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    When Loving Him Is Hurting You: Hope and Help for Women Dealing With Narcissism and Emotional Abuse
    When Loving Him Is Hurting You: Hope and Help for Women Dealing With Narcissism and Emotional Abuse
    When Loving Him Is Hurting You: Hope and Help for Women Dealing With Narcissism and Emotional Abuse
    Audiobook8 hours

    When Loving Him Is Hurting You: Hope and Help for Women Dealing With Narcissism and Emotional Abuse

    Written by Dr. David Hawkins

    Narrated by Jim Denison

    4.5/5

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    About this audiobook

    It's Okay to Have Needs of Your OwnYou fell in love with him. But over time you've come to realize he's in love with himself-and you feel trapped. His needs, his problems, and his plans always seem to take precedence over yours. Dr. David Hawkins, director of the Marriage Recovery Center, offers a guide to help you identify signs of narcissism, understand how your loved one's issues are affecting you, and prepare a biblical game plan for freeing yourself to live courageously in light of God's love. Whether the man in your life can be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), exhibits narcissistic traits and emotionally abusive behavior, or has arrogant and self-centered tendencies, the emotional pain he causes you is very real. Discover the truths, wisdom, and grace you need to spark change in your relationship, set boundaries, and experience healing.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherChristianAudio.com
    Release dateOct 1, 2017
    ISBN9781683668046
    When Loving Him Is Hurting You: Hope and Help for Women Dealing With Narcissism and Emotional Abuse

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    • 5/5
      I loved when he said something like “ love your mate even when that means loving them from a distance”

      5 people found this helpful

    • 5/5
      I’ve met many women in the church van in emotionally abusive or neglecting relationships. The church has told them to just submit and keep praying. However, the steps in this book are great! Setting boundaries is necessary! Great book! I couldn’t put it down!

      2 people found this helpful

    • 5/5
      This book delves deep into the hidden chambers of emotional abuse. This is a must read for all women who have been suffering in their marriage and feel their marriage is not salvageable. GOD WANTS US TO STAY MARRIED! The author guides you through this difficult journey by aligning biblical truth and Godly wisdom with the tools needed to rebuild a failing marriage!

      2 people found this helpful

    • 5/5
      Very insightful book which combines Christianity and therapy beautifully. Great!

      2 people found this helpful

    • 5/5
      Excellent information. David Hawkins is one of my favorite writers. He writes straight to the point. I like stories but not too many. I like it short and down to the point. Hawkins is good. I’ve read almost all his books. Highly recommend.

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      This book has been a God send. I encourage any Christian who suspects they’re in an emotionally abusive marriage to read it.

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      WOW! ????This book resonated with me to the last chapter. The hope! The encouragement to never give up! The beautiful journey of healing!

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      Very informative and helpful during this life changing time in my life and my two young boys
    • 5/5
      This book is an eye opener.I feel heard and seen. All my concerns have been validated. I am not crazy and it feels good to know that.
    • 2/5
      Last chapter's Jo seems to mentally ill,she need medicine. Abuse in marriage is like hell. I love Dr. Hawkins I never knew when I started watching his yutube vdos that He is born again. I was happy to know that I found good author and yutube channel. But in this book many woman were having 2nd home when their husband were fighting with them, woman who have unsupportive families and nive friends their life is hell. I hope Dr. David Hawkins will write about women who have abusive families from both sides
    • 5/5
      Love this book it all makes perfect sense , I feel like I am on the right path
    • 2/5
      I would love his more if it didn't mention God. Not the book for me but if your looking for guidance in religious way I guess this is it

      2 people found this helpful