Grandma Julia
By Ann Y. Tyler
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Meet this mother who bore and raised ten children, Julia Mae Jones Eastman, and yet was fervently determined to preserve the stories of her family ancestry. She meticulously filled the old black and white composition Sterling notebooks in a beautifully flowing longhand using pencil to write down her rich childhood memories. Within these writings she began with her great-great-grandmother, Edyth, who arrived in Virginia shackled as an African slave. Although Edyth was cruelly separated from her husband, she had not been separated from her two babies, Willa and Winna. The oral tradition says her husband had been carried off to another boat never to be seen again. The shackle ring marks on Edyth and the tattooed ages of Willa and Winna were still visible on their flesh.
Julia created the chapters which takes the reader from the early 1700s to the 1800s. Ann has transcribed and edited, then added more family information to this fascinating volume, from the 1900s into 2000 and beyond. This labor of love was assigned to her in the 1960s soon after her college graduation by her uncle, Julius Dunbar Eastman, Sr., son of Julia. Finally, some fifty-plus years later the assignment was tackled in October, 2012 and completed in October, 2013.
Julia listened to the stories related in the evenings as a child remembering almost everything the elders spoke of as she sat at their feet. Between 1952 and 1954, she wrote down the oral accounts that she heard growing up. The Virginia plantation and Big River scenes of Brunswick County are vividly portrayed. All ten of Julia’s children’s full names are given in Chapter 14. There are pictures-one of Ann as a happy three year-old with Grandma Julia on a Bronx rooftop around 1941 taken by the author's Mother with the old Eastman Kodak accordion-folding camera. Then, fast-forward to a picture of Julia’s great-great-granddaughter, Jeanna age 5, at the piano with Ann in Kissimmee, Florida around 2006.
From Eyth, to Willa, Winna, Kheenee Sioux, Alexander (Big Ellec) through to Julia’s mother, Ciney and including the other slaves and slave owners, a unique dialect coexisted with its own vocabulary and syntax. Thus, following the last chapter, there is a Slave Dialect Glossary just for this book.
Slavery duties, plantation get-togethers, convoluted relationships with “de Massa and Missus”, punishments, marriage and separations are all contained within. In the grand scheme of things a small, poignant slice of American history is being shared here involving the Sioux-Robinson-Bland-Jones-Eastman family, its descendants, and its focus on love, hope, and survival.
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Grandma Julia - Ann Y. Tyler
FOREWORD
Meda, meda, bentay!
She called us from the street to get us ready for our parents to pick us up from work. Getting ready meant from Monday through Friday we ate fresh-baked peanut butter cookies and daily drank a different flavor of Kool-Aid in 6 oz. Dixie paper cups. This dark-chocolate-ample-hipped-warm-full-bosomed woman took care of us, me and my cousins and a couple of our Puerto Rican school friends who lived in the block, every afternoon after a glorious day at our neighborhood elementary school. I did not find out ‘til years later when my daughter was taking high school Spanish that my Grandma Julia was saying, ¡Mira, mira, vente,
which meant, Look, look, come,
or colloquially speaking, Looka heah [here], now, come on in the house!
We just knew that it was time to come in the house, pronto!
When her son, my uncle, Julius Dunbar Eastman, decided in 1971 to take on a writing project involving Grandma’s writings, he said to me, Alright Junie, this project will be continued by you and David,
who was my first cousin and son of Esther who was Grandma Julia’s daughter and Uncle Julius’ sister. I answered, hesitantly, not wanting to hurt his feelings, Well, OK, Uncle Julius.
He went on to Glory in October, 2010. Now here I am at age 75, a big procrastinator, continuing Edyth’s Lineage with an experience-filled book of Grandma Julia’s writings, transcribed from the bound pages in her own handwriting from her b/w Sterling NOTE BOOK. The front cover has printed on it, Property of ‘No 1 A’
, and on the second line it says, School________________
.
All this time I assumed that only Grandma Julia’s writings were inside the Notebook. Today, Sunday, September 15, 2013, I found the writings of my Aunt Candace Yvette Eastman, Grandma Julia’s youngest daughter, after whom I am named. Her poetry was written when she was in the seventh and eighth grades in the Bronx. I knew she had written poetry when she was an adult, but not when she was in junior high school. I am afraid to turn the pages, too fast. They are slightly yellowed and Grandma had inscribed in her beautiful, flowing, cursive handwriting on the inside cover, Mrs. P. W. Eastman, Sr. A. D. 1952–3–4.
Well, Grandma was writing while I was beginning my sojourn at the High School of Music & Art in Manhattan, located at that time on THE HILL
; 102 steps leading up to Convent Avenue and 135th Street. The Bagel Man sold delicious product at the bottom of the steps, daily until way after I graduated in June, 1955.
Aunt Candace’s poetry pages were held together with a large, triangular paper clip, which I have since replaced with a smaller, newer paper clip. One of her poems is in Appendix A. Aunt Candace was in 7B¹ in the ‘30s. Amazingly to me I landed in 7SP1 at Herman Ridder Junior High School in the ‘50s. I have kept these writings inside the Grandma’s Notebook, placed inside a large quart sized Ziploc plastic bag. I am going to seek advice about preservation methods and carefully Xerox the old pages.
At the top of each and every notebook page of the stories, on the left side of the thin red margin line, Grandma Julia had written "continued from p". That phrase will not be shown in the manuscript after p. a3. The numbers were circled from a circle 1, until she switched to using parentheses at a(7)
. On the top right corner, Uncle Julius had written, in his plain engineering style, a plain, precise 2, as well on the subsequent pages of his mother’s Sterling Note Books. He stopped at 95 in Book No 1 A which was the beginning of one of Grandma Julia’s anecdotal stories, Kheenee Sioux and Winna, Julia’s Great-Grandma. The majority of Grandma Julia’s words, varied spellings, grammatical syntax, punctuation and spelling, especially of all the nicknames, are transcribed as is, unabridged, typed directly from her lovely, flowing handwriting on the pages.
For clarity there will be corrections for a few phrases noted in brackets [ ]: spelling, punctuation, capitalization, dialect, creating chapter titles in addition to Julia’s, and inserted paragraph indents. There are few changes regarding her grammatical style in order to keep the flow of her written thoughts.
~//~
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
My first Network included my late parents, Philip Walter Eastman, Jr. and Dr. Anna Byrd Eastman Wheaton. Since age 14 I heard my Dad and the late Carl Diton, my piano teacher refer to me almost every week, Dr. Eastman …
this, and Dr. Eastman …
that. I hope they were both looking on in May of 2002 when I received the Doctorate of Curriculum & Instruction at the University of Central Florida. My Mom, at age 91, daughter and friends were there rejoicing for me. She gave me my first piano lessons sitting by her side on our piano bench when I was four years old. As I approached my senior year at Manhattan’s High School of Music & Art, I heard my Mom put her foot down with Dad about me going south to college to get some quality education and Negro Culture.
Dad expressed his concern for finding the money and, that the NY schools were cheaper. Being accepted at Oberlin in Ohio and Hunter College in NY, as well as Howard University in Washington, D. C., had me looking forward to getting away from home. Amazingly, several years after Howard’s Commencement I learned that Mom had practically depleted her Retirement Fund to send me to Howard thereby supplementing my tuition scholarship and Dad’s loans from the loan sharks
. Who knew that my determined decision to switch from Music Education to Drama would be subtly and completely thwarted by my English Professor, Dr. Bracey. When I confided in her, she listened, smiled and said, Ann, I have enjoyed your performances with the Howard Players. I hope that you would share your other excellent gift of teaching. The children need teachers like you.
Thank you, Dr. Bracey.
This final challenge came from my late Uncle Julius Dunbar Eastman, Sr. He threw down the gauntlet to me, his son and his nephew, my first cousins, after he meticulously compiled, edited his mother’s ancestral writings, created charts, arranged family photos and published The Lineage of EDYTH in 1971. I felt honored that he would assign this task to me as if I were one of his math or engineering students. He was an example to me as I watched him study