Self Confidence - Believe In Yourself!
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Introduction
Self confidence or confidence in yourself means that you know that you can do whatever task you are faced with. Confidence is a learned trait, not something you are born with. It is the force which pushes you forward and allows you to find the right path amidst the confusion and chaos of life. Confidence is the necessity you must have to assist you in realizing your dreams and goals. We all have the power of self confidence within us.
Mediocrity and poor performance are often due to low self confidence but it is not something you have to live with. You can build your self confidence by challenging yourself to take action and do something. The accumulation of small victories will convince your subconscious mind that you can do what you set out to do. It will then convince your conscious mind that you have a lot of capabilities and your self confidence will grow.
You have positive attributes, special talents and unique personalities, but these good points can be clouded over by negative feedback you’ve received from others and internalized. Recognizing one special feature is all you need to use as a springboard to raising your self-esteem.
This book is about how to gain confidence and how to increase self-esteem. Self-esteem is a state of mind. So how do you develop self-belief in yourself? The right answer is positive self-esteem. This means that you see yourself as good and capable as anyone else, no better or worse, you are proud of who you are, and you approach everything with a positive outlook. To do this you must learn to accept yourself unconditionally. You will have strengths and weaknesses, and you will have achievements and failures. You must learn to accept those realities. Self-esteem is all about truth in yourself.
"Self Confidence - Believe In Yourself" will assist you in becoming the person you want to be. It will motivate you to go for what you want to achieve in life. It will build your self-confidence and your self esteem step by step. Gaining back your self esteem is the first step to a happy and satisfied life. Rebuilding self esteem helps by giving a boost to your self confidence. Being confident will make others give you the respect you deserve & you will reach your own peak of success. The true key to gaining self confidence and self esteem is to truly love and believe in yourself. No need to wait, you can start building your self confidence and esteem right now by reading this book. The whole world waits for those who believe, love & value themselves. Start right now and take the first step. You can do it!
Manuel Braschi
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Self Confidence - Believe In Yourself! - Manuel Braschi
What Is Self-Confidence?
Easy to identify, yet probably difficult to define, conceptualize, and measure what does self-confidence mean?
One of the main requirements to success, happiness and reaching your goals is confidence. Having enormous self-confidence will also be useful in just about every part of your life.
Lets get straight to the point you were not born with self-confidence, that is, self-confidence is not something innate this can be taught, nurtured and built over the years, at any stage in life.
Confidence is the personal ownership of no one; the person who has it learns it and goes on learning.
Your degree of confidence is truly the outcome of how you perceive yourself – which is eventually how people will perceive you. How people interrelate and respond to you is a reflection of how you perceive yourself.
Therefore if you don't have a high degree of self-confidence or a huge deal of self-esteem then its mostly because you are concentrating on your negative traits and on what you are doing wrong.
In other words, you are being your own worst enemy! The good thing is that you can alter this and improve your self-confidence.
The most talented person on earth has to build confidence in his talents from the foundation of faith and knowledge, like anybody else. The device will be different from one person to the other, but the necessary job is similar. Confidence and attitude are accessible to all of us according to our skills and requirements not somebody else's as long as we make use of our talents and develop them.
Self-confidence is an approach which lets individuals have positive yet reasonable viewpoints of themselves and their conditions.
Self-confident people trust their own skills and abilities, have a general sense of influence in their lives, and believe that, within reason, they will be able to do what they desire, plan, and anticipate.
Having self-confidence does not necessarily mean that people will be able to do everything.
Self-confident people do have expectations and standards that are realistic and reasonable. Even if some of their standards are not met, they remain to be positive and to accept themselves.
People who are not self-confident rely extremely on the consent of other people in order to feel good about themselves. They have a tendency to prevent taking risks because they are afraid to fail. They usually do not expect themselves to succeed.
They often place themselves down and tend to disregard or overlook remarks and praises paid to them.
On the other hand, self-confident people are willing to risk the disapproval of others because they normally believe in their own skills and abilities. They tend to accept themselves; they don’t feel they have to conform in order for them to be accepted.
Self-confidence is not essentially a general trait or characteristic which permeates all aspects of a persons life. Usually, people will have some aspects of their lives where they think they are quite confident, for instance, academics and sports, while at the same time they do not feel confident at all in other fields, for example, personal appearance, social relationships, among others.
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Without any cause for a debate or argument, everybody would agree that with a little bit more self confidence and self esteem a person can elevate his self worth. He or she can become a better person with more belief in his or her self. You can see the world in a whole new perspective and your self confidence is a big factor in this change.
The benefits of having a bolstered self confidence and self esteem are boundless, but lacking it can imprison you in a lackluster life. People would just be stepping on you and you will be completely ignored, languishing in a cellar of despair. You may never realize the full extent of your potential.
Building your Self Confidence and Self Esteem
The true key to gaining self confidence and self esteem is to truly love and believe yourself. For some people this could be very hard, especially if they grew up in an environment with out a shred of unconditional love and support. This kind of people doesn’t know how it is to give love. You cannot give what you do not have.
Another key is determining which areas you are adept in. Focusing and developing the areas you are in strong in will let you fully believe in your skills. The more you see an aspect in your life that you are good in, you can finally appreciate yourself and be proud.
As you build your self confidence and self esteem, a great way to develop it is to test and challenge yourself slowly and gradually. The more challenges you conquer the better you will feel about yourself.
No need to wait, you can start building your self confidence and esteem right now, a whole world waits for those who believes and loves themselves.
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Where does self confidence come from? How do we get it? Why don't I have it? The answer to all of these questions can be answered with one word, you! Self confidence starts with you, your perception of yourself, and what other people think about your actions or behavior.
For some of us, a lack of self confidence only affects our high ambitions. You might have always wanted to get up on stage, or to be a professional singer or actor for example. Perhaps your life dream is to travel the world, visit different countries or cities, but you don't have the self confidence to do it. For others, the problem of self confidence is much closer to home – in the office, business meetings, public speaking events or presentations.
Self confidence issues affect most of us at some time, and we can usually find ways of getting around the problem. Avoidance is one tactic we often use if we can get out of an intimidating situation well make up excuses not to take part. However, there are times when we cant get out of it, or we really don't want to. If a lack of self confidence is preventing you from doing trying something new, or from succeeding in your working life, its time to do something about it.
The starting point in improving your self confidence is understanding what causes the problem. Low self esteem, not believing in yourself or your ability, feeling inadequate compared to your colleagues or friends or maybe some kind of trauma from your childhood are all contributing factors. By examining the reasons for your low self confidence, you're halfway there!
Taking positive action to overcome your fears is the next step to help boost your self confidence. A simple way to do this is by taking on small challenges. You have allowed your brain to associate certain events or actions with fear, so you've already pre-empted the outcome of these situations. By taking a small step towards conquering this, you'll find that the result is most likely not as bad as you think in fact, you'll probably be surprised about how good you feel and your self confidence will instantly increase.
When you've completed your first small challenge, congratulate yourself on achieving your aim. A small reward can often help. You're already on the right path to improving your self confidence, so you're