A Gift of Love: Reflections for the Tender Heart
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Love has always been the need.
Jesus has always been the answer.
"The world is hurting for love," writes pastor and Bible teacher Charles Stanley. "Because God is infinite and full of compassion, He heard our cries and responded in the form of a perfect gift, Jesus."
Consider this simple truth: all the wonderful attributes of God would be meaningless unless God was also a giver. He loves the world, and the evidence of that love is that he gave His Son. From this simple but profound premise, Dr. Stanley unfolds the riches of the giver and the glories of the gift. Stanley explores the many dimensions of God's generous nature, first in His character, then in the revelation of Himself through His Son, and finally in the impact of His magnificent gift.
Written in a warm, daily devotional format, A Gift of Love will cause the height and depth of God's love to shine in your heart.
Charles F. Stanley
Dr. Charles F. Stanley was the founder of In Touch Ministries and pastor emeritus of First Baptist Church Atlanta, Georgia, where he served more than fifty years. He was also a New York Times bestselling author of more than seventy books. Until his death in 2023, Dr. Stanley’s mission was to get the gospel to “as many people as possible, as quickly as possible, as clearly as possible, as irresistibly as possible, through the power of the Holy Spirit to the glory of God.” This is a calling that In Touch Ministries continues to pursue by transmitting his teachings as widely and effectively as possible. Dr. Stanley’s messages can be heard daily on In Touch with Dr. Charles Stanley broadcasts on television, radio, and satellite networks and stations around the world; on the internet at intouch.org and through In Touch+; and via the In Touch Messenger Lab. Excerpts from Dr. Stanley’s inspiring messages are also published in the award-winning In Touch devotional magazine.
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A Gift of Love - Charles F. Stanley
A Gift of Love
REFLECTIONS FOR THE TENDER HEART
CHARLES STANLEY
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Stanley, Charles F.
A gift of love : reflections for the tender heart / Charles Stanley.
p. cm.
ISBN 0-7852-6618-6 (hc)
ISBN 0-7852-7655-6 (sc)
1. God—Love—Meditations. 2. Love—Religious aspects—
Christianity—Biblical teaching. I. Title.
BT140 .S7195 2001
231'.6—dc21
2001034511
Printed in the United States of America
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CONTENTS
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
—JOHN 3:16
Introduction: A Gift of Love
Part I: God— The Giver of Love
The Supreme Giver
The Initiator of Love
Amazing Grace
Three Pillars of Truth
The Heart of God
Your Loving Father
Love Revealed
Testing His Goodness
Our Greatest Lover
Putting God First
Developing a Passion for God
Rejecting the World
Caring for His People
Taking the Initiative
Revealing Himself
Rescuing the Lost
Expressing Your Love
Renewing Relationships
Divine Encounters
Obstructing the Flow
Worthy of Your Devotion
Fostering Intimacy
Unconditional Love
How God Sees You
God’s Gift of Grace
Part II: Jesus Christ— The Gift of Love
The Sum of God’s Purpose
Eternal Friendship
Accepting God’s Gift
Embracing Christ’s Friendship
Seeking the Lost
Focusing on Christ
Moving Beyond Legalities
An Example of God’s Love
Understanding the Father
Blessed Because He Came
Setting the Example
Lessons of Love
Faithfulness in Hard Times
Hope in Desperate Times
Answering the Call
Looking for Love?
Sharing the Good News
An Eternal Symbol
Your Security
The Greatest Sacrifice
A Radical Display
What a Friend!
God with Us
A Divine Scapegoat
He Is Our Peace
Christ, Our Life
Lord of All
He Is Lord
You Have It All
Bearing Fruit
Part III: The World— The Recipient of Love
Seeking the Lord
Spending Time with God
A Wholehearted Seeker
Checking Your Vital Signs
Keeping God’s Commandments
Longing to Know Him
Expressing Appreciation
Submitting to God
Good Works
Loving God
God’s Stabilizing Perspective
Loving Freely
Doctrine Without Love
Glorifying God
A Divine Definition
Unconditional Love
Obeying the Father
The Walk of Love
A Channel of Love
A Supernatural Love
A Proper Motive
Your Spiritual Inheritance
What You Believe
Forgiving Others
An Agent of Love
The Gift of Love
The Test of Love
Boasting in God
Objects of God’s Love
Relating to Others
Friendship with God
Loving Freely
He Comes to Us
Proclaiming the Message of Salvation
Reflecting His Love
Giving Yourself Away
Loving Others
Eliminating Love’s Enemies
Connecting to His Love
Restoring Broken Intimacy
Fostering Christian Relationships
Eliminating Barriers
Your Single Greatest Need
Soldiers of the Lord
The Right Decision
About the Author
Scripture References Cited
INTRODUCTION
A Gift of Love
The world is hurting for love. Ask any Christian counselor, pastor, or layperson who works with those who have suffered hurt, and they will tell you that love is a key issue. Lack of love—appropriate love—is the reason we have so much brokenness in our society.
You were created with a basic need for love. Amazing as it may sound, there is a love that can and will meet all of your needs. This love—God’s love—is the only way to experience the love you so desperately desire and seek.
Many think they have to get their lives straightened out before they come to God, but that is not the way He operates. His love for you is unconditional. When He looks at your life, He sees only potential. No matter how dark your past has been or how bleak the present may seem, God’s love can cleanse away the deepest sin: For when we were still without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. For scarcely for a righteous man will one die; yet perhaps for a good man someone would even dare to die. But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us
(Rom. 5:6-8).
Jesus died so that you might have eternal life and love. What a tremendous gift He gives! And nothing this world has to offer can even come close.
Part I
God—The Giver of Love
THE SUPREME GIVER
The attributes of God are many—love, mercy, grace, forgiveness, kindness, and goodness. Yet none of these marvelous qualities would be known to mankind without the following character trait—giving.
God, by His own choice, holds nothing to Himself. He generously bestows His love, mercy, and grace upon man because He has sovereignly willed to share Himself and His bounty with us. We have life only because God has created us by an exercise of His will. We can receive salvation only because He wills to grant it.
The ultimate testimony to the Giver of all good things is, amazingly, the saints, the redeemed ones, That in the ages to come He might show the exceeding riches of His grace in His kindness toward us in Christ Jesus
(Eph. 2:7).
The Supreme Giver’s gift to men of salvation through Christ will resound throughout eternity. Believers will be the showcase, the tangible evidence, of His ever-giving heart. Thus, while we enjoy the eternal benefits of salvation, its fundamental root lies in the reality that our God is the preeminent Giver. All of the heavenly hosts will marvel at that truth without end.
Prayer: Father, thank You for being the Supreme Giver and giving the gift of love. That in the ages to come He might show the exceeding riches of His grace in His kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. (Eph. 2:7)
Because Your lovingkindness is better than life,
My lips shall praise You. (Ps. 63:3)
God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. (Rom. 5:8)
THE INITIATOR OF LOVE
From the beginning of time, God has been the Initiator of love (1 John 4:10). In his book Lectures in Systematic Theology, Henry Thiessen writes, He is unlike the gods of the heathen, who hate and are angry, and the god of the philosopher, who is cold and indifferent.
God loves us with a personal and intimate love. Those who have yet to discover the intimacy of God often view Him as being cool and demanding toward His creation. But nothing is farther from the truth. Even in the Old Testament, we find God constantly moving toward mankind in an effort to reveal more of Himself on an intimate basis.
Love motivates Him to do this. In fact, love is the motivating factor of every true relationship. It motivated the heart of God not to destroy man in the Garden of Eden, and it motivated Him to deliver Israel from the Egyptians.
Love brought down the walls of Jericho, and it was the motivation behind the coming of Christ. Love took our place on Calvary’s cross and later rose from the grave. And love reaches out to us each day with freshness and hope.
You were created by love to live within its embrace. Many wonder how God could love them so deeply. But He does. He is Love, and He loves you and me.
Prayer: Lord, thank You for creating me by love to live within its embrace. I praise You for Your love that reaches out to me each day with hope.
Indeed it was for my own peace
That I had great bitterness;
But You have lovingly delivered
my soul from the pit of corruption,
For You have cast all my sins behind Your back. (Isa. 38:17)
The LORD has appeared of old to me, saying:
"Yes, I have loved you with an everlasting love;
Therefore with lovingkindness I have drawn you." (Jer. 31:3)
I have loved you,
says the LORD. (Mal. 1:2)
AMAZING GRACE
It is little wonder that the hymn Amazing Grace
is sung so resoundingly in churches across the world. Its vivid imagery reminds us of the preeminence of grace and its indispensable role in our salvation and sanctification—but what makes grace so amazing?
Grace is amazing because it is free. No currency exists that can ever purchase grace. We are usually suspicious of anything free, but God’s offer comes without any hidden strings. He bore the cost for our sins (therefore, it is not cheap grace) so that He could extend it freely to any man on the basis of faith—not intellect, status, or prestige.
Grace is amazing because it is limitless. God’s grace can never be exhausted. Regardless of the vileness or number of our sins, His grace is always sufficient. It can never be depleted; it can never be measured. He always gives His grace in fullness.
God’s grace is amazing because it is always applicable. Do you need wisdom? God’s grace provides it through His Word. Do you need strength or guidance? God’s grace sustains you by His Spirit. Do you need security? God’s grace supplies it through His sovereignty.
The amazing grace of God! Full and free! Without measure! Pertinent for your every need!
Prayer: O God, Your