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    The 12 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Dating and Love Relationships
    The 12 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Dating and Love Relationships
    The 12 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Dating and Love Relationships
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    The 12 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Dating and Love Relationships

    By Lyn Kelley

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    Newly edited and updated 2022. PLEASE...don’t go on another date until you’ve read this book!

    Dr. Kelley, Relationship Coach, has years of experience (her own, her friends and hundreds of clients) and has discovered the secrets of getting any man to fall in love with you and beg to see you again as soon as possible. If you want to “win” with men, you need to “know” them better. You need to be one step ahead of them. If you haven’t been successful in love, you aren’t doing it right. All of Dr. Lyn’s suggestions have been proven to work over and over again. She wants you to know them and use them to your advantage!

    The popular reality show The Bachelor demonstrates the power of many of these strategies. You may have noticed it is not the most beautiful, successful, richest women who win. The woman who wins the man in the end is the one with the BEST STRATEGY. You need to be smarter and play smarter – clever like a fox! Use these strategies and you will be in a much better position to have the love relationship of your dreams.

    Learn the 12 biggest mistakes women make with men and how to stop this self-sabotage. Please....don’t go on one more date until you read this book!

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherLyn Kelley
    Release dateApr 17, 2010
    ISBN9781452363547
    The 12 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Dating and Love Relationships
    Author

    Lyn Kelley

    As a Motivational Coach and Speaker, my goal is "to empower people move to the next level of success in their lives." Many people have asked for more information about me and why I am qualified to motivate others. So here's a little bit about me and how I got here. It all started back in Fresno, CA where I was born and raised. As a child I knew I had a calling to help people be happier and live better lives. I knew this because I was keenly observant of people. I observed people and how they lived their lives. At age 10 a friend's family invited me to a musical show called "Up With People!" This show had a major impact on me, and brought up my passion to help people be happier. Although my parents didn't care about my grades, I received all A's in school except I always failed Oral English. I couldn't get up in front of the class and speak. What kept me going in school was my desire for a career in the helping/teaching profession, so I could help others become more successful. The females in my family were discouraged from going to college, so higher education became my way of rebelling. I earned my B.A. in Education from CSU Fresno. During college I had some wonderful professors who took me under their wing and encouraged me to speak in class. I learned that I enjoyed teaching and actually had a gift that had previously been repressed. I went on to get my teaching credential and taught Jr. and Sr. High School for 7 years. I went from a shy little girl who couldn't speak in front of the class to a big girl who couldn't STOP speaking in front of the class! Teaching adolescents was an amazing experience! I found that I wanted to work with them more one-on-one, so I went back to college to become a counselor. I received my M.S. in Counseling/Psychology from the University of Miami and became licensed as a Marriage & Family Therapist. Initially I set out to get a wide range of experience. I worked in a children's psych hospital in dual diagnosis, managed a residential treatment program for severely emotionally disturbed teenage girls, conducted biofeedback therapy for a pain management center, and worked in social services in the areas of foster care, child abuse and family reunification. Once I became licensed I worked in a private counseling practice for 7 years. I specialized in relationship counseling. During this time I realized that coaching, writing and teaching were what I really loved to do, s...

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      She’s right there are parts that you wouldn’t agree but it sure made sense, on point about how to deal with the dilemma. I also like how she practice one of her suggestion which is straight talk.
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      Great Book. Quick read, and perfect Book to segue into after reading Lundy Bancroft's Book, "Why Does He Do That?

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    The 12 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Dating and Love Relationships - Lyn Kelley

    Thank You for purchasing this E-book!

    Welcome to

    Dr. Lyn Is In

    Author, Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., CPC

    Certified Professional Coach

    "My mission is to provide understanding, comfort, knowledge,

    wisdom and personal power in relationships."

    What others are saying about Dr. Lyn’s

    Dear Jane Series

    Dr. Kelley tells it like it is. I’ve read all of her books on relationships and feel I have grown by leaps and bounds due to her honest, straight, real information. She writes like she is talking to her best friend. All the strategies I’ve used so far that she suggests have worked for me! I feel so much more confident in dating now, and I’m not wasting time with men who are wrong for me. This was worth more than 100 times the cost of the books to me. I highly recommend her books.

    --Tanya Murray, San Diego, CA

    I have read two of your books; The 12 Biggest Mistakes and How to Cure a Commitment Phobic. Both were brilliant and really well written. I really enjoyed them and will recommend them to my friends for sure.

    --Michelle, Worcestershire, UK

    Lyn Kelley has done a superlative job of explaining why people fail at their relationships and how they can stop this self-sabotage. She explains how to know which men are ‘manageable’ and which men are not. She gives concrete, simple ways to get even the most difficult men to surrender to you. She showed me how I was actually pushing men away from me rather than moving them toward me. I now know what I’ve been doing wrong and am committed to changing myself! I highly recommend this book.

    --Michelle Rodriguez, Orlando, FL

    Dr. Lyn explains the controlling and manipulative personality in a way that I could understand. I now know the tactics they use and will never again be taken by them! I feel much more confidant to stand up for myself now – not just with men but with anyone who tries to control or manipulate me. The tips I got were worth way more than the cost of this book.

    --Kristin Anne, San Diego, CA

    Dear Dr. Lyn,

    I just wanted to let you know how amazing and accurate your book is (10 Secrets to Getting Any Man You Want to Want YOU). This book answered all of my questions and I realized what I was doing wrong. Forget women are from Venus and blah blah blah. YOUR BOOK SAYS IT ALL! Thank you.

    --Katie Rox

    By Lyn Kelley

    Published by Lyn Kelley and distributed at Smashwords

    Cover Design by Cal Sharp

    www.Caligraphics.com

    Copyright 2022 Lyn Kelley

    Smashwords Edition, License Notes

    This e-book is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This e-book may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each person. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

    See Dr. Lyn’s Author Page:

    http://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/growpu

    More e-Books by Dr. Lyn distributed at

    http://www.smashwords.com/

    Dear Jane Series:

    Book 1: The 12 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Dating & Love Relationships

    Book 2: How to Cure a Commitment-Phobic

    Book 3: How to Turn a Player into a Stayer

    Book 4: Controlling and Manipulative Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

    Book 5: Self-Centered and Narcissistic Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

    Book 6: Addicted Men – Drugs, Alcohol, Porn and More: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

    Book 7: Low Achieving Men - Passives, Wimps, Dreamers: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

    Book 8: Cheap Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

    Book 9: Men who Lie and Cheat: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

    Book 10: Emotionally Unavailable Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

    Book 11: The Romantic Terrorist: Protect Yourself from Stalking, Harassment, Bullying and Threats

    Book 12: How to Get Any Man You Want to Want YOU

    Book 13: The 10 Biggest Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Love Relationships

    Book 14: How to Break Up, Survive and Thrive

    Book 15: Bad Dick, Good Jane: How Good Girls Get Bad Boys to Behave, Fall in Love and Commit

    New Release!

    Bad Dick, Good Jane:

    How Good Girls Get Bad Boys to Behave, Fall in Love, and Commit

    Other Self-Help Books by Lyn Kelley:

    How to Stick With Your Diet & Exercise Program

    How to Motivate People! The 3 Magic Keys to Unlock Anyone’s Hidden Motivation

    The 7 Self-Sabotages: Why People Sabotage Themselves and How to Stop It

    How to Become Your Own Life Coach in 12 Easy Steps

    Stalking 101: Everything You Need to Know to Keep Yourself Safe

    How to Motivate Yourself: Secrets of the Motivational Superstars

    The Magic of Detachment: How to Detach from Other People and Their Problems

    Thousands of Angels: Your Guide to Spiritual Empowerment, Peace and Abundance

    One Day She Woke Up and Decided to be Brave: A Woman’s Journey from Fear to Courage

    I offer telephone and email coaching.

    Contact me to set up an appointment!

    lyn@janesgoodadvice.com

    Learn more about Dr. Lyn and Relationship Coaching at

    www.janesgoodadvice.com

    Follow Dr. Lyn:

    Facebook: http://facebook.com/ lyn.kelley1

    Twitter: http://wefollow.com/JanesGoodAdvice

    LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/drlynisin

    See Dr. Lyn’s YouTube videos:

    The Biggest Mistake Women Make in Dating and Love Relationships:

    http://youtu.be/--aGjh3WgPc

    Is He a Commitment Phobic?

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cLCqQHzmNOA

    How to Stick With Your Diet and Exercise Program:

    http://youtu.be/SEJvHJkKtSM

    How to Become a Certified Professional Coach:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZBHrDhxodWc

    Bad Dick, Good Jane: How Good Girls Get Bad Boys to Behave

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QYQenwJdfW4

    The Magic of Detachment: How to Let Go of Other People and Their Problems

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUSsaTq6Clo

    Controlling and Manipulative Men

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gc6LGkonSr8

    Emotionally Unavailable Men

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yXUBBE7MgLo

    Self Centered and Narcissistic Men

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5lMDvDF2r1o

    The 12 Biggest Mistakes Women Make

    in Dating & Love Relationships

    By Lyn Kelley, Ph.D.

    Certified Professional Coach

    Table of Contents

    Introduction

    Mistake #1

    Mistake #2

    Mistake #3

    Mistake #4

    Mistake #5

    Mistake #6

    Mistake #7

    Mistake #8

    Mistake #9

    Mistake #10

    Mistake #11

    Mistake #12

    Introduction

    The course of true love never did run smooth.

    ---William Shakespeare

    Let Me Save You the Heartache

    What is a love relationship? Any relationship with love or strong feelings of caring for another. In fact, it’s almost all of our relationships. And the mistakes we make run the gamut of all our relationships, whether with a friend, a lover, a parent, a sibling, a co-worker, etc. During my 20+ years experience as a Relationship Coach working with couples and singles, along with my own experience and that of my friends and family, I’ve determined the 12 most common mistakes that can destroy relationships. I beg of you – if you want a loving relationship that lasts (and I think you do!) -- DO NOT GO ON ONE MORE DATE UNTIL YOU’VE READ THIS BOOK!

    My education includes a B.A., M.S. and Ph.D., but this is not where I learned about men. I’ve learned most of what I know through field research. My field research includes 20+ years of relationship counseling and coaching, 20+ years of dating, 30+ years of observing my friends and family’s relationships, many years of my own personal counseling, coaching and recovery program, 30+ years of reading every book I could find on relationships, and reading every research study I could find on relationships.

    I’ve studied this subject ad nausea. Throughout this book I make use of statistics. While most of my study has been field research – observing my family, friends, and other people -- I believe in using statistics as it is the best way to predict the future. When buying a car you probably do some research and find out which cars perform the best for the money. You would do the same for a home or any other financial asset. Just as you would use data and statistics in any other major decision in your life, you need to come from a more rational place in your relationships.

    I had

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