Build Castles, Don't Dig Graves: How To Think Your Way To Success In Every Area Of Your Life
By Charles Emeka and Nathaniel Peat
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Build Castles, Don't Dig Graves - Charles Emeka
Copyright © 2009 Charles Emeka
First Published in Great Britain in 2009 by Charles Emeka.
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Contents Page
Dedication
Acknowledgements
Foreword By Nathaniel Peat
Introduction
Build Castles, Don’t Dig Graves
Note 1- Think Positive Thoughts
Note 2- Time To Focus
Note 3- You Were Born To Win
Note 4- Negative Relationships
Note 5- Never Too Young, Never Too Old
Note 6- The F Word
Note 7- Creative Thinking
Note 8- Great Appearance, Great Expectations
Note 9- Mind Food
Note 10- The Power of Right Now
Note 11- Goal Setting
Keep Making It Happen
Power Quotes To Help Build Castles
Dedication
This book is dedicated to Fantasia Barrino. Fantasia, is an American R&B singer, Broadway and television actress who rose to fame as the winner of the third season of the television series American Idol in 2004. She has been nominated for eight Grammy Awards. Fantasia also played the part of Celie in the Broadway musical The Color Purple.
She attended Andrews High School in High Point. After she was raped by a classmate, she was left feeling harassed and embarrassed and dropped out of high school. She later became pregnant at age sixteen and on August 8, 2000, she gave birth to her daughter Zion. She broke up with Zion’s father because he was physically abusive towards her. Fantasia then briefly moved to neighboring Greensboro, North Carolina before trying out for the American Idol Auditions in Atlanta.
Fantasia made an immediate impression on American Idol with her stylized gospel-influenced sound, and her explosive stage presence. Her audition version of Tina Turner’s Proud Mary
made her an early favorite in the competition. Her standout performance during the course of the show was a heartfelt staging of the Porgy and Bess standard Summertime
that left her in tears from feeling the song
and earned praise from the judges—Randy Jackson has called it the best performance in the show’s history—and was named to the Award’s 2004 list of greatest television moments.
Concerns were raised over her as a single mother being a poor role model for youth. However, she did not let her detractors stop her. She refused to dig a grave and has continued to build castles. Without a doubt, she is a role model for me and to millions of people around the world young and old. Her message is simple, if I can, then you definitely can
. Her mess has become her message. Fantasia’s success culminated in a New York Times best selling autobiography, Life is Not a Fairy Tale (Simon & Shuster, September 2005), a candidly revealing memoir that was adapted as a