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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Great read.
Provided practical steps to implement for those seeking change and greater insight into self in order to understand needs.
The illustrations used were so relatable, giving more opportunities to understand what was presented to the reader. Worth reading.
Thanks for the male perspective
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Eight Mistakes Women Make In Relationships - Tony A. Gaskins Sr
Eight Mistakes Women Make in Relationships
A Woman’s Guide to Getting it Right
Tony A Gaskins Sr.
Eight Mistakes Women Make in Relationships
Copyright © 2011 by Tony A Gaskins Sr.
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means without written permission of the author.
ISBN 9780692335789 (print)
Dedicated to:
Princess Amiah Gaskins
Taliyah Amare Gaskins
Tony A. Gaskins III
Foreword
I remember growing up with my Father in the home and having to sit and listen to him talk for hours on end. He is so full of wisdom that he can literally talk you through a night. Whenever I needed to know something or he had to teach me a lesson on life he would pour into my spirit from his. He talked with me so much that it wasn’t long before I started to think like him. Everything I did I would ask myself before I did it, what would my daddy do. I look up to him and respect him with the utmost respect. I am proud to carry his name. He is such a good Father that I wish I could clone him and spread him throughout the world. I remember growing up and wishing that I could share him with every other young boy around who didn’t have a Father like him. I remember taking the lessons I learned from him and teaching them to my friends who didn’t have a Father in the home and they would sit and listen as if they were receiving a word from God. I remember growing up and listening to other ministers and teachers and thinking to myself, wow none of these men have the wisdom that my Father has but yet the people don’t know his name. I always hoped that he would sit down and take a little time out for himself and put his wisdom on paper and I’m so glad that he finally did. He is more of a talker than a typer and I know there were some great things lost in transmission while going from his mind to these pages so I hope that his next step will be to speak around the world and touch the lives of millions just as he has touched mine. I’m still growing and learning and trying to wrap my mind around the things that he tries to teach me, but I hope that one day I will get there. He gives me so much praise for my work and the things that I’m doing but I don’t think he knows that I honor and admire him more than words can express. I can hardly see what I’m typing because the tears of joy and admiration that fills my eyes. I’m glad to finally be able to share my Father with the world and I hope that you can walk away from this book with some insight that you didn’t have before you picked it up. I’m hoping that there will be many more books to come and that each time he will get a little more comfortable with this form of teaching and be able to leave all of him on the pages to be read by people long after he is gone. I’m proud that my Father will go down in history and that somewhere his book will always be. I introduce to you my loving Father, Tony A. Gaskins Sr.
Contents
Introduction
The Eight Mistakes
1. Not knowing what you are
2. Not knowing what he is
3. Not knowing who you are
4. Failing to redefine you and recreate yourself
5. Failing to increase your values
6. Failing to increase your worth
7. Failing to protect your worth
8. Failing to properly connect your worth
Note from the Author
Special Thanks
Introduction
There are eight problem areas that I have discovered concerning women as they pertain to relationships. I have also found that women engage in these problem areas inadequately informed and with misconceived experiences. I will share a wealth of knowledge and experiences that I have learned, gained and studied over the past thirty-three years. I have chosen to do so because of my love for God and my God-given respect and admiration for women. These two things have driven my desire to balance the relationship playing field by informing women of things they should know from a perspective different than their own. There are eight areas in a woman’s life concerning relationships where she continues to error. Not knowing "w hat you are is where we will begin because most women do not even realize what they are, nor the devastating effects that not knowing can have on their lives. Then we will look at the remaining chapters:
What he is,
Who I am ," Redefine and recreate,
Increasing my values,
Increasing my worth,
Protecting my worth, and finally,
Connecting my worth. " All of these mistakes may presently apply to you, or perhaps some of them do and some of them don’t right now. Think of this is like a buffet; use what applies, and read the rest now to use for later. It is better to know and not need, than to need and not know.
Although each one of these is important, they all have different relationship significance. For example, some have foundational significance, which are building blocks for relationships, things that a relationship must contain in order for it to be a relationship. Others have informational significance, information you can add to your relationship to customize it to thrive in the best way it can.
Thank you very much for all your hard work,
Tony Gaskins
The Eight Mistakes
Not knowing what you are
Not knowing what a man is
Not knowing who you are
Failing to redefine you and recreate yourself
Failing to increase your values
Failing to increase your worth
Failing to protect your worth
Failing to properly connect your worth
1. Not knowing what you are
We will first