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MUNIRAH MUHAMED PADZIL LAW REVISION AND REFORM DIVISION 15 JULY 2011
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One syllable. Two letters. A complete sentence. One of the shortest words in the English language, yet one of the most difficult for women to say.
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SOUNDS FAMILIAR?
Do you have trouble saying NO? Does NO sound like a mean or selfish word to you? Are there some people to whom you've never been able to say NO? Are you afraid you'll hurt the people you care about if you say NO to them?
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SOUNDS FAMILIAR?
Do you choke on your NOs because you fear abandonment? When friends ask you to do something you don't want to do, do you invent an elaborate excuse? Do you have a hard time saying NO to an invite even when you're completely exhausted? Are you worried about not being generous enough to causes or 4your community?
SOUNDS FAMILIAR?
Are you reluctant to confront men who harass you on the street, bus, or train? Do you have trouble questioning treatments that your doctors recommend you get? When you are caring for someone who is ill, do you get overwhelmed because you can't cut back on other responsibilities? Has a dying relative made an inappropriate request that you felt you could not refuse? If you answer YES to three or more of these questions about saying NO, then you may need this book to find out how to set healthy boundaries and still preserve the 5 relationships that matter to you.
Nanette Gartrell, MD
American psychiatrist, researcher, and writer Author of over 50 research reports on topics ranging from medical student depression to lesbian mothers and their children to sexual exploitation of patients by healthcare professionals Associate clinical professor of psychiatry at the Center of Excellence in Women's Health for the University of California, San Francisco, was previously a faculty member at Harvard Medical School Ground-breaking investigation into physician misconduct led to a clean-up of professional ethics codes and the criminalization of boundary violations Dr. Gartrell has a private practice, and she volunteers her psychiatric services to
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Step 3: When you select an organization, be specific about how you plan to contribute. Step 4: No automatic renewals.
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Chapters 11 & 12. Saying NO to People Who Are Ill, Dying or Dead
Step 1: Figure out what youre most afraid of losing. Step 2: If you werent worried about disappointing your ailing relative or friend, what decision would you make? Step 3: Be realistic. Step 4: Remind yourself that your goal in setting limits with your ailing friend or family member is to preserve your own physical or 17 mental health so that you can provide the best possible care.
Chapters 11 & 12. Saying NO to People Who Are Ill, Dying or Dead
Step 5: Ask yourself, is the request reasonable? Step 6: Ask yourself, is the request appropriate? Step 7: Ask yourself, is the request doable?
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Book Details: Publisher: Free Press, January 2009 Description: Paperback, 272 pages ISBN: ISBN-10: 1416546952 ISBN-13: 9781416546955 Retail price: RM 56.90
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Thank you.
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