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    Helping People Change: Coaching with Compassion for Lifelong Learning and Growth
    Helping People Change: Coaching with Compassion for Lifelong Learning and Growth
    Helping People Change: Coaching with Compassion for Lifelong Learning and Growth
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    Helping People Change: Coaching with Compassion for Lifelong Learning and Growth

    Written by Richard Boyatzis, Melvin Smith and Ellen Van Oosten

    Narrated by Barry Abrams

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    About this audiobook

    You're trying to help-but is it working?

    Helping others is a good thing. Often, as a leader, manager, doctor, teacher, or coach, it's central to your job. But even the most well-intentioned efforts to help others can be undermined by a simple truth: We almost always focus on trying to "fix" people, correcting problems or filling the gaps between where they are and where we think they should be. Unfortunately, this doesn't work well, if at all, to inspire sustained learning or positive change.

    There's a better way. In this powerful, practical book, emotional intelligence expert Richard Boyatzis and Weatherhead School of Management colleagues Melvin Smith and Ellen Van Oosten present a clear and hopeful message. The way to help someone learn and change, they say, cannot be focused primarily on fixing problems, but instead must connect to that person's positive vision of themselves or an inspiring dream or goal they've long held. This is what great coaches do-they know that people draw energy from their visions and dreams, and that same energy sustains their efforts to change, even through difficult times. In contrast, problem-centered approaches trigger physiological responses that make a person defensive and less open to new ideas.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherAscent Audio
    Release dateSep 10, 2019
    ISBN9781469076195
    Helping People Change: Coaching with Compassion for Lifelong Learning and Growth
    Author

    Richard Boyatzis

    Richard Boyatzis is Professor and Chair of Organizational Behavior at the Weatherhead School of Management at Case Western Reserve University.

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    • 5/5
      Great advice and great flow of the book. I learned a lot.

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    • 5/5
      Great book for practicing coaches. Very practical and usable step by step model of coaching with compassion can be used by all - for the benefit of many.