The Emotionally Healthy Woman Workbook: Eight Things You Have to Quit to Change Your Life
By Geri Scazzero and Peter Scazzero
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About this ebook
Geri Scazzero knew there was something desperately wrong with her life. She felt like a single parent raising her four young daughters alone. She finally told her husband, “I quit,” and left the thriving church he pastored, beginning a journey that transformed her and her marriage for the better.
In this eight-session video Bible study (DVD/digital video sold separately), Geri provides you a way out of an inauthentic, superficial spirituality to genuine freedom in Christ. This study is for every woman who thinks, “I can’t keep pretending everything is fine!”
The journey to emotional health begins by quitting. Geri quit being afraid of what others think. She quit lying. She quit denying her anger and sadness. She quit living someone else’s life. When you quit those things that are damaging to your soul or the souls of others, you are freed up to choose other ways of being and relating that are rooted in love and lead to life.
When you quit for the right reasons, at the right time, and in the right way, you’re on the path not only to emotional health, but also to the true purpose of your life.
Sessions include:
- Quit Being Afraid of What Others Think
- Quit Lying
- Quit Dying to the Wrong Things
- Quit Denying Anger, Sadness and Fear
- Quit Blaming
- Quit Overfunctioning
- Quit Faulty Thinking
- Quit Living Someone Else’s Life
Designed for use with the Emotionally Healthy Woman Video Study (sold separately).
Geri Scazzero
Geri Scazzero is the cofounder of New Life Fellowship Church in Queens, New York, where she serves on staff as a trainer in marriage and spiritual formation. Geri is also a popular conference speaker for church leaders, married couples, and women’s groups, both in North America and internationally. She is the author of The Emotionally Healthy Woman and The Emotionally Healthy Woman Workbook/DVD and coauthor of the bestselling Emotionally Healthy Spirituality Course and The Emotionally Healthy Skills 2.0 curriculum. Geri, along with her husband, Pete, is the cofounder of Emotionally Healthy Spirituality, a groundbreaking ministry that equips churches in a deep, beneath-the-surface spiritual formation paradigm that integrates emotional health and contemplative spirituality. Geri lives in New York City and has four lovely daughters. Connect with Geri on Facebook (www.facebook.com/GeriScazzero).
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The Emotionally Healthy Woman Workbook - Geri Scazzero
About the Authors
About the AuthorsGeri Scazzero is the cofounder of New Life Fellowship Church in Queens, New York, where she serves on staff as a trainer in marriage and spiritual formation. Geri is also a popular conference speaker for church leaders, married couples, and women’s groups, both in North America and internationally. She is the author of The Emotionally Healthy Woman and The Emotionally Healthy Woman Workbook/DVD and coauthor of the bestselling Emotionally Healthy Spirituality Course and The Emotionally Healthy Skills 2.0 curriculum. Connect with Geri on Facebook (www.facebook.com/GeriScazzero).
978031082824_0007_001.jpgPete Scazzero is the founder of New Life Fellowship Church in Queens, New York, a large, multiracial church with more than seventy-three countries represented. After serving as senior pastor for twenty-six years, Pete now serves as a teaching pastor/pastor at large. He is the author of two bestselling books — The Emotionally Healthy Church and Emotionally Healthy Spirituality. He is also the author of The EHS Course and Emotionally Healthy Spirituality Day by Day.
978031082824_0007_003.jpgPete and Geri are the founders of Emotionally Healthy Spirituality, a groundbreaking ministry that equips churches in a deep, beneath-the-surface spiritual formation paradigm that integrates emotional health and contemplative spirituality. They have four lovely daughters. For more information, visit emotionallyhealthy.org or connect with Pete on Facebook or Twitter @petescazzero.
A Note from Geri
Dear Friend,
As I speak with women from different parts of the world, they routinely share the same struggles:
• Guilt and confusion about what it means to be a godly woman
• Exasperation with the expectations of their families and cultures
• Fear of rocking the boat
or upsetting people
• Dissatisfaction with their marriages and relationships
• Powerlessness in the face of painful circumstances
• Sadness regarding a future that promises to be more of the same
However, I also hear a deep yearning for the freedom to blossom in their love for God, self, and others.
The Emotionally Healthy Woman was birthed out of my long personal journey to identify and quit behaviors that, while socially acceptable in the church, are lethal to the soul. These habits do not belong to Christ’s kingdom. The quits,
the choice to do something different, emerged over a fifteen-year period. Each one was very hard-won, but in time they transformed me, my marriage, my parenting skills, our church, and many others around the world.
Choosing to do something different is not just a one-time decision; it is a lifestyle change that requires the grace and courage to quit certain unconscious ways of living. I remain more convinced than ever that the solution rests with rediscovering biblical truths that have been misconstrued or neglected.
Transformation requires intentionality, prayer, and a healthy community. My desire is that these studies and resources will provide that structure for you. The Emotionally Healthy Woman addresses a large, and often missing, component of our spiritual formation and discipleship today — the integration of emotional health and spiritual maturity.
Each session addresses one of the eight quits.
Each one can stand alone, but together they are a formidable force for change in your life.
Your discussions around The Emotionally Healthy Woman and the eight quits
will go beyond a tip of the iceberg
spirituality and into the depths of your being. My prayer is that, as you courageously open up that space to Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit will enable you to experience the liberating process of receiving God’s love more profoundly and becoming that love for others.
Blessings to you,
Geri
Suggested Guidelines for the Group
Observe Confidentiality
In order to create an environment that is safe for open and honest participation, please limit your sharing to your own personal experiences. In addition, anything personal shared within the group should not be repeated outside of the group.
Speak for Yourself
Use I
statements as often as possible.
Respect Others
Be brief in your sharing, remaining mindful that there are time limitations and others may want to share.
Turn to Wonder
If you feel judgmental or defensive when someone else is sharing, ask yourself: I wonder what brought her to this belief? I wonder what she is feeling right now? I wonder what my reaction teaches me about myself?
Punctuality
Resolve to begin on time and end on time, being sensitive to women with childcare or work scheduling concerns. (Sessions range from 80 – 90 minutes, though Session 1 is 95 minutes.)
Be Prepared
To get the most out of your time together, we highly recommend that you do the between-sessions reading. Please also bring your workbook with you each week.
Silence
It is okay to have silence between responses as the group shares, giving members the opportunity to reflect. Remember, there is no pressure to share.
Ebook Instructions
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