Modern Family
VICKI ABARY-FAROL ON BLENDED FAMILY
“We are far from a perfect family with our own issues just like anyone else, but our beautiful, blended family is God’s blessing”
After six years of a long-distance relationship—including a year of being married—my son Enzo and I moved from the home we loved in Manila in July 2020 to be with my husband Jofer Farol and his three children Lana, Lex and Luke in San Francisco. This was planned so Enzo could graduate 8th Grade in Manila with his friends and start new in San Francisco as a high school freshman. When the time came, some questioned my choice to move in the middle of a pandemic; but Jofer and I have been waiting so long to finally be together, that there was no time like now to make this move.
The quarantine in Manila was like a test run for living in San Francisco—social distancing taught Enzo and I how it would feel not to see loved ones in person but instead see and talk with them over social messaging apps and Zoom. The days leading up to the move were the hardest on the heart, especially saying goodbyes with dear family and friends; but as soon as Jofer picked us up at the airport, we could not hide our biggest smiles. No longer would we need to count the days of our time left together, the months until we would see each other again, or feel the heartache of being apart. This was our new
