Signs of a Cheating Spouse

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Statistics on Infidelity and Marriage in America:

Percentage of marriages that end in divorce in America: 53% of marriages where one or both spouses admit to infidelity, either physical or emotional: 41% of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they've had: 57% of women who admit to committing infidelity in any 4/22/12 relationship they've had: 54% 22

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Sources of Information
These infidelity related information has been compiled from numerous sources, including but not limited to,

university research, psychological surveys, public polls and recordings of marriage and family counselors.
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Signs of a Cheating Spouse

Usually,

the thing that will tip you off is a change in behaviour. So, let's look at just a few of the behaviours that you might observe, if your loved one was or is being unfaithful:

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Signs of a Cheating Spouse

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Odd Behavior At Home:

Your partner or spouse
Appears Is

distant, show a lack of interest or develop an unexplained aloofness. frequently tired or lack interest in the relationship. home smelling of an unfamiliar fragrance. cologne much more often than
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Comes Wears

usual.

Gets dressed up a little too well (to) for trips to the grocery or running some other kind of errand or menial task.

Odd Behavior At Home: [Cont.]

Begins

to speak more and more

harshly to you, or is more sarcastic. Sometimes this is just

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Sudden Changes in His Appearance

Affairs and budding relationships inspire people to look their best in the eyes of the new partner. This sometimes leads to drastic cosmetic changes, such as;

New clothing, to purchase sexy underwear or lingerie

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Beginning

Work-related Signs That He/She May Be Cheating:

Your partner or spouse
Work

longer hours, more frequentlyand keep you from viewing his paycheck. his established routine with no apparent reason discouraging you from calling him at work
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Changes

Begins

Work-related Signs That He/She May Be Cheating: [cont.]

Is

often "unavailable" when you try to call him at work. calls long after you leave a message for him. to attend work functions (or any events) alone and tries to discourage you from attending. more trips for business reasons and even refuses to let you drive him to 4/22/12 10 the airport.

Returns Prefers

Takes

Telephone Mannerisms That Are Different:

Your partner or spouse
Receives You

"mysterious" phone calls.

get an increasing number of hangups or "wrong numbers" when you pick up the phone. Especially if the caller hangs up after hearing your voice and doesn't speak. Generally when a person dials a "wrong" number, they will at least ask, "Is Raj there?" before hanging up (though not always). 4/22/12 11

Telephone Mannerisms That Are Different:[cont]

Phone

bills that show unexplained toll or long distance charges. picks up the phone to answer it before you do. the room to talk on the phone. while on the phone.

Hurriedly Leaves

Whispers Suddenly

need a cell phone (or pager) and discourages you from looking at or using the phone or pager. 4/22/12 12

Paper Trails of a Cheating spouse:

Credit An

card receipts for gifts you didn't receive. increase in ATM withdrawals. Especially those from out-of-town (receipts bear a time/date stamp).Cheating costs money! To play you must pay! card receipts showing purchases from places unknown to you or that seem suspect 4/22/12 13

Credit

Paper Trails of a Cheating spouse:[Cont.]

Unusual

phone numbers appearing on

the bill.
The

duration and time of the calls appear excessive. is secretive about his cell phone bill.

He/she He/she You

starts to pay the bill himself/herself. notice business travel or other 4/22/12
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 He He

warily guards access to his computer. shuts down the computer as you walk into the room. adds password protection in his computer.

Internet Infidelity Warning Signs

He

Or

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passenger's seat is adjusted differently than you had left it. child seat out of the car for no particular reason.

Automobile Related Signs That Something is Up:

Taking

Finding

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 Keeping

Automobile Related Signs That Something is Up:[Cont.]

a change of clothes in the

trunk.
Unexplainable

mileage or a lack of additional mileage. For example, if your husband states that he went out of town yet the odometer indicates that only a distance of 5 miles had been driven. Conversely, if he says that he's only been to the office that day, yet their odometer shows many more miles had been driven, this too, may be a 17 significant matter. 4/22/12

Romance Tip-offs That Something's Wrong:

A cheating husband
Is

no longer interested in sex, or he/she makes excuses for its infrequency. to request kinky or other erotic sexual activity or suggest wildly erotic play during sex that you've never done before, including watching porn 4/22/12

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Romance Tip-offs That Something's Wrong:

Shows

a "new talent" in the bedroom (that they might have learned from the individual with whom they've been cheating) reluctant to kiss you, or show affection toward you. you for showing him attention. 4/22/12
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Appears

Criticizes

Disclaimer
Again,

let us reiterate that these behaviors are only indicators of a cheating spouse and are not absolutes. you have observed any of these signs, it does not necessarily mean that your spouse is cheating. if you have not observed any of the above signs, this does not necessarily mean that your spouse is not cheating.
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If

Similarly,

Quotation
Nothing

is more noble, nothing more venerable than fidelity. Faithfulness and truth are the most sacred excellences and endowments of the human mind.
Marcus Tullius Cicero

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