Life Begins After 40: A Guide To Living Your Best Life
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Learn to put yourself first, establish boundaries and balance your life – mind, body, soul & money!
Do you feel like your life is out of balance?
Are you looking to make a big change with your career or relationship and need direction?
Have you gone through some challenges with your family?
Are you dealing with physical and/or emotional issues?
This Free eBook will help you:
Establish your goals for a great life after 40
Get on the right track with food so you are eating mindfully
Create a detailed financial road-map
Help you find the root cause of ANY emotional or physical issues and address them
Take the time to evaluate the whole YOU and help you understand your choices so you can live your life powerfully – mind, body, soul & money.
Dr. Carolle Jean-Murat M.D.
Dr. Carolle is an intuitive healer with years of training and experience as a board-certified gynecologist who has helped thousands of women for over three decades. In her work as a traditional OBGYN Dr. Carolle became increasingly aware of the importance of helping women heal at all levels, and to not limit her focus simply on their physical complaints. As she grew to increasingly trust her growing intuition, including embracing a family history of intuitive, non-traditional healing – she continually developed her skills and ability to help others heal at a deep level that brings about profound changes that last. During a session by phone or in person she SEES the root cause of the energy drains interfering with your health, personal relationships, career or business. In the end you get a written plan to follow so you can live your life powerfully – mind, body, and soul. When you are ready, I will provide the tools you need to go within and unleash the power that resides within all of us to understand what’s going on, and bring out the healthiest, happiest and best you can be. — Dr. Carolle
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Life Begins After 40 - Dr. Carolle Jean-Murat M.D.
Introduction
Do you have trouble putting yourself first in a healthy way?
Is your life out of balance in any of these areas: mind, body, soul, and money?
Life Begins After 40 will teach you to:
Honor and accept yourself as you age
Have healthy boundaries in all of your personal relationships
Establish your goals for a great life after 40
Get on the right track with food and exercise so you are eating and working out mindfully
Revive your spiritual life
Create a detailed financial roadmap
Take the time to evaluate the whole YOU and help you understand your choices so you can live your life powerfully – mind, body, soul, & money.
The aim of this book is to share the amazing wisdom I have gained in over 30 years working with thousands of women in 5 countries. I wrote this book because I see women over 40 who think they are old or past their prime. I’m currently 63 years old, and I feel like my life is better than ever and full of possibilities! You get to choose your attitude and how you feel about yourself, which will shine through to the world. I hope this book will help you find that inner peace so that you can live a life of happiness and prosperity.
Section One: You and Yourself
Having a healthy relationship with yourself begins with knowing yourself. Who are you? What are your dreams, goals, and values? What do you want out of life? What makes you happy and fulfilled? What are your feelings at any given time? Why do you do the things you do? What do you believe in? What drives you? What are you passionate about?
Do you do things out of a sense of obligation to others, because of expectations others have placed on you, or because you want to do them? Is your sense of self–esteem based on feedback, both supportive and critical, from people around you, or is it grounded in a clear sense of who you are, your convictions, and your sense of self–worth? The wise Greek saying Know Thyself
can also be translated to Know Your Enemy
because most people are their own worst enemy!
Self-Esteem
Self-esteem is a thinking game. How we think about ourselves is how we are going to relate to others, and it influences how we work, play, and learn. Self-esteem includes our assessment of ourselves, our worthiness, and the extent to which we see ourselves able to succeed and able to overcome challenges. If our self-esteem is low, we do not see ourselves as successful; we isolate ourselves and tend to feel defenseless and unloved. On the other hand, if our self-esteem is high, we are poised, confident, and less likely to be influenced by others. People who triumph in life tend to have a tremendous sense of self-esteem.
If we have high self-esteem, we treat ourselves well and are treated well by others. This, in turn, reinforces our belief in ourselves and, when combined with our past experiences, enables us to believe that our future endeavors will be successful. When a specific goal is not accomplished as planned, an individual with high self-esteem may choose instead to view it as a stepping-stone to something better, greater, and more enriching. And they go on.
Many people spend entire lifetimes deferring dreams and postponing the enjoyment of each moment, all the while thinking that tomorrow will be more fulfilling and less stressful. Regardless of age, occupation, handicap, heritage, or environment, individuals have the ability, and the responsibility, to control their own destinies and the choice to create balance in their lives.
If you have high self-esteem, you will:
Not be afraid to stand out in a crowd.
Not compromise your high standards, which include not taking recreational drugs, smoking, drinking too much, or otherwise living dangerously.
When I was 10 years old, I had the first opportunity to witness my mother, a midwife, deliver a baby. Later, I was trained by nurse midwives in Jamaica, where the rate of Cesarean sections was low compared to America. My patients were told that I would be called for an emergency C-section in the event of fetal distress. Upon arriving in the operating room, with the woman already anesthetized and prepped for surgery, I would reassess the woman’s condition. Sometimes I observed that the woman’s condition had improved and then reconsidered whether a C-section was necessary. Fear would creep in, and my confidence in my ability to make the right decision faltered. I envisioned myself standing in a courtroom defending my decisions. It is true that a C-section is often more convenient, and at that time, insurance companies reimbursed more for them. One day, I performed a C-section, knowing that I had given in to my fear of being sued. I went home, threw up, and quit a very lucrative aspect of my doctoring so that I would never compromise on this issue again.
Not give in to a system you don’t respect.
Due to the smaller and smaller reimbursements from insurance companies, I found myself having to see more and more patients in order to meet my overhead expenses. So, I decided to accept patients solely on a cash pay basis. I made this decision to protect me and my patients from the limitations of the managed care system. It was difficult, but I decided that I would be happier doing business my own way.
Not be afraid to speak out against injustice.
Dare to have big dreams, commit to them, and make them happen, even if you have never met anyone who has succeeded.
Since I was a young girl, I knew that I could do anything I wanted. I chose to be a healer – a doctor. It was a long, arduous road with many obstacles, besides being a woman. I had to learn Spanish to go to medical school then English to do my post-graduate training. I lived and trained in warm and cold countries and learned about many different cultures. Fourteen years after I graduated from high school, I realized my big dream and became a doctor.
Self-esteem, or our belief and attitudes about ourselves, plays a significant part in all aspects of our lives. How we see ourselves is how we are going to relate, play, work, and learn. Self-esteem is how we assess our own worthiness; it is the extent of which we see ourselves being capable and able to succeed.
If we believe that we can accomplish great things, we will. What we believe becomes our reality - we create our own reality. We all have very powerful minds - if we see ourselves as failures, we will prove ourselves right by becoming failures. Likewise, if we believe we can be successful, we will. Confidence breeds confidence. Others accept you at your own appraisal.
If our self-esteem is low, we do not see ourselves as successful; we will isolate ourselves and feel defenseless and unloved. On the other hand, if our self-esteem is high, we will be more poised and confident and less likely to be influenced by others.
Likewise, if we have a high self-esteem, we expect others to treat us well, and they do. This in turn reinforces our belief in ourselves. Our past experiences will also enable us to believe that our future endeavors will be successful. Even when we fail, we only see it as losing a battle, not losing a war. And we go on.
Can you answer these questions?
Who are you?
What are your dreams, goals, and values?
What do you want out of life?
What makes you happy and fulfilled?
What do you believe in?
What drives you?
Why do you do the things you do?
What are you passionate about?
Do you do things out of a sense of obligation to others, because of expectations others have placed on you, or because you want to do them?
Is your sense of self-esteem based on feedback, both supportive and critical, from people around you, or is it grounded in a clear sense of who you are, your convictions, and your sense of self-worth?
Attitude Is Everything
The real key to staying mentally healthy is to maintain positive feelings about yourself. Eleanor Roosevelt said, No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
Successful people usually have tremendous self-confidence–they look at life as a creative adventure. This can be accomplished by being true to yourself and your goals,