Cooking With Hot Flashes: And Other Ways to Make Middle Age Profitable
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Martha Bolton
Martha Bolton was the first woman staff writer for Bob Hope, helping to write his television shows, personal appearances, and military shows for approximately fifteen years. She is an Emmy-nominated writer and author of eighty-eight books of humor and inspiration. She has received nominations for a Dove Award, WGA Award, and a Golden Scroll Merit Award for Fiction.
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Cooking With Hot Flashes: And Other Ways to Make Middle Age Profitable Without even looking at what this book was about I assumed it was really a cookbook. It's not that at all but something better.For the aging group of us as we get older there are things that all we can do is laugh about and that's what this book is about.The things we have no control over but we used to be able to control them then we got older...So many funny stories in this book, poems, movies you should see now that you're older, new song titles etc. What a laugh this book is!True comedy!
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Cooking With Hot Flashes - Martha Bolton
Cooking
With Hot Flashes
Books by Martha Bolton
FROM BETHANY HOUSE PUBLISHERS
Didn’t My Skin Used to Fit?
I Think, Therefore I Have a Headache!
Cooking With Hot Flashes
Growing Your Own Turtleneck
It’s Always Darkest Before the Fridge Door Opens
(with Phil Callaway)
Your Best Nap Now
Cooking With Hot Flashes
Copyright © 2004
Martha Bolton
Cover design by Melinda Schumacher
Cover illustration by Mike Lester
When I’m an Old Lady,
copyright © 2003 Joanne Bailey Baxter. All rights reserved. Used by permission.
Unless otherwise identified, Scripture quotations are from the HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION.® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan Publishing House. All rights reserved.
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Published by Bethany House Publishers
11400 Hampshire Avenue South
Bloomington, Minnesota 55438
Bethany House Publishers is a division of
Baker Publishing Group, Grand Rapids, Michigan.
Printed in the United States of America
ISBN 978-0-7642-0002-1
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Bolton, Martha, 1951-
Cooking with hot flashes : and other ways to make middle age profitable / by Martha
Bolton.
p. cm.
ISBN 0-7642-0002-X (pbk.)
1. Middle age—Humor. 2. Menopause—Humor. 3. Aging—Humor. I. Title.
PN6231.M47B65 2004
814'.54—dc22
2004012176
After thirty, a body has a mind of its own.
—Bette Midler
MARTHA BOLTON is a full-time comedy writer and the author of over fifty books. She was a staff writer for Bob Hope for fifteen years along with writing for Phyllis Diller, Wayne Newton’s USO show, Ann Jillian, Mark Lowry, Jeff Allen, and many others. Her material has appeared in Reader’s Digest, Chicken Soup for the Soul books, and Brio magazine, and she has received four Angel awards and both an Emmy nomination and a Dove Award nomination. Martha and her husband live in Tennessee.
Contents
1. Cooking With Hot Flashes
2. Take Our Money . . . Please
3. Exercising Our Prerogative
4. I Left My Chin in Ol’ Zimbabwe
5. They’re Out to Rule the World
6. The Fountain of Youth Uncovered
7. The Ultimate Word on Aging
8. Another Fine Mess
9. Brain-Aerobics
10. Ten Things You Don’t Realize Until Middle Age
11. It’s Not Just the Economy That’s Sagging
12. The Sandman Cometh . . . But He Delayeth
13. Not by a Hair on My Chinny Chin Chin
14. Bumper Stickers for Middle-Agers
15. Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace
16. I Am Not Hungry, I Am Not Hungry, I Am Not Hungry
17. The Raven-ing
18. The Super Senior Bowl
19. Classic Tunes Updated for Aging Baby Boomers
20. High-Fiving Thighs
21. Going Through the Changes
22. Suggested Movies for Middle-Agers
23. When I’m an Old Lady
24. Striking It Rich
25. Broadway for Middle-Agers
26. All Puffed Up
27. Reversal of Misfortune
28. The Rise and Fall of Cellulite
29. Until
30. Picture This
31. Geritol Gangsters
32. Laugh Lines
33. Ten Commandments for Aging
34. Will Work for Respect
35. The Comb-Over Conspiracy
36. Pistol-Packing Gramma
37. Pleasin’ the World
38. Excuse Us
39. First Impressions
40. Dream a Little Dream
41. Ten Things I Knew I Would Never Forget
42. For He Was a Jolly Good Fellow
43. I Hear Ya
44. Outgrowing Fun
45. Ten Things to Do the Day You Retire
46. Another Way to Look at It
47. Advantages to Aging
48. Bookkeeping 101
49. Caretakers
50. Sending My Regrets
51. Things You Might Have Been Looking For
52. Survivor
53. What Was That?
1
Cooking With Hot Flashes
’Tis not knowing much, but what is useful,
that makes a wise man.
—Thomas Fuller
I’m hot. Not the gorgeous, voluptuous kind of hot. I’m just hot. My husband tells me I even sizzle. But that is not a compliment. It is simply a statement of fact. I am, at times, quite literally sizzling. So much so that I have been ordered to stay away from dry brush and dead Christmas trees until my body has finished going through this transitional period known as the change.
The change. Middle age. Menopause. Skin that doesn’t fit us anymore. That is just some of what this book is about. But before you men get the misconception that this is a missive intended solely for women, let me remind you that both sexes go through the change. Men just seem to have a lot more fun with it than women. A man wakes up one morning and instead of putting on his usual conservative suit and silk tie, he tosses them both aside, slips on his jeans and unbuttons his shirt to the middle of his chest, adds a couple of gold chains, and goes out and buys a new sports car. That’s how the male side of the species faces the midlife transition. For them, it’s called a midlife crisis,
and it’s practically a celebration. They begin acting younger, not older. They join health clubs, change their hairstyle, their clothes, their demeanor, and their lingo. They get a renewed zest for life. They’re not like us. They’ve never been moved to the smoking section of a restaurant because they were still smoldering from a hot flash. They don’t attend weddings just so they can hang around the ice sculpture. They don’t sweat puddles every night, so deep they have to wear a life jacket to keep from drowning. The change is easy on them.
But for us women? We can rocket from a normal 98.6- degree body temperature to volcano in ten seconds or less. There are veteran firemen who haven’t seen that kind of spontaneous combustion. I’m convinced the only reason any of us get invited to outdoor parties is to serve as the heat lamp.
Perhaps one of these days medical science will develop a thermostat patch for menopausal women that will automatically readjust our body temperature whenever it nears or reaches the boiling point. Who knows, researchers might already be working on this concept even as this book is hitting the bookshelves. I sincerely hope so because when it comes to hot flashes and other symptoms of menopause, we women have suffered far too long in silence!
Oh, all right, who am I kidding? It’s never been in silence. If we menopausal women are anything, it’s vocal. We know the words Is it hot in here or is it me?
in twelve languages. We live to let others in on our misery.
Are you sure Arctic Winter is the lowest setting on your air-conditioner?
So, how flexible is cryogenics? Can’t I be frozen just until after menopause?
That’s the third sofa my body has set on fire this week.
We’ve complained, yes, but until now, we have done little else. We’ve left it up to the medical community to come up with whatever new and innovative ways they could find to help us handle the uncomfortable, and even dangerous, symptoms of menopause. We haven’t done anything significant ourselves to protect us from the symptoms (although flame-retardant pajamas have helped), alleviate our misery, or even find a positive side to menopause. We’ve never organized a Million Menopausal Woman March on Washington. (What over-forty woman could deal with that kind of claustrophobia?) We haven’t spoken out on the floor of Congress. (We figure they’ve already seen enough uncontrollable crying from the minority party.) As far as I can tell, we haven’t done much of anything to make this change of life not only more endurable for us, but perhaps even financially beneficial. That is, until now. That is, until Cooking With Hot Flashes . . . and Other Ways to Make Middle Age Profitable.
I don’t mean to brag, but I believe this book, which is the first to introduce the concept of using hot flashes as an energy source, could quite possibly put me in the running for a Pulitzer or, considering the positive effect it could have on menopausal mood swings, perhaps even a Nobel Peace Prize.
As with many other life-changing discoveries, this hot-flash energy idea came to me quite by accident. One day while clutching a handful of groceries to my chest, I made my way through a crowded supermarket, stood in the checkout line, then continued to cradle the groceries in my arms as I walked home, all the while having one of the worst hot flashes of my life.
But as I was putting the food items away, I noticed something quite remarkable. I discovered that by keeping my groceries pressed against my upper body, my hot flash had apparently cooked a steak to medium and thawed out a bag of frozen peas!
That is what got me to thinking: I could save a fortune on my gas bill if I