BDSM Primer: A Woman's Guide to BDSM - Fetishes, Roles, Rituals, Protocols, Safety, & More
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BDSM is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ.
As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it in a straightforward and easy-to-understand way to you.
This guide is more than just a list of who and what. It is a map that will take you into the heart of the BDSM lifestyle, explore the motivations and expectations, and offer suggestions for the safe and sensual journey you are undertaking.
In "BDSM Primer for Women", you will learn:
- The vocabulary, roles, and rituals
- The reasons you may want to participate in this lifestyle
- Ways and places to get started
- Safety concerns and legal issues
- Emotions, consequences, and actions
- What actions meet what needs
- What kinds of fetishes meet what kinds of needs
- How to communicate healthfully
- How to create your sexual self
- And much more...
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Seems like a good introduction but I have no actual experience to verify. Would like more information on safety practices and plans. Frustrating to get suggestions on safety practices without specific information on how to achieve the goal.
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BDSM Primer - Elizabeth Cramer
BDSM Primer
A Woman's Guide to BDSM - Fetishes, Roles, Rituals, Protocols, Safety, & More
Elizabeth Cramer
Copyright© 2013 by Elizabeth Cramer
Smashwords Edition
BDSM Primer
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While all attempts have been made to verify information provided in this publication, the Publisher assumes no responsibility for errors, omissions, or contrary interpretation of the subject matter herein. Any perceived slights of specific persons, peoples, or organizations are unintentional.
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Table of Contents
Chapter 1: Introduction
Chapter 2: Hello, My Name Is…
The Top Side
The Bottom Side
Other Roles
Chapter 3: Terms of Endearment
Chapter 4: Why Am I Doing This?
Responsibility
Simplicity
Release
Chapter 5: See All The People
Chapter 6: Personal Policies
Personal Information
Pictures
Meeting Safety
Sexuality and Scene Safety
Chapter 7: Who Else Has The Cuffs?
Universally Banned Topics
Federal Laws in the United States
State and Local Laws
Internationally
Chapter 8: Creating Your Sexual Self
Chapter 9: On Your Mark, Get Set, Go…
Chapter 1: Introduction
Whether you are engaged in some casual weekend play, or in the process of discovering your sexual identity, you’ll discover BDSM (Bondage, Discipline/Dominance, Submission/Sadism, and Masochism) is a complex, compelling and highly faceted arena. It is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ.
In this world you can find what you are looking for and experience unimaginable pleasures, or end up taking a wrong turn and endure at best an awkward situation or at worst unimaginable unpleasantness.
As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it