Documenti di Didattica
Documenti di Professioni
Documenti di Cultura
OF SEXUALITY
Prepared by:
Vicenta R. Licanda
Paltok Elementary School
The Circles of
Sensuality involves our level of
Sexuality
awareness, acceptance and enjoyment of
Women can breast feed babies, men
SEX OR cannot.
GENDER?
Little girls are gentle, boys are tough.
In schools, boys are appointed
presidents, girls are secretaries
Boys are sargeantat arms, girls are
muses.
SEX OR Girls have long hair and men have short
hair.
GENDER?
Girls have monthly menstruation
Girls perform better in home economics
while boys in technology and practical
arts
Body hair is OK for men, but women have
to remove it
Male voice break at puberty
GENDER is very much related to
SEX and many people are often
confused about the distinction
between sex and gender.
•Pornography
•Fondling
•Fellatio / cunnilingus
•Prostitution
1. Grooming – Accommodation
Syndrome
CHARACTERISTICS
OF 2. Lack of consent
CHILD SEXUAL
ABUSE 3. Ambivalence
4. Exploitation
5. Force
6. Intent
7. Secrecy
FIRST
CHARACTERISTIC
1. GROOMING
ACCOMMODATION
SYNDROME
LACK OF CONSENT
SECOND
CHARACTERISTIC
Force
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safe confusing unsafe
SAFE TOUCH
are those which make the receiver feel affirmed. These touches
are experienced by the receiver (child) as warm, caring,
nurturing, supportive. They do not diminish the receiver and do
not take from the receiver. All persons need to receive this kind
TOUCH of touch.
•CAUSES OF CHILD
SEXUAL ABUSE
GROUP Group 1:
What makes a sexual offender? Why do
WORKSH they offend? What are their profile and
characteristics?
OP
Group 2:
What factors in the society that may lead or
tolerate abuse of children?
Group 3:
What factors within the child that makes
Source:
Center for the Prevention and Treatment of them wonderful victims of abuse?
Child Sexual Abuse (CPTCSA)
Finkelhor’s 1. The motivation for sex with
Four children
Preconditions
to Child 2. Overcoming internal inhibitors
Sexual Abuse
3. Overcoming external
inhibitors
• Denial of Victimization
• Condemnation of dissension
Denial of Harm:
I did it, but it didn’t hurt him, certainly not as bad as they say.
It didn’t hurt me when I was abused.
Denial of Frequency:
I did it, but only a few times, not the 20 times he says.
Second Denial of Intrusiveness:
Precondition I only fondled her.
I didn’t sodomize him, no matter what he says.
to Child
Making Excuses:
Sexual I was teaching him about sex.
I was checking her out because she said she’s hurt down there.
Abuse
Minimization of Behavior:
I only touched her.
It wasn’t a big deal.
I only put the “tip” in.
Third Overcoming external inhibitors
Precondition
External Inhibitors
to Child
Sexual – those variables protecting the child,
Abuse including parents, neighbors, teachers,
police, religious leaders, etc.
NORMS TOLERATING
Third THE ABUSE OF CHILDREN
Precondition
•Difficult implementation of laws
to Child •Lower status for women and children
Sexual •Male as head of household
Abuse •Media portrayal of women and children
as “objects”
•Adultifying children in the media
•Respect for adults and those in authority
•Religious value for family sanctity
•Religious value of forgiveness
•Children as being owned by parents
•“Mind your own business”
•Utang na loob
Overcoming the resistance
Fourth
of the child
Precondition
to Child Certain traits that all children share
Sexual that make them vulnerable to sexual
Abuse offenders include:
Nina is always courteous to you and greets you warmly. She never
accepts anything from you, such as a cookie, saying that she has been
taught by her parents not to take things from others. She looks
serious and appears very mature for her age. When she is not playing
with her friend, you see her watching her two younger sisters playing
outside. Nina’s brothers come home from school only for suppers and
you rarely see them.
You have invited the parents over for tea at times, but they never
accept, giving reasons such as the children or work at home. The
NINA’S
decision is always made by the father. During the day, Nina’s mother
will talk with you, and always tells you how wonderful her husband is.
Nina’s mother is ill often, so at times you will not see her, and when
STORY she is well again, she tells you how much help Nina is to her when she
is ill. She has never told you what makes her ill, always being vague
and changing the subject.
Nina’s mother is ill again and this time when you see her and ask how
her mother is and offer to help, Nina says her father is coming home
soon and will take care of everything. Nina will not say what is wrong
with her mother, saying she has no time because she has to walk to
NINA’S the corner store for something for supper.
STORY One day a woman knocks on your door and says she is Nina’s teacher
and asks if you know where Nina is, as nobody answers at her home.
The teacher says that Nina has not been to school for several days and
she is worried. She asked one of Nina’s brothers, but he was rude
when he responded to her.
Sama sama tayo para sa isang
LIGTAS na MUNDO para sa mga
BATA…….
Maraming Salamat …
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