Women, Work & the Art of Savoir Faire: Business Sense & Sensibility
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Mireille Guiliano, internationally bestselling author of French Women Don’t Get Fat and former senior executive for Veuve Clicquot, uses her distinctive French woman’s philosophy and style to share lively lessons, stories, and helpful hints from her experiences at the front lines and highest echelons of the business world. Guiliano offers every reader the practical advice she needs to make the most of work without ever losing sight of what is most important: feeling good, facing challenges, getting ahead, and maximizing pleasure at every opportunity.
Mireille Guiliano
Mireille Guiliano is the bestselling author of French Women Don't Get Fat, French Women For All Seasons, and Women, Work & the Art of Savoir Faire. Born and raised in France, she is married to an American and lives most of the year in New York and Paris. She is the former President and CEO of Clicquot, Inc.
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- Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5Adult nonfiction; self-help/advice. I skimmed most of this, as I didn't care for Guiliano's writing style (I'd never read any of her "French Women" books, so this is my first experience with her prose) and the frequent typos that accompany unedited advanced copies, but there is some good advice in here, I guess.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Loved this book! Very informative and easy to read. Would highly recommend it.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Mireille Giuliano is the author of a book you may have heard of, French Women Don't Get Fat. While I haven't read that best-seller of hers, not yet anyway (it's all for health, I assure you, vanity has nothing to do with it!), the title of this book made it seem like it would be a good read right now: lately I have been pondering career advancement, how we women fit into the world where men continue to rule, and why the situation is what it is. Guiliano was president and CEO of Clicquot, Inc. for several decades, so I figured she'd have some interesting thoughts on the matter. I wasn't wrong. This French-born powerhouse tells it like it is, from women having to work harder and smarter than competitors to get ahead, to the fact that women continue to get the short end of the stick when it comes to compensation. What I liked though was that none of it was a lament of the situation. "It is what it is, face the facts, put on your big girl pencil skirt and go get 'em if that's what you want to do" is Guiliano's kind of career advice. She is realistic about our feminine shortcomings (not playing up our own worth, not negotiating the terms to get what we want, gossiping, trying to take care of everything and everybody at the expense of ourselves) just as she is realistic about our strengths (ability to listen and see a problem from different angles, being flexible, being enough of a novelty to command immediate attention if we position ourselves as an equal with valuable insights to offer). She gives practical advice on topics ranging from presenting ourselves in the best possible light both on paper and in person, to entertaining, to value of excellent communication skills and time-priority balance. She talks about what makes a good leader and a good manager, the importance of not being reluctant to share information with other women and help each other advance, as well as the fact that sometimes chance and luck are huge factors in the course one's career takes. Throughout the book she illustrates her points with real-life examples from her own career and experiences of other women, and men, she knows, which helps to make the book a more lively read. It is already written in a very accessible voice so these illustrations make it helpful and fun at the same time. If that's not fun enough there are recipes, self-deprecating humor, wardrobe advice and a healthy dash of French turns of phrase. My only reservation regarding this book stems from the fact that despite all the positives I didn't get a feeling that it is aimed at women who aren't aspiring for corner offices. Granted, Guiliano writes from her experience, and she was a high-level executive in a luxury industry for many years, but not everybody is looking for titles with Cs in them, some of us just want to get out of the rut of the lowest levels of the support staff positions. On the other hand of course the time she spends talking about entertaining business associates or working with leaders of foreign companies only makes this book more useful for those of us who do want that C title. After all, tips on working smarter is something we all can use, from an entry-level assistant to a president of a corporation. One last note: the very last sentence of this book is "Bon courage". Not luck, courage. That alone made the book worth reading.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Most of the advice I've heard before, but somehow it sounded much better coming from someone with a French accent. A lovely, quick read for women looking to change careers or inhance their standing in a current career.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Guilano's text is engaging (especially given the potentially dry subject matter) and entertaining, and, as she had hoped, her stories and anecdotes give new meaning to each of her workplace lessons. Well-written (especially as English, we learn, is not her native language), informative, and at times thought-provoking, Women, Work and the Art of Savoir Faire is an easy read for any woman in the workplace, and would make a valuable gift for any young woman starting her career (or more experienced woman needing a bit of subtle guidance). Gentlemen, though, should probably take a pass (the title pretty much guarantees this though, no?)Added points to the design team on this one for the mono-color images at the heading of each chapter and the overall paper and feel of the book: it is classy, sophisticated, and perfectly matches both the author and the tone of the book.(Thank you to Atria, of S&S, for the review copy of the book)
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Women, Work & the Art of Savoir Faire - Mireille Guiliano
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WOMEN, WORK & THE ART of SAVOIR FAIRE
ALSO BY MIREILLE GUILIANO
French Women for All Seasons
French Women Don’t Get Fat
WOMEN, WORK & THE ART of SAVOIR FAIRE
Business Sense & Sensibility
MIREILLE GUILIANO
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Guiliano, Mireille, date.
Women, work, and the art of savoir faire: business sense and sensibility / Mireille Guiliano.
p. cm.
Includes index.
1. Businesswomen. 2. Success in business. I. Title.
HD6053.G84 2009
650.1082--dc22
2009011694
ISBN: 978-1-4165-8919-8
ISBN: 978-14165-9249-5 (ebook)
sa•voir faire \I sav-I wär-Ifer\ n.m. 1: Know-how. French savoir-faire, literally, knowing (savoir) how to do (faire). 2: Competence, experience. 3: The ready knowledge of the right course of action: knowing what to do and say and when and how to do so. 4: Habileté dans un art quelconque. 1784 "Pour gagner du bien, le savoir-faire vaut mieux que le savoir." In order to succeed, savoir faire is more important than knowledge. Pierre Augustin Caron de Beaumarchais, Le Mariage de Figaro, V, 3. 5: To be up to snuff with wit of a thing or two. 1815 "He had great confidence in his savoir-faire." Sir Walter Scott, Guy Mannering. 6: Operating knowledge of business sense and sensibility.
CONTENTS
Ouverture
1. Life Is Lived in Episodes and Stages
2. Choosing a Path: Passion, Talent, and More
3. The Principle of Enlightened Self-Interest
4. Of Velvet Gloves, Words, and Handshakes
5. Paint Yourself Orange
6. Whose Success?
7. Fire Your Boss: Leaders and Managers
8. Zen and the Art of Business(life)
9. The Not-Always-So-Gentle Art of Coping
10. (Business)women and Men Are Different
11. Eating for Business and Pleasure
12. Making It
Remerciements
Index
WOMEN, WORK & THE ART of SAVOIR FAIRE
OUVERTURE
Speaking to an audience of 2,500 women in a Boston ballroom at what was billed as a premier leadership conference for women in business, I said, "So, here’s a question for you: Excluding family members, and not counting peers you go to for routine help, do you have a senior person in business who consistently offers you sound counsel and support and who champions you? In short, is there a person you’ve had or have who is your mentor? Raise your hand if you have someone. Perhaps 15 percent of the women raised their hands.
Okay, new question: Raise your hand if you like chocolate." Easily 80 percent of the women shot up hands. Scientific? No. Telling? Yes. Women may share a lot of things (like a love for chocolate!), but having a strong mentor isn’t one of them.
We all need a special someone (or two) we can ask questions of and turn to for help…someone we can count on to extend him- or herself for us. I know I do. And I wish I’d had suitably informed people to turn to as my professional life evolved, even people who could speak with me via the printed page. I’ve written this book partly in response to the remarkable number of women who came up to me after I spoke at a conference or business school or who emailed me from all around the world after reading one or both of my French Women books asking me to write just this sort of book, from my life’s perspective and in my own style.
As I wrote it, I found myself thinking about the scores of women who have sat across from me in job interviews—those who have worked for me and with me over the years; the people I have worked for (some good, some not so good)—and I thought about the things I wanted to say to them at the time but couldn’t because it wasn’t quite appropriate.
Now’s my chance.
What I can tell you, chère reader, is what I wanted to tell all those women over the years, whether it’s about how best to present yourself to a future employer, how to balance the demands of work
and life,
or how to relax and enjoy yourself even when you’re feeling the pressure of too many demands and not enough time. A sweeping women’s issue
is achieving a healthy balance of work life with life life—certainly an imperative amid the pressures of personal responsibilities and gratifications and the still-emerging class of business challenges, expectations, and pressures. What’s the point of being a successful businesswoman if you are not happy and are suffering a messy and unhealthy personal life?
Someone said I should call this book French Women Don’t Get Fired. The problem, though, is they do get fired…and I couldn’t possibly deliver a fail-safe recipe for holding onto your job. What I have tried to write is the sort of book I wish I had been given when starting out in the working world and had at hand along the way. This isn’t another business book that tells you how to succeed
or get the corner office.
Yes, of course, you’ll find advice on getting ahead and getting promoted…but more than that, you’ll find advice on being happy and living a good life, even while you are making the biggest contribution you can to the workplace. That’s why I dare to talk about style and clothes and food and wine and entertaining and LIFE in a business book. We don’t work in a vacuum. Our work is part of the rest of our lives.
I want to emphasize that you can work smarter and healthier than a lot of people, and you can reap the benefits. That’s one form of savoir faire. I remember my first meaningful job in New York in public relations. I had no training or real experience in PR; I was a trained translator-interpreter. I did not think I was qualified for the PR position, but the classified ad in the New York Times described what seemed like such a dream job for me that I applied anyway. But so did thirty others. That I got the job was a wonder to me and, like a lot of people starting a new job (really a new stage in life and career), I was a bit scared that I might not be up to the challenge. It turned out that I was, and at my three-month review, I had grown the courage to ask my boss why he had chosen me over all those people with stronger PR experience and backgrounds. I could not even write a press release,
I said, still full of wonder. Mireille, anyone can learn to write a press release,
he answered. Your general knowledge, enthusiasm, and language skills set you apart from the others.
We are who we are, but we can learn new things all the time, evolve over time by working hard and smart, and realize our potential. Plus others (like my clairvoyant PR boss) can see talent and potential in us that sometimes we can’t for ourselves.
I learned through my two bestselling French Women books that if I share my experiences and highlight some of the lessons I have learned, I can have a helpful influence on people who are eager for a little coaching and wish to join a community of like-minded women. Plus, life experienced, observed, and communicated by a woman to a woman is just not the same as getting it from a male perspective, something many businessmen do not yet realize or are helpless to do anything about. Over the course of my career I went from that PR job to board meetings of multi-billion-dollar companies (and divisions) held in global capitals where at 8:30 a.m., self-possessed executives lit up their cigars—noblesse oblige—and hours later the smoke was still rising, though the quality of discourse was not. At one meeting I vividly recall, I caught a division leader firing up his laptop with pornography. Seeing me seeing him, he said, I need it in the morning to get me going.
(You cannot make this stuff up.) Have you noticed that the author of almost any business book, whether self-help, textbook, memoir, or biography, is usually someone who has never been mistaken for a secretary? Not a surprise, since more than 90 percent of CEOs and corporate board members are men.
Now, I confess that I am no professor of business, management consultant (a new term is management therapist), or career guru. I am, however, a seemingly accomplished businesswoman with thirty years of perspective on the practice of business in America and internationally, the evolving role of women in business, and the global transformation of the marketplace. Plus I try to be a pilgrim in addressing the cultural exigencies of modern business and life through a balanced and healthy lifestyle.
I have certainly had a charmed business life—not that I have not been screamed at by drug-addicted megalomaniacs (well, one) or tolerated some awkward colleagues with reptilian IQs yet soaring egos—but I have been at the table during a strikingly transitional period for women in business, and have experienced a meal of small, medium, and large business in private and public versions…with even a little government bureaucracy thrown in (hey, I was born French). One characteristic of my career and part of why I wrote this book now, which I hope will help fill a gap in women-centric communications, is that I write from a global perspective with a footprint in three centuries and many countries. Being a French woman (and an American citizen) and having worked for a French company, I believe I wear the kind of cross-cultural glasses that help one see some of the obvious characteristics of our working environment that can be lost on us when we are in the middle of it. We lose perspective. The French Champagne company I joined in 1984 was still a venerable family-controlled enterprise run by a fading generation of aristocrats using nineteenth-century human resource and business practices. Though they were very nice people, their awareness of women in business started and ended with perhaps the first modern
businesswoman, Madame Clicquot, who was born in 1777 and died in 1866. Overnight I became the highest-ranking woman at Veuve Clicquot since Madame Clicquot. (One of my lasting secret pleasures was when the chairman of the company, a true gentleman with whom I still visit, Count Alain de Vogüé, would absentmindedly call me or refer to me as Madame Clicquot.) Two rapid mergers later, and the Veuve Clicquot group of companies became one of the major components of today’s LVMH, the world’s largest luxury goods company. That proved to be a business culture change of no small order, and my business world grew up in a hurry, from an initial consortium of successful French companies left with considerable independence to today’s LVMH, a twenty-first-century global conglomerate.
In 1975, Time magazine declared we were entering the Year of Women.
I’d say they printed that story at least a quarter century too soon. Sure, women like me were maturing then with a new sense of identity and opportunity and entering new fields, but the tangible results were a generation away and not just in the corner offices and boardrooms. At the time less than 10 percent of practicing attorneys and physicians in America were women. Today the numbers are nearer 30 percent and climbing. Women still represent less than 20 percent of the United States Congress. But the real change has been in education, nationally and internationally. For the past two decades in the United States, far more women in the 18–24 age group have attended college than ever before, and women now make up the majority of college students. In developed and developing nations alike, the future belongs to the emerging class of female professionals. In some regions of the world, the Middle East among them, daughters en masse are being afforded the opportunity to attain a higher education for the first time, and a set of careers and career paths important to the global economy are becoming open to women.
The lessons learned for women (and men) during this global transition period in business, government, and governance are timely and appropriate for the twenty-first century. As I have often said, I don’t want to live in the past but learn from the past. What’s here is, I hope, timely and contemporary for now, right now. This book, with its personal illustrations, is essentially about ideas, not about me—some old ideas, perhaps some new ideas, and certainly some newly packaged ideas. I have tried to cull ideas from decades of life experience and incorporate them into an original ratatouille made for perhaps the very first time with an added special ingredient. I hope you like ratatouille. (If I were a man, by the way, I would have used a sports, not a cooking, metaphor.)
Ideally, the thoughts presented here can stimulate introspection and personal growth no matter where you are along the career road. The ideas are wide-ranging, from style to stress and even to etiquette, reflecting that a life in business is holistic and about pleasures more than pain. This book is not a textbook—you will not learn the five keys to running a better meeting, or the six essentials for dealing with difficult colleagues. It contains strategic ideas, values, experiences, lessons learned, stories, essays, and morsels of advice. This book is about helping women (and a few men, peut-être) to grow the knowledge, know-how, and tools for empowerment and balance in today’s business world. Allons-y!
1
LIFE IS LIVED IN EPISODES AND STAGES
In just over two months’ time, I was going to start my dream job: translator at the Council of Europe in Strasbourg, France. Then chance or fate intervened.
Six months earlier, my first serious position after college as a translator-interpreter and small-projects manager in the Paris office of a Swedish company had ended abruptly when the office was closed during one of those periodic tough economic times that leads to downsizing. I had worked there more than a year and was given a bit of severance pay. Quite a bonanza for a girl in her twenties. And it got better.
I needed a job, of course, and that led me to set my sights on the Council of Europe, which for young and innocent moi was the ultimate employer on my radar screen. I aced the qualifying exam and was offered a position as a translator starting the next session, in the fall. So, in the meantime, I used my severance pay to travel to America and Greece and on the spur of the moment took a last-minute discounted American Express weekend to Istanbul.
On a bus from the airport to the hotel there, a handsome fellow with longish curly hair, blue eyes, and a deep tan said to me in French, Vous êtes très intelligente de voyager avec un p’tit sac.…
(You are very smart to travel so light).
I always travel light, but in this case it was because I had left my suitcase back in Athens.
I figured he was Turkish. He wasn’t.
He was an American from New York who had seen the same discounted trip from Athens to Istanbul.
He became my companion for the next few days, and then for another few days back in Athens, and then for another few days, and then I was hopelessly in love.
We wanted to continue our relationship, but he had to return to America, where he was completing his Ph.D. I went back to France. For the next weeks I faced what turned out to be the most important decision of my life. A classic: the job, the man, the city, the country?
Familiar with it? The country, the city, the man, the job. The man or the job…the job or the man?
Forget all my previous planning and dreaming, I chose the man and New York, my husband and home now for more than thirty years. I never took up my early dream of working at the Council of Europe.
So much for planning, in business or in life. Lesson learned. Things happen. Opportunities are often unpredictable.
Life is lived in episodes and stages. Episodes because they are roughly self-contained and somewhat arbitrary, at least as they relate to time and place. Stages because they evolve out of one another and are linear and in many cases inevitable, like adolescence or one’s first professional position. Business, too, is lived in episodes and stages, and it has a sometimes cruel way of disarming our passions and shrugging off some of our most prized abilities as commonplace or irrelevant.
PURSUING ONE’S GIFTS
One stage in my life began when I was a teenager in Eastern France and discovered a passion for languages—my native French, increasingly important English, and old-world German, then the preeminent first language in Europe (though no one outside Germany wanted to admit it). When we are good at something—and I was very good at the study of languages—aren’t we proud and motivated to pursue it and encouraged to do so by others? Sure. People who are good at music, dance, or athletics, for instance, fill their early years pursuing their gifts and pleasures, perhaps even becoming world-class performers or nearly so, and some even turn professional. But generally not for long.
My interest in language and culture led me to become a high school exchange student outside Boston, then a college student in Paris, and eventually helped bring me to America to be with my soon-to-be husband, Edward, where I worked in the proverbial fields. Early on I was a translator, including for the UN, then, following my passion, I toiled in the lowest of the low positions at the New York office of Food and Wine from France. Then I moved on to a New York PR-advertising firm where I leveraged my French heritage and a bit of knowledge to become a director of the Champagne Bureau, a trade organization and U.S. division of the CIVC (Comité Interprofessionnel du Vin de Champagne), promoting the entire Champagne industry. That’s when—college internships and entry-level jobs included—I truly learned business and benefited from the fatherly teachings of the American owner of the agency.
It seemed like a risk to me to take that first professional job in PR. As I’ve noted, I had no training. I feared I would be unemployed in no time. Even sitting in my own office on Fifth Avenue with a secretary outside my door—Fifth Avenue in New York City!—gave me the willies at first. But then I discovered something about myself and about