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Dear Therapist: The Child My Daughter Put Up for Adoption Is Now Rejecting Her

She thought that her daughter would want to meet her one day. Twenty-five years later, that’s not true.
Source: Bianca Bagnarelli

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Dear Therapist,

My daughter gave a child up for adoption about 25 years ago. She already had one child, and although I offered to help her raise both children, she felt it wouldn't be fair to us or to the baby, so she gave her up to a very nice couple, whom we both interviewed and liked. The couple has kept in touch with us both over the years, sending pictures and updates on their daughter.

My daughter always felt that in time the child

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