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Go Ahead, Talk Politics at Thanksgiving

Six in 10 Americans say they dread the topic coming up, but better to embrace the challenge than try to stave off the inevitable.
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Of all the Thanksgiving anxieties—bad traffic, overcooked turkey, undercooked turkey, the aunt who tries to get creative with some gourmet cranberry relish when all you want is the familiar canned variety, dammit, her increasingly intoxicated and querulous husband, and so on—no fear seems to equal that of getting sucked into a political conversation.

in a new NPR/PBS poll said they dread political talk at the Thanksgiving table. Four in 10 say Trump is the most likely spark for a dinner-time fight,. Journalists churn out piping hot “how to avoid political arguments with your family” takes this time of year like so many pumpkin pies. In 2012, . (TL;DR change the subject shamelessly.) A year later, my colleague Conor Friedersdorf wrote if you must (TL;DR don’t be a jerk) but cautioned, “On Thanksgiving, it's usually best if you . The subject tends to aggravate people, and it's very unlikely that anyone's mind will be changed. So don't do it.”

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