One Minute Mentoring: How to Find and Work With a Mentor--And Why You'll Benefit from Being One
By Ken Blanchard and Claire Diaz-Ortiz
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The bestselling co-author of the legendary The One Minute Manager® and a former Twitter executive join forces to create the ultimate guide to creating powerful mentoring relationships
While most people agree that having a mentor is a good thing, they don’t know how to find one or use one. And despite widespread approval for the idea of being a mentor, most people don’t think they have the time or skills to do so.
Positive mentoring relationships can change the way we lead and help us succeed. In One Minute Mentoring, legendary management guru Ken Blanchard and Claire Diaz-Ortiz, a former Twitter executive and early employee, combine their knowledge to provide a systematic approach to intergenerational mentoring, giving readers great insight into the power and influence of mentoring and encouraging them to pursue their own mentoring relationships.
Using his classic parable format, Blanchard explains why developing effective communication and relationships across generations can be a tremendous opportunity for companies and individuals alike. One Minute Mentoring is the go-to source for learning why mentoring is the secret ingredient to professional and personal success.
Ken Blanchard
Ken Blanchard, PhD, is one of the most influential leadership experts in the world. He has co-authored 60 books, including Raving Fans and Gung Ho! (with Sheldon Bowles). His groundbreaking works have been translated into over 40 languages and their combined sales total more than 21 million copies. In 2005 he was inducted into Amazon's Hall of Fame as one of the top 25 bestselling authors of all time. The recipient of numerous leadership awards and honors, he is cofounder with his wife, Margie, of The Ken Blanchard Companies®, a leading international training and consulting firm.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I have never worked in the business world, instead, I worked in human service and education. I never had a mentor in that form of the word, but I did have people I could go to for advice, like fellow counselors in my office and people that worked in similar agencies as myself. But, I was never assigned a mentor or sought one out during my work as a social worker. As a substitute teacher, I am kind of an outsider. I just come in once in awhile and fill-in. But, within our district and in the state of Iowa, there is a teacher leadership program that uses teacher leaders and mentors within the district and through their education agency to offer mentoring to new and seasoned teachers. I've seen the changes in our own district over the last few years from that program and believe it has offered numerous benefits to staff and students. In ONE MINUTE MENTORING, the authors take a fictional scenario and make it a realistic example of a mentor/mentee relationship. Blanchard, a management expert and well-known author, and Diaz-Ortiz, named on of the 100 Most Influential People in Business by Fast Company, join together to share the importance of being a mentor and being mentored. By offering the example of an overworked and stressed executive and a underachieving sales associate, many of us can identify with their struggles. This book shares how the two of them could help each other find a new passion in their careers and maybe offer some insight to inspire each of us to reach our highest potential.As someone who hasn't worked in the business world, I was afraid I couldn't relate to the stories shared in this "parable of two employees". But, I did and found it offered me a new way to see my role as a member of the school staff, a member of the numerous boards I am on, and as a member of my community. Realizing that mentors don't have to be in the same field as the person they are mentoring was eye-opening. I assumed teachers have to mentor teachers, but not necessarily. Thinking about our own children and the paths that lie ahead of them as they approach college and careers, I hope they can find someone to offer insights and advice. Someone they can call, have lunch with, email, or check in with that will support them in a different way than a parent, co-worker, or boss would. This book offered a simple approach to the idea of mentoring and was a very quick read, reading it in just a couple hours. If I was an employer, I would be handing this over to every new employee and making it their first assignment. Then helping them make connections to find a mentor in their life.
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One Minute Mentoring - Ken Blanchard
Contents
Cover
Title Page
A Note to Readers
Introduction
PART I
No Compass, No Map: Life in a Mentorless Land
Asking for Direction
Who Me, a Mentor?
The Search
The First Meeting
Mission Imperative
Engagement: Establishing the Relationship
Taking Time for Introspection
Speaking Your Truth
Learning to Network
Building Trust
Networking Done Right
Sharing Opportunities
Review and Renewal
Mentoring Never Ends
Become a Mentor
PART II
The MENTOR Model
Creating a Mentoring Program in Your Organization
Coaching versus Mentoring
Acknowledgments
About the Authors
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Copyright
About the Publisher
A Note to Readers
ONE Minute Mentoring is a fictional parable about the power of finding—or being—a mentor. Perhaps you’re wondering about the title. Why One Minute Mentoring? Because we have found that the best advice we ever gave or received was given in less than a minute. In other words, the guidance that really made a difference did not come in the form of long, complex theories—it came in short, meaningful insights.
Introduction
Are you feeling less than certain about the path forward in your career? Are you wondering if you really have what it takes to reach your goals? Are you wondering what your goals should be? Then perhaps it’s time you found a mentor.
Maybe you answered all the above questions with a resounding, No!
If so, perhaps it’s time you became a mentor.
The Business Hall of Fame is filled with the names of people who discovered that finding a mentor made all the difference in reaching success, as well as the names of leaders who attained greatness by mentoring others. You can be in that good company.
Most people agree that having a mentor is a good thing, but they don’t know how to find one or use one. And while most agree that being a mentor is a good thing, they don’t think they have the time or skills to do so.
That’s why we wrote this book: to give readers simple knowledge and easy-to-use tools to find and leverage mentoring relationships.
No matter what kind of mentoring you get involved in—new hire, peer-to-peer, adult-to-adolescent, or cross-generational—we know that it can positively transform not only your life, but the lives of others as well.
What is cross-generational mentoring? That’s when a young person is paired with an older person, so they both can learn and grow. Ken is a leadership expert in his midseventies and Claire is a former Twitter executive in her midthirties, and that makes us a living example of the lessons we are teaching. Through our own mentoring partnership—and through others—we have personally experienced the life-changing power of this practice. That said, we do want to point out that the age spread doesn’t have to be as wide as ours for mentors and mentees to get value out of the relationship.
In One Minute Mentoring, we tell the story of Josh Hartfield, a young sales rep whose motivation is flagging, and Diane Bertman, a sales executive whose crammed schedule isn’t delivering the satisfaction it once did. As the story of Diane and Josh unfolds, readers will learn the six action steps to creating a successful mentoring relationship, as well as key insights such as:
• How to find a mentoring partnership—whether you are a mentee seeking a mentor or a mentor seeking a mentee.
• How to work with a mentoring partner to make the positive changes you want to see in your work and life.
• How to apply succinct, One Minute mentoring advice.
• How to tap into the wisdom and skills of people from all age groups and backgrounds.
Successful people do not reach their goals alone. Behind even the most independent achiever is a person or group of people who helped that person succeed. So no matter your age, we encourage you to start finding a mentor today.
We also encourage you to mentor someone else, because those who extend a helping hand to others have much to gain. In the words of an ancient Buddhist proverb, If you light a lamp for someone, it will also brighten your own path.
If you are ready to build a powerful mentoring relationship and watch your work and life transform, then read on!
Ken Blanchard,
coauthor of The New One Minute Manager®
Claire Diaz-Ortiz,
author of Twitter for Good
PART I
No Compass, No Map: Life in a Mentorless Land
JOSH Hartfield sat at his desk and stared at his computer screen, paralyzed about what to do next. His in-box contained fifty priority e-mails. He had seven urgent voice mails from existing clients, and he needed to finish a new presentation before a sales appointment on Friday.
In terms of work, he had plenty. In terms of motivation, he had none. It wasn’t exactly the ideal frame of mind to be in for his quarterly review, which was coming up in five minutes.
Ready?
Josh looked up to see his boss, Eva Garcetti, who managed western regional sales for their company.
Sure,
Josh said with a halfhearted smile.
He followed Eva into her office and took a seat facing her imposing mahogany desk.
Let’s not beat around the bush, Josh. Your numbers this quarter have been mediocre at best. This is becoming a pattern with you. What’s going on?
Just a slump. I’m pulling out of it,
he said, doing his best to believe it.
Five years after joining JoySoft as a sales rep, Josh was treading water. His job was stale, and he was no longer progressing in his career.
I’ve heard that before, Josh. I think you could use some help. I recommend you spend some time with Eric. He set a new sales record last week.
Josh tried not to wince. Eric Aguilar was the upstart new sales rep now sharing a cubicle with him. Eric was just a year out of college, and already he was outperforming Josh two to one. So Josh wasn’t surprised by Eva’s recommendation. Still, it was depressing to think that he was in such bad shape that he was being told to take pointers from a new hire.
"I know my suggestion might sound discouraging, but I’m concerned about you, Josh. It’s like