Practical Life Coaching
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The fastest growing entrepreneurial industry is Life Coaching. Many individuals want to get on with their lives and move forward. Life Coaching is not therapy; it is a way in which one person has the skills and empathy to help individuals clarify their wishes, desires, goals and prospects for the future. The clients’ possible procrastinations have hindered them from changing direction.
You will be able to help them move from the abstract to a workable approach to solve their perceived problems. You will engage them from ongoing thoughts to taking action. Very often, deep seated, unresolved problems, which have never been dealt with before, can become a process for the clients to resolve them on their own. Remember, you are not a therapis; you are helping them clarify their own situation.
You will have the tools to help them proceed.
To be a Life Coach is a very important career choice. Being empathetic and congruent in the moment without value judging your clien. You will not only be a coach, but a teacher as well. You are not a therapist unless you have a state license to do so. California, according to the Department of Consumer Affairs, does not require a license to practice Life Coaching. Check with your particular state, country, etc.
An individual wanting to engage in this profession must have a desire to help people seeking clarification of their particular situations. I have been a psychotherapist for over thirty years and the most gratifying experiences have been helping individuals move forward in their lives.
I have included the basic approach to Life Coaching.
A Life Coach could not possibly know all the professions an individual wishes to pursue, as well as finances, retirement, health issues, family problem, marriage, child rearing, communication, etc. The list is endless.
The Life Coach deals with the clients’ concerns and wishes. The Life Coach structures a process whereby the clients agree to follow the agreed upon parameters. The clients set the time table to complete tasks which the Life Coach agrees to support the clients, and monitors their progress.
Marshall Stearn
My non-fiction books represent my interests in helping the population at large. I am a psychotherapist & Life Coach and have tried to approach my interests to help the human condition, as illustrated in: Drinking & Driving, Self Hypnosis, Portraits of Passion, 90 Important Things to Survive the Future. Being a SAG-AFTRA actor I wrote Screenwriting Made Easy, and subsequent screenplays as books: Miltee, Ed Boudreau, Press Bet, Brief Encounter, Love Is A Many Splendid Thing. These are all fictional and character driven letting my creative imagination take hold. In Portraits of Passion I interviewed 32 men and women about creativity & passion for work. Some of them were known participants: Charles M Schulz(snoopy), Robert Mondavi, Melvin Belli, Steve Allen, Norman Cousins,Jerry Jampolsky, Linus Pauling, John Wooden, Alice Faye, and many others. Their work was their life!
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Practical Life Coaching - Marshall Stearn
TESTIMONIALS
Marshall l just wanted you to know I appreciate you. Thanks for being such a great friend and mentor.
TD 2008
Dear Marshall : Thank you so much for taking the time to help me along my path. Your insight, advice and knowledge is invaluable to me and my journey of life.
Kindest regards.
AO 2010
Marshall: Thank you. All of the information was very helpful I’ll be sure to keep you updated.
LA 2010
Marshall: Thank you so much for all the information you sent me. I really appreciate your efforts. I am extremely excited I ran into you again. It was meant to happen!
Look forward to the future.
All my Best,
LM2010
Marshall: Thanks for thinking of me as potential talent and for helping me get started.
Wish me luck and take care!
OK 2010
Dear Marshall: Thank you again for taking the time out to meet with me this past week. Your advice is greatly appreciated. You’re a wonderful person
Thank you,
VC 2010
Marshall: Thank you for all the good pointers and advice. It’s encouraging to know that there are genuine people willing to help in this industry. Perhaps some day we’ll even work together
Sincerely,
JB 2011
Dear Marshall: Thanks!! For the tip on talent agents in San Francisco. I just signed with STARS. I will celebrate when the gigs and the checks roll in. JC 2011
Dear Marshall: Thank you again for showing interest in my future and opening the door into the entertainment business. Your help has been greatly appreciated, and I look forward to what the new opportunities will bring. Sincerely, JH 2011
Hi Marshall: My goodness, I am in shock after reading through the email you sent me last week, you have gone above and beyond and I cannot thank you enough for all of this priceless information! I think my first step will be to do some additional research as well as call each casting agency, then practice in front of a mirror while whitening my teeth-all my tea in the morning has done some damage I am sure.
I cannot tell you how much this means to me Marshall, you going through all the trouble of walking me through this toward a (potential!) opportunity, means so very much. I am quite positive I will be referencing this email often. You have blown me away with; kindness and inspired me in many ways, and so I would like to thank you for everything,
Sincerely,
KA 2012
Dear Marshall: Thank you for all the great information; and for taking the time to help me. I really appreciate it. I will stay in contact with you to figure out the next steps to take. I hope you have a great day..
A & F 2013
Marshall: I wanted to thank you for all of you help and advice. Your emails have been encouraging and have been a motivation for me.
Sincerely,
HS 2013
Marshall: Thank you for just the possibility of this opportunity. I appreciate you taking the time to chat with me and sending me that amazing information. I look forward to your continued mentorship and all the possibilities that may come my way.
KM 2013
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Testimonials
Table of Contents
Foreword
Introduction
The Circle
Life Coaching Work Sheet
Personal Inventory
Financial Responsibility
Value Clarification
The Psychology of Change
Habits
Relationship Inventory
Communication
Categorizing Responses
12 Roadblocks to Communication
Conflict Resolution
Listening Skills
Words to Live By
Resources
1. Ten Mistakes to Avoid With Your Money
2. Four Moves that Trigger an Audit
3. The Super Audit Experience
4. Staying Financially Alive Part I
5. Ibid II
6. lbid III
7, Ibid IV
8. Investing for the Future
9. More Funds
10, Bonds
11. Treasuries
12. Why You Should Have a Will
13, Why Many People Fail to Make a Will
14. Revocable Living Trusts Part I
15. Revocable Living Trust Part II
16. Retirement Planning
17. Planning For College
18. College Financial Aid
19. A Walk Through The Criminal Justice System 1
20. Ibid Rights Check List II
21. Ibid Arraignment III
22. Ibid Preliminary Hearing IV
23. Driving under the Influence: Newer Tougher Trends
24. How To Tell When drinking Is Becoming A Problem
25. Are You a Co-Alcoholic?
26. Stress And Anxiety
27. Your Money & Your Life
28. Peak Performance Techniques For Everyday Driving
29. Techniques For Safe Driving
30. Credit Bureaus: How They Affect Your Life
31. How To Secure Your Credit
32. What To Look For When Buying a Used Car.
References
Notes
Bibliography
About the Author
FOREWORD
My non-fiction books represent my interests in helping the population at large. I am a psychotherapist & Life Coach and have tried to approach my interests to help the human condition, as illustrated in: Drinking & Driving, Self-Hypnosis, Portraits of Passion: Aging Defying The Myth, 90 Important Things to Survive the Future. Being a SAG-AFTRA actor I wrote Screenwriting Made Easy, and subsequent screenplays as books: Miltee: Lost in The Museum, Ed Boudreau, Press Bet, Brief Encounter, Love Is A Many Splendid Thing. These are all fictional and character driven; letting my creative imagination take hold.
In Portraits of Passion, I interviewed 32 men and women about creativity & passion for work. Some of them were known participants: Charles M Schulz (snoopy), Robert Mondavi (Wine Industry), Melvin Belli (King of Torts), Steve Allen (Radio and TV Talk Host), Norman Cousins (Editor, The New Yorker), Jerry Jampolsky (Center For Attitudinal Healing), Linus Pauling (Nobel Prize Winner), John Wooden (Famous Basketball Coach), Alice Faye (30’s & 40’s Actress and Author), and many others. Their work was their life!
Basically, I am a teacher. I’ve coached/mentored individuals to pursue avenues they never thought was open to them, one of which is the entertainment business with its diverse appeal of work that we are all familiar with, not withstanding, being an actor. I will include some, but not all testimonials of the people whom I have helped. My hope is that this book inspires other to become teachers and life coaches as a self–satisfying profession. In my experience, most people are more than they think they are. They have to reprogram the tape in their brain and clear out the hurdles keeping them from moving in other self-satisfying directions
INTRODUCTION
The fastest growing entrepreneurial industry is Life Coaching. Many individuals want to get on with their lives and move forward. Life Coaching is not therapy; it is a way in which one person has the skills and empathy to help individuals clarify their wishes, desires, goals and prospects for the future enhanced by this procedure. The clients’ possible procrastinations have hindered them