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HAVE CONFIDENCE
• Self confidence is the difference between feeling unstoppable and feeling scared.
• Your perception of yourself has a huge impact on others and how others perceive you.
• Perception is reality - the more self confidence you have, the more likely it is you'll succeed.
• You know what confident people look like, the advantages they get and that it's something
worth emulating.
HOW TO FEEL MORE
CONFIDENT
GOOD POSTURE
GOOD POSTURE
GOOD POSTURE
• Slow,tired, painful?
• Even if you are n't in a hurry, you can increase your self confidence by putting some pep in
your step.
PANTENE SHINE STRONG VIDEO
DRESS TO IMPRESS
• If you've never taken steps to improve your wardrobe, you may not realise the dramatic effect
it can have on your confidence levels.
• When you don't look good, it affects the way you carry yourself and interact.
• When how you appear is in sync with how you want people to view you, confidence can easily
follow.
MOTIVATE YOURSELF INTO AN
EXERCISE ROUTINE YOU'LL STICK TO
GET ACTIVE!
• If getting active and staying healthy were easy,everyone would do it....but we don't.
• The effects of working out on your confidence are so overwhelming that it can't be
understated.
• When you exercise, your body releases a cocktail of endorphins making you feel positive.
LISTEN TO MOTIVATIONAL TALKS
COMPLIMENT OTHERS
• When we think negatively about ourselves, we often project that feeling on to others in the
form of insults and gossip.
• Make an effort to praise and compliment, in the process you will be appreciated and become
well liked and in the process build self confidence.
• By looking for the best in others, you bring out the best in yourself.
FRONT ROW.
SIT IN THE FRONT ROW
• In Universities and meetings around the world people constantly strive to sit at the back of
the room.
• Most people prefer the back because they're afraid of being noticed.
• By deciding to sit in the front row, you can get over this irrational fear and build your self
confidence.
• You'll also be more visible to the key people talking from the front of the room.
SPEAK UP
• During group discussions some people never speak up because they're afraid that others will
judge them for saying something stupid.
• This fear is n't really justified as people are far more accepting than we imagine.
• By making an effort to speak up at least once in every group discussion you'll become a better
public speaker and more confident in your own thoughts.
GRATITUDE
• When you focus too much on what you want, the mind creates reasons why you can't have it.
• Therefore a great strategy to avoid this is by focusing on everything you have to be grateful
for.
• If you stop thinking about yourself and concentrate on the contribution you are making to the
rest of the world, you won't worry as much about your own flaws.
FAVOURITE CAREERS QUESTION
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• My deepest belief is that there is greatness inside all of us.
• And to access it, we must align ourselves with a greater purpose, commit to
excellence, and seek to improve every day.
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1. Meditate like a Zen Buddhist Monk
– “Practicing mindfulness meditation for a few minutes each day can actually boost willpower by building
up gray matter in areas of the brain that regulate emotions and govern decision making.”
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2. Take the Magic Pill of Exercise
– “Significant decreases in perceived stress, emotional distress, smoking, alcohol and caffeine
consumption, and an increase in healthy eating, emotional control, maintenance of household chores,
attendance to commitments, monitoring of spending and an improvement in study habits”.
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– Even 5 minutes a day will make a difference but I recommend shooting for at least 30 minutes,
3 times a week.
– Find something you love (ie, if you hate running on a treadmill, DON’T do that), have fun
doing it, and work on making it a regular part of your life.
– If you don’t like exercising, it’s not because you’re “not made for it”. It’s because you haven’t
found the type of exercise that’s right for you.
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8. Create Powerful Habits, Rituals and Routines
– Building on the last point, creating rituals is a great way to remove needless decision-making from your
day.
– Once something has been turned into a habit, you don’t even have to think about it. You do it without
using any of your willpower.
– Every morning, I start my day with the same 60-minute power routine to get me in an optimal physical,
emotional and intellectual state.
– Each step of the ritual is carefully choreographed for optimal results, yet it requires no willpower on my
part because it’s engrained in my ritual.
– Look for all the ways you can “routinize” your life, and you’ll gain the double benefit of having better
habits while conserving more of your willpower.
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• To be effective at controlling our urges and making sound decisions, the prefontal cortex
needs to be looked after. That means feeding it with good-quality food so it has enough
energy to do its job and getting enough sleep.
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3. Get more sleep to help your brain manage energy
– Sleep deprivation (even just getting less than six hours a night) is a kind of chronic stress that
impairs how the body and brain use energy. The prefrontal cortex is especially hard hit and it
loses control over the regions of the brain that create cravings and the stress response
4. Meditate (for as little as 8 weeks)
– Meditation has also been linked to increasing the reserve of willpower we have available, as
well as improving attention, focus, stress management and self-awareness. McGonigal
suggests this can even give fast results:
– And it doesn’t take a lifetime of practice - brain changes have been observed after eight weeks
of brief daily meditation training.
5. Better exercise and nutrition: The most ignored route to higher willpower
– Another great way to train the brain, that is often easily ignored or undervalued, yet can make
you a lot more resilient to stress, and thus boost willpower, is regular physical exercise. Both
relaxing, mindful exercise like yoga and intense physical training can provide these benefits,
though McGonigal points out that we’re not sure why this works yet.
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– As I mentioned earlier, what you feed your body affects how much energy the prefrontal cortex has to
work with. This is why nutrition is so important:
– Something as simple as eating a more plant-based, less-processed diet makes energy more available to
brain and can improve every aspect of willpower.
– Not only will exercise and good nutrition improve your willpower, but they’ll make you feel better as
well. Exercise in particular is known for making us happy by releasing endorphins:
– These endorphins tend to minimize the discomfort of exercise, block the feeling of pain and are even
associated with a feeling of euphoria.
6. Postpone things for later to gain focus on what’s important now
– Postponing something you really shouldn’t have can be effective if you’re trying to break a bad habit. In
Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength, Roy F. Baumeister explains that people who tell
themselves “not now, but later,” are generally less tormented by the temptation of something they are
trying to avoid (his example is eating chocolate cake).
– One last thing. You might have heard of a famous experiment using marshmallows to test kids’
willpower. What happens is a child is left alone in a room with one marshmallow for an undefined period
of time. If they can resist eating the marshmallow, they’re rewarded with a second marshmallow at the
end of the experiment. If they eat the marshmallow before time is up, they only get that one.
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Killer Actions to Boost Your Self-Confidence
• Taking control of your self-confidence
• If you are low in self-confidence, is it possible to do things that will change that?
Is your self-confidence in your control?
1. Groom yourself.
2. Dress nicely.
3. Photoshop your self-image.
4. Think positive
5. Kill negative thoughts.
6. Get to know yourself
7. Act positive.
8. Be kind and generous.
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10. Know your principles and live them 22. Do something you’ve been
procrastinating on
11. Speak slowly.
23. Get active
12. Stand tall.
24. Work on small things
13. Increase competence.
25. Clear your desk
14. Set a small goal and achieve it.
15. Change a small habit.
16. Focus on solutions.
17. Smile.
18. Volunteer.
19. Be grateful.
20. Exercise.
21. Empower yourself with knowledge.
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HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR SELF-
ESTEEM
But why is building and being able to maintain high self-esteem so important?
• Life becomes simpler and lighter
• You’ll have more inner stability
• Less self-sabotage
• You’ll be more attractive in any relationship
• You’ll be happier
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But how do you improve your self-esteem in a practical way?
1. Say stop to your inner critic.
2. Use healthier motivation habits.
– Remind yourself of the benefits.
– Refocus on doing what YOU really, really like to do.
3. Take a 2 minute self-appreciation break.
4. Write down 3 things in the evening that you can appreciate about yourself.
5. Do the right thing.
6. Replace the perfectionism.
– Go for good enough.
– Remember that buying into myths of perfection will hurt you and the people in your life.
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7. Handle mistakes and failures in a more positive way
Be your own best friend
Find the upside
8. Be kinder towards other people.
9. Try something new.
10. Stop falling into the comparison trap.
11. Spend more time with supportive people (and less time with destructive people).
12. Remember the whys of high self-esteem.
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