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Chapter 9
Marriage and Intimate
Relationships
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Ñigure 9.1
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Ñigure 9.5
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Ñigure 9.7
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rivor?e
Although the rate of divorce is declining (down
to 40-45%), it is still high enough to cause
concern.
Most divorces occur during the first decade of
marriage (see Figure 9.9) and usually due to:
± Infidelity.
± Jealousy.
± Growing apart.
± Foolish spending behavior.
± Drinking and drug abuse.
± Communication difficulties.
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Ñigure 9.9
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Deciding on a divorce.
± The decision to divorce is a complex one that
is usually the result of a long series of smaller
events that unfold over a long period of time.
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Adjusting to a divorce.
± Divorce is more difficult and disruptive to
women than to men, especially if there are
children.
Custodial mothers¶ incomes drop by 36%.
Fathers¶ incomes increase by 28%.
± Preoccupation with an ex-spouse is also
associated with poorer adjustment.
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Adjusting to a divorce. (cont.)
± Factors associated with favorable adjustment
after a divorce include:
Having higher income.
Getting remarried.
Having more positive attitudes about
divorce.
Being the partner who initiated the
divorce.
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Effects of divorce on children.
± After a divorce, many children exhibit:
Depression and/or anxiety.
Nightmares, dependency.
Aggression, withdrawal or distractibility.
Lowered academic performance.
Reduced physical health.
Precocious sexual behavior.
Substance abuse.
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Effects of divorce on children. (cont.)
± However, it should be noted that:
Divorce can have highly varied effects on
children that depend on a complex array
of factors.
Finally, sometimes divorce can actually
have positive effects on children IF it
reduces or removes conflict that was
present in their married parents.
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Remarriage.
± Approximately three-fourths of divorced
people eventually remarry.
± However, divorce rates are higher for
second, than for first, marriages.
± In addition, remarriage can also be difficult
for children and stepparent-stepchild
relations tend to be more negative and
distant than parent-child relations in first
marriages (see Figure 9.10).
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Ñigure 9.10
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Alternatives to Marriage
Remaining single.
± Many factors have contributed to the growth
of the single population, including:
Increased age at which people marry.
Increased rate of divorce.
± Although singles are either stereotyped as
³bitter and unhappy´ or as ³bar-hopping
socialites´, there is little support for either.
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Ñigure 9.1ÿ
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