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Pithy Cakes: Quippy Confections About Making It Through
Di Jill Loree
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Pithy Cakes is a collection of a few dozen original confections, mash-ups of Jill Loree’s life and spiritual path. Crafted to edify and also delight, they are short, a bit fun, and made to hit the spot. Sort of like a cupcake. The frosting? A handful of poems sprinkled about.
Made with inspiration. Best enjoyed with coffee.
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Pithy Cakes - Jill Loree
All the Way Back to the C-Prompt
A colleague of mine, back when I worked for a company that made banking software, once told me how the company’s product didn’t always perform as expected. In the middle of one particular sales demo, in front of a room full of people, she found herself, as she described it, Blown all the way back to the C-prompt. My hiney-hole was puckered up tighter than this,
she said, holding up her hand with the index finger curled into a little ball.
One thing I’ve noticed about computers is that they can, in about two minutes, take me all the way back to a childlike place of totally irrational behavior: impatient, frustrated, exasperated and downright angry. Yep, essentially a three-year old.
So what’s going on here? How is it that I, a normally logical and rational adult with a decent amount of smarts, can come unglued so readily when a computer won’t do right? I suspect it relates to one of my childhood-created strategies for survival: I have to figure everything out—myself.
I was the third child in a family destined to trudge through some serious stuff on the road to happy destiny. The long and the short of it is that I was not spoken to much as a child. The world is a bit tricky to sort out as it is, but it can be downright frightening to make sense of on your own.
So when that little box-of-logic doesn’t work right, I don’t default to slowing down and getting curious. No, I tend to come unglued and lose my grounding. Like a lost and anxious child, I have found myself on the phone with the help desk, finding it hard to use my words. With my Helper-hat on, I ask myself, How old do I feel right now?
To which I want to stick out my tongue. So there.
Recently, I found myself caught in a phone war between GoDaddy and Verizon, each offering their logical explanations for why the problem with my website must lie with the other service. I had to coach myself to breathe, reminding myself that they were there to help. If I could just stay rational and sane, they were going to help me get through this. And eventually they did.
Today, I spend enough time not in that immature child-place, to recognize it when I find myself there. Much of life, in fact, is about learning to come out of these trance-like states that we snap into so fast, when something unexpectedly blows us all the way back to the C-prompt.
Or Not to Be
I’d hoped that he might turn into
A keeper,
Who’d share his humor and his heart
With me.
Instead I got this thing on
Dry erase board,
A picture of some flowers
And a be.
He said he couldn’t give me
What I wanted,
A lifetime of the laughter
We had shared.
He only had this simple print
To offer,
A stinging sort of symbol
That he cared.
So now I’m stuck with this dumb
Dry erase board,
Ephemeral as snowflakes
In the Spring,
Just begging to be smudged by