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    Man Magnet: A Woman's Guide to Figuring Out, Attracting and Dating Men
    Man Magnet: A Woman's Guide to Figuring Out, Attracting and Dating Men
    Man Magnet: A Woman's Guide to Figuring Out, Attracting and Dating Men
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    Man Magnet: A Woman's Guide to Figuring Out, Attracting and Dating Men

    By Romy Miller

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    Success with men and dating is just a read away!

    Dating isn't that difficult. What's difficult is playing games and feeling inferior to the demands of dating. With such a large number of so-called rules out there, it's no wonder our heads spin with the choices we can or can't make. Unlike a lot of books, Man Magnet: A Woman’s Guide to Figuring Out, Attracting and Dating Men helps to narrow this down. This newly revised and updated edition goes into detail about how a girl can turn herself into a man magnet and attract the best possible guys while weeding out the not-so-desirables. It is traditional dating advice told with a bit of sass and candor.

    If you've had problems with dating and men in the past - or you're just looking for ways to improve - Man Magnet: A Woman’s Guide to Figuring Out, Attracting and Dating Men can help you get past them and get onto the better life you deserve!
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherNew Tradition Books
    Release dateJul 1, 2013
    ISBN9781938107443
    Man Magnet: A Woman's Guide to Figuring Out, Attracting and Dating Men

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      Man Magnet - Romy Miller

      Man Magnet

      A Woman’s Guide to Figuring Out, Attracting and Dating Men

      ALSO BY ROMY MILLER:

      How to Be Wanted: A Guide to Using the Law of Attraction for Better Relationships, Dating, Love and Romance (Revised and Updated)

      How to Be a Hottie: Become Uniquely, Irresistibly You and Attract Men Like Crazy!

      Understanding Women: The Definitive Guide to Meeting, Dating and Dumping, if Necessary (Revised and Updated)

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      How to Talk to the Ladies: Make a Connection and Start Dating!

      Man Magnet

      A Woman’s Guide to Figuring Out, Attracting and Dating Men

      Romy Miller

      Artrum Media

      Man Magnet: A Woman’s Guide to Figuring Out, Attracting and Dating Men. Copyright © 2013 by Romy Miller.

      All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission from the publisher. For information go to www.artrummedia.com.

      Published by Artrum Media.

      eBook ISBN–13:  978-1-938107-44-3

      eBook ISBN–10:  1-938107-44-6

      The preceding edition of this book was published in the United Kingdom and the United States in 2009 by Artrum Media under the title Man Magnet: How to Be the Best Woman You Can Be in Order to Get the Best Man (Revised Edition).

      Disclaimer: This book is not intended to replace medical advice or be a substitute for a psychologist. The author and publisher expressly disclaim responsibility for any adverse affects of this book. Neither author nor publisher is liable for information contained herein.

      For the man magnets—past, present and future.

      Contents

      Introduction

      The Dating/Mating Game

      The Secret to Being a Man Magnet

      Ms. Independent

      I’m Not Settling!

      The Single Girl Syndrome…

      Love Is Not a Romantic Comedy

      He’s Confused

      Grab an Eraser

      Catch Me If You Can

      The Supermodel Principle

      First Impressions

      A Girl Like You

      You Are Worthy

      Stop Being Desperate

      The Games People Play

      Bad Boys and the Misery They Cause

      The Manchild

      Some Universal Truths to Keep in Mind

      Let’s Take a Look At You

      Your Man Magnet Outfit

      Something To Think About

      Titillation

      Equals?

      Sexy Yet Approachable—In Other Words, Act Like You Just Don’t Care

      The Bitch Is Back?

      Demanding Respect

      Booty Call?

      Mama’s Boy?

      Sending Signals

      Availability

      The Quandary: Can a Chick Ever Ask a Guy Out?

      Where to Meet Him and Get His Attention

      When He Calls and How to Give Him a Chance

      Dealing With a Cheap Dude

      How to Spot a Dog or a Creep

      Your First Date

      Something to Talk About

      Date’s Over—Now What?

      Always Leave Him Wanting More

      How to Know If You’ve Hooked Him

      She’s a Lady

      Let’s Talk About Sex

      Suddenly Unavailable

      The #1 Rule to Keeping a Man Once You’ve Sealed the Deal

      He’s Un-trainable If…

      The Bastard Broke Up With Me! (Or, I Just Had to Break Up With the Bastard!)

      In Conclusion

      Introduction

      Most women, generally speaking, don’t have much trouble attracting men. It’s true. You know it and I know it. However, this is not the problem. The problem is that we have trouble attracting the more desirable guys, the good ones. We’re all man magnets, even if we’re not attracting the right guys. I know plenty of women who are bum magnets and lots more who are pest magnets. But there is a special breed of woman who attracts just about any guy she wants. She is a man magnet.

      You want to be that woman, don’t you? You want to be able to attract the good guys and take your pick. The great thing is that you can be that woman. The better thing is that it doesn’t take that much to be her. Yes, it will take some work and it will take some time, but you can do it. You’ve been given everything you need to be able to attract the kind of guy you’ve always wanted. But first, there’s some work that needs to be done.

      That’s what this book is about. It’s about knowing that there is a good guy—or guys—out there for you. Now don’t think I am going to tell you it’s going to be easy because it’s not. But that doesn’t mean you have to make it more difficult than it is. The problem with dating nowadays is that everyone is making it difficult. Everyone is a game-player or everyone is looking for someone perfect for them. Everyone is making something so innately human into a game that only a fool would play.

      That’s what we’re going to concentrate on. This book is about how to stop playing games with others, and with yourself, and get out there and find a good man. A man who will be nice to you. A man who will love you for you, not for some image you’ve presented to him in hopes that he’ll like you more and want to keep you around. A man who, simply, loves you. This book can help you do that if you take the initiative to help yourself.

      This book is going to be one hard truth after another. I’m going to tell you how to be a man magnet, what to look out for and who to avoid. I’m going to dispel myths and, hopefully, some of your frustrations. This is a no frills kind of book. And sometimes that’s the only way we can see things for the way they truly are. It might sting a little at first, but in the end, we’re better off knowing the truth.

      I’m going to go into detail about how you can turn yourself into a man magnet and attract the best possible guy for you. There are some universal truths and very common sense things that routinely seem to get overlooked. This is the kind of stuff I’m going to focus on. I’m going to concentrate on teaching you to use what God gave you to land a good man and how you can attract men no matter what their social standing is, no matter how good looking they are.

      The most important thing this book can teach you is that there’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not a horrible, unlovable person just because you haven’t found someone yet or can’t seem to attract the guys you’d rather be with. It’s not your fault. Perhaps you’ve just been misguided. What’s wrong, maybe, is the way you approach dating. If and when you can approach it from a realistic point of view and know what you’re up against, then you can truly turn yourself into a man magnet. And once you do that, there’ll be no stopping you.

      You’re a smart girl, aren’t you? You’re successful and mostly nice to everyone you meet. It’s just the guys are so… Well, they’re jerks, aren’t they? No matter how many men you meet, none of them live up to your expectations or, perhaps, you don’t live up to theirs . It’s all become a hassle, something that you don’t look forward to doing. But all that can change. Soon, you’ll wonder why you thought it was a hassle in the first place.

      Keep in mind that this book isn’t offering you instant gratification. It’s offering you a wake-up call. I’m not going to tell you how to play games or give you advice that possibly won’t work. I am going to tell you how it’s done. You deserve the best, right? In order to get it, you have to face reality. Simply put, I’m going to tell you what works. There are no tricks involved.

      The Dating/Mating Game

      Someone once said hope is the mother of all fools. Hope might turn us into fools but that doesn’t keep us from having hope, does it? It doesn’t keep us from dreaming about a fantasy guy who’s going to swoop in and take away all of our problems. Hope is good. It keeps us from not giving up on love, marriage and babies. Hope might be the mother of all fools, but it also enables us to continue on when things look a little bleak. It gives us the desire to fulfill our genetic destiny. And, of course, our genetic destiny is procreation. Without hope, most of us would have given up on getting a good man a long time ago and without a man, procreation can be a tricky business.

      It’s hard, though, isn’t it? It’s so hard to keep trying, to hope against hope that someone will materialize and be The One. It’s hard to go to the clubs and survey the room and get that queasy feeling in the pit of our stomachs. It’s hard to keep putting ourselves out there with no real tangible results.

      But we do, don’t we? And we do it because the dating/mating game is one we’re genetically engineered to play. Actually, we have no choice but to play it and we will play it until we are old and gray. And even when we’re old and gray, we will play it if given the choice. Besides that, it’s so fun. There’s nothing like new love, is there? There’s nothing like that nervous little feeling a girl gets when a handsome man zones in on her. There’s nothing like receiving that first kiss or having sex with a guy for the first time. Nothing, nothing, nothing. And there’s nothing like it because we’ve been programmed to want and desire it even when it becomes difficult. We can never give up on love because it’s not in us to give up. Think of our ancestors. If they’d given up, we wouldn’t be here now, would we? In essence, if we give up on love, we give up on our very selves.

      While all this is well and good, that doesn’t take away the fact that men can be very elusive—and that’s putting it nicely. At least the ones we want. Sure, we all have a pest or two hanging around who want us like we want rock stars. This makes us want to give up on it all. Where are all the good men? And why do we care so much? Why do we even try?

      The reason we try, as I’ve said, is because it’s our genetic destiny. Besides that, it’s all biological. If we didn’t have it in us to meet and mate, our species would die out. If all of us gave up on love, there wouldn’t be any future generations to play the game of love.

      Sure, that’s a little heavy but it’s the truth. We continue this mating game because we really have no choice. It’s ingrained in us to get out there and find someone

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