
Setting perspective
The wheel of life
1. Personal development
2. Home
3. Family and friends
4. Love
5. Leisure
6. Work
7. Money
8. Health
Exercise. Select each area and score it.
Wheel of Life Complete
-Coaching
-Coach´s role
-Coach´s rigidities
-Correlation requirements
-Coaching is interesting to
-Conditions of the appropriate coach
-Educate yourself
-Learning process
-Learning principles
-Learning review
-Coaching process
-Process characteristics
-Negative statements
-Empowering statements
-Limiting statements
-Characteristics of the limiting statements
-Face the limiting statements
-Objectives in dealing with statements
-Change preconceived ideas
-Questions´ techniques
-More powerful questions
-Questions in the work technique
-Questions: use recommendations
-Effective methods of listening
-Preeminences of the good listening
-Listening Decalogue
-Answering Methods
Epilogue
Personal Coaching
For individual development and be yourself
AutoCoach and Self-Coaching
Techniques and Exercises for self-fulfillment
Coach is a term which means: trainer, in English. It is a car that takes someone from a place to another, in French. And teaching method employed by Socrates, Mayeutics
, in Greek.
The Personal or Life Coaching focuses on the personal objectives, that is, the own people´s life. It develops their potential from their own personal objectives. Whereas each individual is different, both in his objectives and personality, the Personal Coaching has to be dynamic and adaptive. For a personal development success, it mainly affects BEING and DOING.
Miguel D´Addario, Professional Coach, specialized professor, sociologist, communicator, author and teacher, adds in this volume the techniques and exercises for being a Self-Coach and employ the Self-Coaching, upon the self-knowledge, self-motivation, self-fulfillment, aiming the accomplishment of personal goals.
Analyze, in the first part of this book, what is Coaching? as a social phenomenon which comes to redirect the individual parameters, regarding the types of Coaching existent, and the skills a Coach must have before the (apprentice). Verify the training processes so as to learn the methods and techniques for being a Self Personal Coach.
The second part of the book studies the employment of Assertiveness and Neurolinguistic Programing, developing methodologies and physical exercises for developing the Social Skill, by using breathe and emotional self-control exercises.
The last part shows us the processes for being an Auto Coach and Self-Coaching, by upon powerful questions and practical exercises, as the Wheel of Life that will help to discover the current and real position of each aspect of life and compare it with the reality someone wants to accomplish in a short term.
It is the ideal book for those who seek to transform their lives, by knowing the Coaching in an easy and simple way, accomplishing the individual development, overcoming obstacles, and learning to be one.
Preface
Personal Coaching is the art of facilitating people´s potential development to reach possible goals and changes the Being and Doing. In this process, the coach helps people to clarify their goals, weather personal, professional, affective, etc., and to find a way to accomplish them.
The Coach is a professional skilled on certain techniques and has communication skills and attitudes that make them skilled to perform his trainer role. It is a mutual relationship that comes along with you to solve your problems and act with more effectiveness.
The Coach works upon questions and dialogs, which added to the observation of behaviors, emotions and gestures of a person which give him information to detect the obstacles that make her slower.
The Coach helps you to discover your potentialities and to use them in concrete actions. He works focusing on short term goals, by using powerful questions to discriminate your interpretation of the facts and changing your point of view, so as to take action in a proactive way.
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The benefits you may obtain from the personal Coaching are:
Greater personal development
Better life quality
Greater labor satisfaction
Change of professional orientation
Clarification of options for decision-making
Increase of confidence and value, improve of assertiveness
Self-esteem strengthening
Seek of a better balance within the distinct areas of life (labor, familiar, leisure, social life, health)
Improvement of finances and professional accomplishment
Better time management
Focus
Reaching postponed goals
Set of priorities required to reach the goals
Improvement of communication and bonds with others, with total support and feedback from the coach
Support in personal or business projects
Follow-up micro entrepreneurs
Action planning
Each man's life is a path to himself, a path try, the outline of a path.
Hermann Hesse
Author´s Bio
Miguel D’Addario is Italian, Molise, Colletorto. Born in Buenos Aires. Bachelor's degree in journalism, Master in education Social, Master in sociology and doctorate in communication Social by the University Complutense of Madrid. It has developed its experience in various fields of teaching, from vocational training to the level of University, both in Latin America and Europe.
His books are in different learning centers and libraries in the world, as for example the University San Pablo of Peru, University Santo Domingo Dominican Republic, Ecuador University of San Gregorio, Universitat de València, Spain’s national library, National library of Argentina, University of Texas, Complutense University of Madrid, University of Toronto, Canada; University of Deusto, National University Autonomous of Mexico, National University Mayor San Marcos (Perú), University of Illinois, University of Kansas, Libraries of the community of Madrid, Castilla y León, Andalucía, and País Vasco, British National Library, Harvard University, library of the Congress of the United States.
PhD and essayist, has received awards and mentions of associations of writers, cultural centers, universities, and related sites. Equally as speaker, lecturer and researcher, in universities, centers educational, public and