Put the ooh! in 2020

Never mind joining the gym and shelling out for a membership you’ll never use – or trying to adopt a vegan diet you’ll break within a week… In 2020 (and beyond), having a healthy sex life should be every woman’s priority, so it’s crucial you make resolutions now that are firmly based on ensuring your own pleasure.

‘Unfortunately, we’ve probably all at some point in our lives received negative messages that stop us from embracing our sexual selves,’ says Cecilia Sharp, sex expert at Lovehoney. ‘It can be hard to see yourself as worthy of pleasure, with so many mixed messages (particularly about age and appearance) flying around, and shame around sex is all too common.’

Here’s how to change all that. (And don’t fear – trying to stick to these new sex rules will be far more enjoyable than your usual resolutions. Trust us…)

I MUST… TRY SEXTING

If you think sexting (sending sexy texts) is just for teenagers, think