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The Delicate Dance Of Love
The Delicate Dance Of Love
The Delicate Dance Of Love
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The Delicate Dance Of Love

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There is a delicate dance of love that affects all relationships. Other people act like mirrors to reveal us to our self. Know yourself. Accept yourself. Love yourself. Know what you want, believe, dream about and desire. Then help others to know, accept and love themselves too. True intimacy requires sensitivity, kindness and conscious awareness of yourself and others as you create the delicate dance of love YOU desire.

In this book you will develop an intimate knowledge of your own self – the way you think, feel, behave, respond and influence the thoughts, behaviors and responses of others. You will learn that everything you do, think, feel and believe has a strong effect upon others, both near and far. If your thoughts are heavy but you put on a smile, you are not fooling anyone but yourself. Others can feel your energy and sense your emotional state. You cannot hide.

Love begins at a point of pure contact between 2 people, but it does not end here. Loving and learning to love is an ongoing creation. It requires mindfulness, attention, commitment, practice,skill, caring and creativity. The most loving thing we can do for others is to honor them by speaking our truth, gently yet firmly, in the moment, the right moment, as if the hands of our heart could caress their soul as we speak.

None of us is an island unto our self. We affect and are affected by others all the time. This world and the entire universe is based upon relationship, one electron to another, one planet to another, one cell to another, one person to another. No matter how cool, indifferent, isolated or independent any one of us appears to be, we have all been affected by others and we all have our unique effect upon others.

Through our skin and all of our senses, we make contact with the world and we know and become known by others. Our eyes see and we are seen. Our ears listen and our voices are heard. We taste and smell our environment and our scent is experienced by others. Our energy and life force, our thoughts and our body posturing, our subconscious beliefs and attitudes, are seen or felt and responded to by others.

Some of us are currently unable to tolerate the pleasurable sensations of intimate contact. From negative life experiences, we may have become so numbed to sensation that the intensity must be high, even painful, for our mind to allow our body to feel. But all is not lost. HEALING IS POSSIBLE in every moment, if we truly desire to create intimate relationships in our life. Our brains develop millions of new pathways every day. We CAN change the way we think and feel at any moment.

If we have received caring and tender love, if our senses have been allowed to feel, explore and connect without interference, then we may easily and often reach that place of pure contact with others. At that intimate place, we understand each other without words. Our body comes alive with passionate desire and sensual pleasure. But if you have been afraid to get close because you may be rejected, abandoned, or hurt, this book will reassure you that YOU CAN find love and happiness and joy in a relationship. Learn what you need to learn. Get the help you need to receive. And start creating your own delicate dance of love. Don’t be afraid to dream of love, an ideal partner and a lifetime of love.

Now go out and make it happen by becoming the very best YOU that you can be. Be Who You Are, know that you are The Gift of Love, and become the love that you are seeking. Look inside your own mind and heart to find the love that is within you. Share your love with others and remain open to receive the love as it boomerangs right back to you. Love is a mystery. Love is a skill. Love is an emotion. And love can be created and maintained. Make the decision to love and start your own delicate dance of love.

LanguageEnglish
Release dateAug 2, 2014
ISBN9781310404733
The Delicate Dance Of Love
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Dr. Erica Goodstone

Dr. Erica Goodstone, is a Spiritual Relationship Healing Expert Helping Men and Women Heal Their Bodies and Their Relationships through Love. She believes “Where There Is Love There IS A Way” and “If We Feel Loved and Loving We Cannot Choose To Hurt or Harm Anyone Else.”Dr. Erica’s life work is about creating love, healing through love, and sharing her insights, research and wisdom about what it takes to love and be loved in return.As an Author, Seminar Leader, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Marriage Therapist, Board Certified Sex Therapist, Somatic/Body Oriented Psychotherapist, and Personal/Life and Health/Wellness Coach, Dr. Erica has helped thousands of men and women to get back that loving feeling and sense of personal worth. As a former Professor of Health and Physical Education at FIT/State University of New York and having trained in a variety of body therapy and body mind therapeutic methods, Dr. Erica knows a lot about the way the body functions, the way our mind influences our body and how our body reveals our inner thoughts whether we listen or not.A perpetual student of spirituality, higher consciousness, and healing, Dr. Erica has gradually developed a comprehensive understanding of the mind/body/spirit connection. In her work with individuals and couples, heterosexual and homosexual, she has been a catalyst for relationship transformation. Her goal is to create a space in which clients feel accepted, acknowledged, appreciated and safe enough to express their deepest fears, reveal their own unique magnificence, and acknowledge their true desire to love and be loved.Selected as one of the Top 20 Showcased Authors out of 400,000 authors at Ezinearticles.com: http://budurl.com/Top20EzineAuthor. former Official Guide to Intimacy at SelfGrowth.com, and featured in Who’s Who in Poetry 2012, Dr. Erica has been featured as a Top Recommended Professional on CBS, NBC, ABC and FOX.Her very popular book: Love Me, Touch Me, Heal Me: The Path to Physical, Emotional, Sexual and Spiritual Reawakening is available as a complete book, a complete E book, 4 smaller books and ebooks as well as 12 smaller Kindle and Smashword books.Contact: https://www.DrEricaGoodstone.com

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    The Delicate Dance Of Love - Dr. Erica Goodstone

    Title

    THE DELICATE DANCE

    OF LOVE

    You are the Director,

    The Producer,

    The Leading Actor

    In your Romantic Fantasy.

    Create your cast of Characters.

    Become the Leading Man or Leading Woman.

    Think big and beautiful, rich and famous; Exaggerate!

    Celebrate "You" in your own Romantic Vision.

    Imagine yourself being more than you ever Dreamed Possible.

    Not just for the Moment, but for a Lifetime, this Lifetime, Now!

    Be the Hero of your Story!

    Author: Erica Goodstone, Ph.D., LMHC

    Smashwords Edition

    The Delicate Dance of Love

    Copyright © 8/19/99

    Erica Goodstone, Ph.D.

    In my dreams

    I see you

    Valiant angel

    Of the vast blue sky

    You sit upon a floating cloud

    Waiting for me

    In my prayers

    I call to you

    Courageous voyager

    Through uncharted paths

    Lead me to my dream

    I'll follow

    Now you're here

    In front of me

    Imagined lover

    Come to life

    Let's walk the path of love

    Together

    Come with me

    To a quiet place

    And rest awhile

    Our journey has just begun

    Take my hand and hold me

    In your heart

    Let's build a bridge

    Stairway to heaven

    Let’s take those long steps

    One by one

    See the blossoms all around us

    Feel their fragrance in our hearts

    Love's sweet journey

    Moves us onward

    Hearts in sync with nature's flow

    Do not fear

    Our hearts are open

    Do not fear our love is pure

    Dancing gently

    Toward each other

    Moving freely as we meet

    Long embrace in cold of winter

    Cooling breeze

    In summer's heat

    First you lead

    Through storm and passion

    Walking forward toward the light

    The path of love continues onward

    Hearts on fire

    Leading home

    Copyright © Erica Goodstone, Ph.D.

    CreateHealingAndLoveNow.com Publishing

    ISBN: 9781310404733

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